The Date Brazen Podcast
Lily Womble
How do I find the right relationship when dating apps suck? How can I find better dates? How can I deal with that nagging anxiety that no one is out there for me? How can I navigate dating with more confidence and find that right relationship?
Welcome to The Date Brazen Podcast, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life.
After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same.
If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you.
Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.
Welcome to The Date Brazen Podcast, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life.
After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same.
If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you.
Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.
Episodes
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May 11, 2021 • 20min
60. Bless and Release: How to make room for the “Hell, Yes!” people in your life
This week I am responding to a listener’s email, let’s call this listener Jen. Jen recently wrote in asking how to reply to men who text or call to “check-in”, AFTER they have broken up with her. Here’s an excerpt from her email: “I don't want to be someone's backburner chick. I want to be a Number 1 gal! So what should I do in this situation--is ghosting appropriate (is it even ghosting)? Or does your "clarity is kindness" mantra mean that I should respond directly letting them know that I don't wish to stay in contact as a romantic partner or friend?” In this episode, I break down a simple bless and release method that will help Jen (and listeners out there who need to hear it!) live into her, “Yes!” When you can set a boundary, bless and release; you make more room for people in your life who are a “Hell, yes!” to you. SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-make-room-for-hell-yes-people-in-your-life APPLY FOR THE BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH: https://calendly.com/brazen-lily/brazen-breakthrough-application
May 4, 2021 • 23min
59. How to Own Your Story and Create a Different Ending
A lot of my work includes figuring out how to lovingly interrogate the stories that we’ve built up about our romantic past and experience. In this episode, I’ll explore how to let go of the thoughts that you're not worthy, how to step back from taking everything personally and how to defy the ending to that story you learned long ago. SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-own-your-story-and-create-a-different-ending APPLY FOR THE BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH: https://calendly.com/brazen-lily/brazen-breakthrough-application
Apr 27, 2021 • 35min
58. How Maddie built a dating action plan and found love
Today I am joined by Maddie, who just finished the Brazen Breakthrough in March. In this episode, she opens up about the blocks she was experiencing in her dating life before joining the mastermind, she reflects upon her time in the cohort and talks about what success looks like for her now. Maddie also describes how she took what she learned, made it her own, and claimed exactly what she desired. APPLY FOR BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH MASTERMIND: https://calendly.com/brazen-lily/brazen-breakthrough-application SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-maddie-built-a-dating-action-plan-and-found-love
Apr 20, 2021 • 50min
57. How to listen to your body with Steph Gaudreau
This week, I am joined by Steph Gaudreau, a nutritional therapy, intuitive eating, and strength training expert. She helps purpose-driven women like you, learn to build stronger bodies and healthier relationships with food. We hope you come away from this conversation empowered to be in a beautiful relationship with yourself and then with others. It is an Invitation to learn to trust yourself. APPLY FOR BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH MASTERMIND: https://calendly.com/brazen-lily/brazen-breakthrough-application SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-listen-to-your-body
Apr 13, 2021 • 34min
56. How to build swagger-level confidence with Anniedi Essien
This week, Anniedi Essien, Chief Swagger Officer at Idem Spark, joins me for a discussion about owning your unique identity and rocking your confidence. Tune in to hear how to build swagger-level confidence that will have you attracting ideal jobs, clients, and yes - even potential mates. SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-build-swagger-level-confidence
Apr 6, 2021 • 24min
55. How to Build An Irresistible Dating Profile
Your dating profile can be a unique and authentic expression of who you are and what you desire. Through a deeper lens, I wanted to explore how you can rebuild your dating profile to be attractive to the right people and disqualify the wrong people for you with ease. Most often, dating profiles are trying to cater to everyone who views them. Here’s the thing, my gorgeous friend, you are for the few and not the many. In this episode, I share some strategies you can use to rebuild your dating profile to showcase the most important person in your life - you. You are uniquely qualified for the love of your life. Why wouldn’t you want a profile unique to your dating life too? SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3uniqxh 3-STEP GUIDE TO MAKE DATING FEEL LIKE SELF-CARE: https://date-brazen.ck.page/c651f5218e
Mar 30, 2021 • 22min
54. Dating apps are not the answer
Here’s a truth bomb for you: dating apps suck. They are supposed to make your dating life easier. Instead, they can be soul-sucking and addictive. Today I am talking about why dating apps are not the answer to your dating life and what the answer can be instead. You deserve better. You deserve better than the download-delete cycle. You deserve a clear path forward that prioritizes you. SHOW NOTES: http://datebrazen.com/blog/dating-apps-are-not-the-answer DATE LIKE A BADASS IS OPEN - CHECK IT OUT HERE:https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/date-like-a-badass
Mar 16, 2021 • 19min
52. Lessons from the Brazen Breakthrough: Choosing questions that qualify the right people (and disqualify the rest)
Learn how to choose bold and meaningful questions to qualify dates and avoid wasting time. Discover the importance of crafting qualifying and disqualifying questions to find 'your person'. Embrace curiosity and surround yourself with supportive individuals in your dating life.
Mar 9, 2021 • 15min
51. Lessons from The Brazen Breakthrough: Claiming your deeper preferences
This week I walk you through how to claim a bold vision for your dating preferences and why doing so is essential for your dating life. When it comes to preferences, most people are very aware of their checklist preferences - things like age, height, location, religion, and education. And, this is where most people stop. But you can deepen your checklist preferences. In this episode, I’ll show you how. Additionally, you’ll learn how having clear, essence-based preferences can aid you in making empowered choices about dating with ease. SHOW NOTES: http://datebrazen.com/blog/claiming-your-deeper-preferences DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/datebrazen
Mar 2, 2021 • 19min
50. Lessons from the Brazen Breakthrough: The Relationship Reflection Guide
Today we are going to dive into another lesson from my coaching experience, The Brazen Breakthrough. I will share how my relationship reflection guide can help you review past relationships and move forward with self-compassion. Why is reflection work important? Because how you relate to your past relationships says a lot about how you relate to yourself in your dating life. When I was so caught up in the hurt of a past relationship, I was relating to myself in shame and embarrassment. The relationship reflection guide helps you take an intentional look in the rearview mirror and allows you to see: How your past relationships influenced your present experience in your dating life. The truths about your dating life from your past relationships. Your survival stories. SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/the-relationship-reflection-guide DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/datebrazen
