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Jan 30, 2025 • 1h 18min

107. Not For Sharing a Bed + Let's Figure Out WHY You Feel Depleted

The hosts dive into their shared frustrations over the quest for the perfect lamp, sparking a humorous critique of home decor. They discuss the delicate balance between shared sleeping arrangements and personal space, emphasizing the importance of communication in relationships. The conversation touches on feelings of depletion, social boundaries, and self-care strategies while navigating winter blues. With a playful nod to NPCs, they explore the unexpected emotional significance of everyday interactions. It's a mix of humor, personal anecdotes, and insightful reflections.
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Jan 23, 2025 • 1h 27min

106. Hot Takes Only: TikTok, Corporate Greed, and an Underrated Dating Red Flag

Go to Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ This frigid winter really needs to go…so Jess and Caroline are bringing the heat. They collected a few listener hot takes to discuss on this week’s episode, including naps, TikTok, straight men who only have female friends, licking envelopes, passive aggressiveness, work colleagues, and airplane trash.  Unsurprisingly, their opinions lead to some deep chats about redefining “community,” the difference between character and demeanor, the slippery slope of money vs. values, and a little rant on listener misunderstandings. This might be the first time you turn off your heat in a while, because J and C supplied it for you. __ This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse (⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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Jan 16, 2025 • 1h 11min

105. Not for Wife Guys + Blake Lively and the One Thing No One is Talking About

The hosts dive into the emotional rollercoaster of holiday family dynamics, sharing laughs over classic Christmas movies. They tackle societal pressures around body image, discussing everything from menstruation to innovative underwear designs. There's a candid conversation about the recent legal drama surrounding Blake Lively and the pitfalls of oversharing celebrity relationships. With humor and heartfelt moments, they reflect on both the absurdities of fame and the importance of personal comfort.
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Jan 9, 2025 • 1h 5min

104. Not For TikTok Dances + Forgetting Your Pain is a Big Mistake

Join the hosts as they dive into the rollercoaster of feelings and nostalgia surrounding college experiences! They humorously tackle misconceptions about TikTok trends, reflecting on their dance journey during the pandemic. Hear poignant discussions about grief and the necessity of processing emotional pain for personal growth. Plus, enjoy a playful chat about favorite candies and the costs of knitting. Perfect for listeners looking for laughs and heartfelt reflections!
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Jan 2, 2025 • 1h 24min

103. WHATADO: Embracing Where You Are While Pursuing More in 2025

In a lively discussion about 2025 goals, the hosts tackle finding motivation and coping with emotional swings. They share comedic gripes about New Year's traditions and advocate for simpler living by unplugging from technology. As they navigate balancing careers with passion projects, they explore the nuances of side hustles and the significance of self-care. Plus, they dive into the journey of embracing singlehood, encouraging listeners to find joy in independence while keeping love on the horizon. Tune in for a mix of humor and heartfelt advice!
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Dec 19, 2024 • 1h 17min

102. Not for Resentment + How to Believe You Deserve Affection

The hosts dive into a playful discussion about owls and mispronounced words, leading to humorous moments about intimacy. They explore the art of initiating sex in relationships, highlighting the importance of affection and communication. A lively debate on gender roles in partnerships reveals how modern couples redefine their dynamics. Amidst thoughtful reflections on resentment and personal boundaries, they end with lighthearted banter about quirky holiday traditions and resolutions, circling back to owls—this time en français!
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Dec 12, 2024 • 1h 3min

101. Interrogating Our Boyfriends | Part TWO

In this engaging discussion, Justin, Jess DeBakey's boyfriend, shares insights on navigating the modern dating scene. They debate how long to chat on dating apps before meeting up and who should take the initiative to ask someone out. They delve into whether to have sex on the first date, highlighting the need for mutual understanding and intentionality. Additionally, Justin and Jess share humorous dating app stories that bring a light-hearted touch to the complexities of romantic connections.
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Dec 5, 2024 • 1h 33min

100. How We Actually Found Love on the Apps | Featuring Our Boyfriends

Four friends, who met through dating apps, share their hilarious and insightful experiences in the world of online romance. They tackle everything from picking the right profile pictures to reviving dull conversations. Laughter ensues as they reveal dating dealbreakers and unexpected connections. With stories of their first dates and a playful discussion on navigating modern dating dynamics, they remind us of the importance of authenticity and meaningful connections in the digital age.
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Nov 21, 2024 • 1h 19min

99. Not For Pity Invites + Mini Adventures as Self Care

Caroline and Jess dive into everyday adventures, revealing how stepping outside can spark joy. They share whimsical thoughts on encountering owls and the quirks of social media. The importance of genuine invitations and the pitfalls of insincere offers take center stage, paired with humorous tales from a taco bar. Reflecting on teenage trials and the awkwardness of growing up, they blend humor with insights on creativity, boundaries, and self-care. Get ready for laughter and a few stomach flips along the way!
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Nov 14, 2024 • 1h 23min

98. For You: Saying No.

Babies…why is it so hard to say no? Jess and Caroline are going to break it down. First up, saying no to an old friend who you don’t vibe with anymore. Second, how to say no to your mom when she’s pushing religion on you. Third, how to say no to…yourself. They talk dynamics, they talk showing up calmly, they talk boundaries. And they push back when necessary.Plus, are they really scientists? They discuss a few lighter topics like stretching, pigeons (!?), and Jess gives her own example of saying no recently—and how that was turned on its head. We’re all not for everyone; “no” is a central part of the phrase.__This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠__Share with a friend!Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app!Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠And don't forget about our MERCH store: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://not4everyonepod.myshopify.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠__Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA__DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!

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