The Date Brazen Podcast

I am pulling back the curtain on the Brazen Breakthrough nine-step framework. This week I am going to walk you through the first tenant of the Brazen Breakthrough, thought work. I explore some ways in which your thoughts are creating your reality about your dating life. And, I share a practice that will help you get back into the driver seat of your thoughts and move forward with self-compassion and self-forgiveness. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3qPaeo8 DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/datebrazen

Tune in to hear three steps to get out of anxious spiraling or future-tripping, and back into believing what is actually possible for your dating life. When you think about your life and you think, “Wow, I really want a partner,” it’s not that you need someone to be whole. Instead, you simply desire a person to share your life with. If that hasn’t happened for you yet, you may feel frustrated.  Finding the love of your life is possible.  SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3jRW7M4 DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/datebrazen  

This week I am sharing how the Brazen Breakthrough can help you go from feeling lonely and sorrowful in your dating life to one of confidence, empowered, and actionable. I give you a taste of how my transformational, signature coaching program can get you out of suffering and into empowered action in your dating life.  When you intentionally invest time, energy, and, yes, money into your dating life to help build an abundant strategy that focuses on you, your life changes. I want that for you, my gorgeous friend, I truly do. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3jtg3Vz BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH WAITLIST: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/BrazenBreakthrough LIVE MASTERCLASS FOR BADASS SINGLE WOMEN: http://datebrazen.com/masterclass

Self-trust is really hard. I had an assumption that self-trust was something you were born with or not. Turns out that assumption is B.S. But, how can you trust the decisions you make in your dating life if you’ve had bad relationships in the past? This week I am going to provide some strategies you can take to increase your capacity to trust yourself in your dating life. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/2YyJU5l BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH WAITLIST: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/BrazenBreakthrough CELEBRATE YOUR SINGLE-SELF CHALLENGE: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/challenge LIVE MASTERCLASS FOR BADASS SINGLE WOMEN: http://datebrazen.com/masterclass  

Does this sound like you? You are successful in your career. In fact, you are successful in almost every area of your life, yet when it comes to dating, you feel like you are less than.  Well, my gorgeous friend, you are not alone. My client Kate has been there, done that, and is here this week to talk all about it. She opens up about what her dating life was like before, during, and after joining the Brazen Breakthrough. Kate dishes on all things dating and life. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3obB1Je BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH WAITLIST: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/BrazenBreakthrough CELEBRATE YOUR SINGLE-SELF CHALLENGE: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/challenge

I am sharing three ways to get out of loneliness and into belonging in your dating life. Because, dating, most of the time, is lonely and frustrating.  A few years back, I was in a toxic relationship. Following that dating experience, I was stewing in a hot soup of loneliness. If that sounds like you, I want to support you. So today I offer three ways you can get out of loneliness. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3inEUtj BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH WAITLIST: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/BrazenBreakthrough CELEBRATE YOUR SINGLE-SELF CHALLENGE: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/challenge

Dating is a hotbed of patriarchal, conventional bullshit. For example: "Laugh more on a date. Boys like girls who are jovial. Be more of a mystery. Guys like the thrill of the chase. Ask more questions. Get on all the dating apps because it's a number's game." Translation: Dating successfully means making yourself smaller, talking less, going on more dates, lowering your standards— #bullshit.  In this episode, I shine the light on how dating can be a feminist act and what dating from an intersectional feminist lens can look like. When you permit yourself to want what you want, you extend that permission to others around you. How you date is an expression of who you are as a woman in the world.  I want you to find your life's most extraordinary love with the emotional tools you need to do so. Finding love on your terms is possible; figuring out how to do so on your terms and how you plan to show up is the first step.  SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/35yXV6U BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH WAITLIST: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/BrazenBreakthrough CELEBRATE YOUR SINGLE-SELF CHALLENGE: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/challenge  

I wanted to start the new year with one of my favorite parts of last year: The Finding Your Fearless Retreat which we held in December. During the retreat, I gave a lesson on boundaries and, today, I am sharing that session with you! You'll hear the dating boundaries I recommend you create to invite in more abundance, how to craft boundaries to invite in more self-care, how to protect your heart, and find people who are right for you.  I wanted to share this lesson with you because my words for 2021 are abundance and ease. While boundaries may not be easy to create or enforce, when you're able to set them clearly and support yourself in developing them, they bring more comfort to your everyday life. I'm so excited for you to listen, and I am so excited to be your dating coach in 2021. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3rSwnD0 DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/datebrazen  

A new year is almost here. For the last episode of 2020, I wanted to set the stage so that you can build your 2021 dating strategy with focus and compassion. When I say strategy, I don’t mean swiping in a specific way on dating apps or playing a numbers game.  Instead, your dating strategy is knowing what you want, the actions that can lead you to find what you are looking for, and how to protect your heart and cognitive load in the process. To help you build your dating strategy, I’ve come up with three questions to ask yourself. These questions will help you to reflect on what worked in 2020, what didn’t, and what you should (or shouldn’t) focus on in the year to come. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/34BdhHv DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/datebrazen

When is pickiness a problem versus when your preferences are perceived as picky by others - that’s the topic of this week’s episode. "Why haven't I found my person yet? Maybe I am just too picky?"  Sound familiar?   PIckiness can be a problem when the story you tell yourself is that nobody is good enough for you. I share why that type of story is typically rooted in past trauma and past self-protection; and what you can do about it.  I also explore how dating from a place of abundance instead of proving something or someone wrong helps you attract people you align with and are excited to be around.  In other words, when you stop trying to please others and instead turn the focus on your wants and needs, your person will gravitate towards you.  As you listen to this episode, ask yourself these questions: What do I sincerely want? How can I permit myself to be authentic? And, how can I work on remaining open to being surprised? Chances are, my gorgeous friend, you are not too picky. But that doesn't mean there isn't some work to be done.  SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3h6s2qK DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram/com/datebrazen