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Not For Everyone

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Mar 14, 2024 • 1h 19min

64. Hot Takes Only: Staying Friends with Your Ex, Period Sex, and Shrek

Get ready for a sizzling conversation on staying friends with your ex and the juicy details of period sex! The hosts hilariously debate the mispronunciation of 'espresso' and dive into the emotional weight of Instagram likes. Nostalgia hits as they reflect on the charm of 'Shrek' while balancing it with amusing foot care discussions. From astrology to hygiene habits, this lively exchange mixes humor with relatable insights. Plus, get tips on handling internet feedback like a pro!
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Mar 7, 2024 • 1h 4min

63. Not For People Pleasing + Other Obvious Realizations That Changed Our Lives

This podcast delves into adult friendships, people pleasing breakthroughs, and the struggle of putting on a show in social situations. Are you really an introvert or just draining your social battery? Plus, giggles about bell pepper dilemmas, corporate lingo, and a life-changing weekend hack. Let's hang, dawgs!
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Feb 29, 2024 • 1h 12min

62. Not for Botox + A Snail Story You’ll Never Forget

Not For Everyone is basically a beauty podcast now. Jess and Caroline discuss venturing into the Botox world, witnessing the aging process, and parents' chaotic relationship to their children’s acne-ridden faces. They also consider life’s deepest questions, like how did we learn to do makeup without YouTube? Caroline is weirdly obsessed with smell this episode, so get ready for some sweaty takes that might involve snails. Plus, the kooks were correct: Caroline admits she may, in fact, look a bit like Tom Hiddleston. Help Jess and Caroline figure out who Jess’ doppelganger is — and also how Jess can bring a boombox successfully to a party. It’s not easy work being DJs, but sighhhhh…..someone has to do it.__ This episode was produced by none other than our prince, Abi Newhouse. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DM her⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for your audio editing needs! __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! And SUBSCRIBE on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for full episode video. Plus FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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Feb 22, 2024 • 1h 6min

61. Hater Hour: How to Survive Your Anxiety + WHATADO One-Sided Friendships

In a solo recording, Caroline opens up about the big thing she has been avoiding talking about on the podcast - including the tips and tools for surviving the worst of your anxiety. She also responds to a listener WHATADO about what to do when you find yourself stuck in a one-sided friendship, with major boundary violations and messy complications. Various Trader Joes reflections included. Kisses! RESOURCES [Book] The Emotionally Exhausted Woman [Book] The Power of Off: The Mindful Way to Stay Sane in a Virtual World [Event] ]Workshop at the Integral Yoga Institute [Article] ⁠Being in A Relationship Without Abandoning Yourself⁠ [Book] Radical Acceptance __ This episode was produced by your one and only hater, Caroline Winkler. __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! And SUBSCRIBE on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for full episode video. Plus FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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Feb 15, 2024 • 1h 16min

60. WHATADO: Friends with Benefits, Boundaries with Your Boss, and Wedding Season

In this podcast, the hosts give non-expert advice on friends with benefits, workplace boundaries, and wedding invitations. They also discuss topics like the softness of butts, going to therapy, and why we wash our towels. The podcast offers entertaining insights and relatable stories on various life situations.
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Feb 8, 2024 • 1h 1min

59. Not for the Luteal Phase + Feeling Stuck After Years of Therapy

Another episode full of lukewarm takes, cyclical insights, and "that's so funny" reactions, this week Jess and Caroline show up with nothing to give but complaints and bad jokes. First, Jess is no impressionist - and also apparently no standup - as she *corporate gulps* her way through a series of failed jokes that forced her to quit her comedy class. Meanwhile, Caroline be lutin' (scientific term for in the luteal phase of her menstrual cycle), leaving little room for laughter but a lot of room for spiraling about therapy. This deadly combo concludes with the reveal of an upcoming surprise, an analysis of gifts as a love language, and a referral to a new form of therapy that both of our hosts desperately need. __ This episode was produced by your lover, Jess DeBakey. __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! And SUBSCRIBE on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for full episode video. Plus FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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Feb 1, 2024 • 1h 9min

58. Not for Codependent Patterns + The Problem with Imposter Syndrome

Jess and Caroline are just two sporty girls who are too busy collecting baby teeth and committing to unnecessary extracurriculars to keep a busy schedule. But here they gather on a Sunday morning ready to repeat to you exactly what their therapists said this week. First, Jess is thinking about quitting a hobby that no one told her to pick up. Who know that was even possible?! Caroline talks her through it and then offers deeper context and examples on a hard hitting truth shared in last episode: Peace is letting people be wrong about you. The two go back and forth on when and how this can apply, even diving into one of the hardest areas to put this advice into practice: with family. A hot take on imposter syndrome, affirming tarot card reading, and idiotic musings on time zones, middle age, and more round out the episode. Pee break! __ This episode was produced by NFE's #1 hater, Caroline Winkler. __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! And SUBSCRIBE on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for full episode video. Plus FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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Jan 25, 2024 • 1h 7min

57. Not for Self Doubt Spirals + Our First Fight

The podcast hosts discuss navigating conflict in their relationships, share their first fight as podcast partners, and ponder the question of whether size matters. They also explore the revitalizing effect of anger, the frustration of ear pimples, and the importance of support in overcoming struggles. Additionally, they delve into self-doubt in creativity, building trust in relationships, and finding the right business or creative partner.
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Jan 18, 2024 • 1h 5min

56. Not for Instagram + Choosing Between Ambition and Self Care

The hater and lover are reunited after a month of doing absolutely nothing besides sending each other bedtime texts. Caroline does have one more thing to show for her break, though: a new sport she’s invented. Or at least a concept that will improve the sporting experience for her? The details aren’t important. The two move onto bigger topics as Caroline shares a Tony Robbins quote that stirred her into action recently: “the path of least resistance will never make you happy.” She’s happily taking on new challenges in her work, while Jess shares a story of turning down a new opportunity in favor of balance and long-term goals. She even references a book (*gasp!*), Radical Candor by Kim Scott, to elucidate her point. They settle on the hard truth that periods of ambition can only exist thanks to periods of rest, and discipline is in the eye of the beholder. Finally, a couple of dating red flags that SEEM fine, until you get a good morning text from a Hinge dude who thinks he should run for president. Also referenced in the episode: this podcast episode featuring NFE Producer, Abi Newhouse! __ This episode was produced by NFE's #1 hater, Caroline Winkler. __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! And SUBSCRIBE on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for full episode video. Plus FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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Jan 11, 2024 • 53min

55. Jess Thots: Ins and Outs for 2024 + Less Mothering More Mommying

In this podcast, Jess shares her ins and outs for 2024, discusses challenges in romantic relationships, and talks about hot takes and trends for the year. She also addresses her preference for tea over coffee and the decline in popularity of plants as home decor.

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