

Beyond Gender
Stella O'Malley, Mia Hughes, Bret Alderman
What’s really going on with gender—and how does it connect to wider cultural shifts? Psychotherapist Stella O’Malley, researcher Mia Hughes, and psychologist Bret Alderman explore how debates around gender, identity, psychology, and medicine open up bigger questions about culture, society, and mental health. With guests ranging from doctors and therapists to parents and detransitioners, they offer honest, thoughtful discussions—no jargon, no ideology.
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Feb 21, 2025 • 1h 30min
Why Smart People Believe Stupid Things - Gurwinder Bhogal - #1
Gurwinder Bhogal, a writer and cultural commentator renowned for dissecting misinformation, joins the discussion. He dives into why intelligence may not equate to truth, shedding light on how educated individuals often cling to delusions. The conversation touches on the impact of social media on tribalism and identity politics, while also exploring modern activism's pitfalls. With insights from his background in tech and psychology, he reveals the complexities of our narratives and the societal forces that influence them.

Feb 20, 2025 • 1h 10min
Welcome to Beyond Gender - #0
In this first episode of Beyond Gender, hosts Stella O’Malley, Mia Hughes, and Bret Alderman discuss why they launched the podcast and explore how beliefs about gender have changed over time. They examine why so many young people are questioning their identity, the role of media and medicine, and the difficulty of standing up for basic truths in today’s world.How Our Hosts Got HereEach host of Beyond Gender describes distinct moments that drew them into these complex debates:Stella O'MalleyAs a psychotherapist who experienced extreme gender issues as a child, Stella had always kept an eye on trans issues. In 2017, reading about Cyril Doty, a non-binary parent seeking a "U" gender marker for their baby, sparked her to write for Ireland's Sunday Independent - her first article requiring legal review. This led to her presenting the documentary Trans Kids: It's Time to Talk.Another pivotal moment came when she read Janice Turner's article about Tara Wolf, "a 27-year-old male" who punched "Maria MacLachlan in the face," which she shared with a radio producer, calling it "the most insane article I've ever read in my life."Mia HughesJ.K. Rowling's December 19, 2019 tweet supporting Maya Forstater marked Mia's awakening, as she saw "absolute mayhem" and people "losing their minds" when Rowling supported "basic facts about humanity."This led to her first viral thread in 2021 about "peaking" her woke Canadian friends with evidence about autogynephilia, homophobia in trans activism, and what she calls "the greatest medical scandal in the history of modern medicine."Bret AldermanBret's understanding emerged through his academic work examining postmodernism and language in his book Eternal Youth and the Myth of Deconstruction, research he was conducting before recognizing its connection to gender ideology.His moment of realization came in 2016 with the Caitlyn Jenner Vanity Fair cover and pronouns controversy, followed by Jordan Peterson's stance on compelled speech.Next EpisodeWhy Smart People Believe Stupid Things with Gurwinder BhogalPremieres Friday, February 21 | 6:00 AM ESTFull show notes.

Feb 20, 2025 • 1min
Episode #0 Promo
Stella O’Malley, Mia Hughes, and Bret Alderman discuss how beliefs about gender have changed over time, the media’s role, and why so many young people are questioning their identity.

Feb 19, 2025 • 2min
Gurwinder Bhogal (#1) - Promo
Gurwinder Bhogal is a writer and cultural commentator known for his sharp take on misinformation, identity politics, and how narratives shape society.He’s also one of our favorite Substack bloggers, best known for his article, Why Smart People Believe Stupid Things, which was adapted into an animated story by @AfterSkool.In this episode, we take a deep dive into why intelligence can actually make people more susceptible to self-delusion, how social media fuels tribalism, and why academia and media incentivize misinformation.