

Beyond Gender
Stella O'Malley, Mia Hughes, Bret Alderman
What’s really going on with gender—and how does it connect to wider cultural shifts? Psychotherapist Stella O’Malley, researcher Mia Hughes, and psychologist Bret Alderman explore how debates around gender, identity, psychology, and medicine open up bigger questions about culture, society, and mental health. With guests ranging from doctors and therapists to parents and detransitioners, they offer honest, thoughtful discussions—no jargon, no ideology.
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Jun 12, 2025 • 1h 7min
Narcissists Are Destroying Society – Joshua Slocum (#17)
“To a close approximation, I would, quote, diagnose the West as having a thoroughgoing case of borderline and narcissistic personality disorders.”What if the same psychological abuse tactics you escaped from your childhood home are now running our political culture? Josh Slocum saw it first in his borderline mother's rages, then in his leftist activist circles, and now everywhere: the emotional manipulation, reality distortion, and performative victimhood of Cluster B personality disorders have infected the body politic. A former funeral industry reformer turned cultural critic, Slocum brings 20 years of nonprofit leadership and personal trauma recovery to decode our narcissistic age. His message is blunt: we're being governed by the psychological rules of the personality disordered, and the only cure is learning to say "no."Full shownotes: https://stellaomalley.substack.com/p/cluster-b-politics-an-abuse-survivors

Jun 5, 2025 • 1h 33min
Disgust, Dating, and Autogynephilia: An Evolutionary Psychologist's Taboo Takes - Diana Fleischman
Buckle up for evolutionary psychology without guardrails. Diana Fleischman tackles the questions everyone thinks but nobody asks: Why do women feel visceral disgust at pregnant “transmen”? Why did #MeToo accidentally break dating? Could autogynephilia be men trying to psychologically "hunt" women? A polyamorous mother of two who openly advocates eugenics, Fleischman brings hard science to our softest taboos. She explains why your disgust reflexes know things your politics don't, why patriarchy might be "the natural order," and how millions of years of evolution shape today's gender wars. No apologies, no euphemisms - just data that nobody wants to hear.Full show notes: https://stellaomalley.substack.com/p/disgust-dating-and-autogynephilia

May 29, 2025 • 1h 26min
Why Journalists Won’t Investigate the Trans Medical Industry -Gerald Posner (#15)
What do you call a Pulitzer finalist, former lawyer, and veteran pharma investigator who dares to ask the questions no one else will?In this episode, Gerald Posner pulls back the curtain on the trans medical industry — exposing how profit motives, off-label drug loopholes, and institutional cowardice have allowed ideology to trump science. With chilling parallels to the opioid crisis, Posner warns: we’ve seen this before.

May 22, 2025 • 58min
From Harvard Lawyer to Anti-Woke Leader: Monica Harris on Race and Truth (#14)
🎙️ “Everything I Believed Was a Lie” — Monica Harris Breaks the SilenceWhat happens when a Harvard-trained lawyer, raised to trust the system, starts questioning everything?In this episode, Monica Harris, former Disney executive, media insider, and now Executive Director of FAIR (Foundation Against Intolerance and Racism) reveals how she walked away from elite institutions, exposed the illusion of racial division, and discovered a deeper truth about race, media, and power in America.

May 15, 2025 • 56min
What Happens When a Generation Grows Up Without Reality – Jaco van Zyl (#13)
Psychologist Jaco van Zyl explores how Western culture's shift from duty to gratification is harming young people's psychological development. From the dangers of gentle parenting to the allure of "my truth," this conversation dives deep into what we're getting wrong—and how we can build something better.

May 8, 2025 • 1h
How They’ve Turned a Generation Into Medical Conformists - Frank Furedi
“Family life is much more problematic now than it was in the past.”In this episode, sociologist and author Frank Furedi reflects on his journey from radical politics to critiquing identity politics and therapy culture. He unpacks how ideological movements target children, reshape families, and transform education across Europe.

May 1, 2025 • 1h 2min
The Internet Broke Reality – And They Can’t Fix It - Michael Nanya (#11)
“It’s a heartbreaking time to live in — we’re so fragmented.”In this episode of Beyond Gender, filmmaker Michael Nayna unpacks how viral media, academic hoaxes, and ideological capture have reshaped our institutions. From filming a racist incident that went global, to exposing bias in academia through the Grievance Studies Affair, Nayna gives a rare inside look at the cultural unraveling across media, education, and tech — and what it all means for the future.

Apr 24, 2025 • 1h 6min
The Philosopher Who REJECTS Gender Identity - Holly Lawford-Smith (#10)
In this episode of Beyond Gender, philosopher Holly Lawford-Smith unpacks why the word "woman" has become controversial—and what gender critical feminism is really about. She challenges mainstream narratives on gender, identity, and feminism, and explains why fighting for women’s rights shouldn’t be confined to the political left.

Apr 17, 2025 • 1h 4min
He Transitioned, Regretted It, and Faced the Truth About Autogynephilia - Ray (#9)
Ray shares his raw and honest journey from childhood cross-dressing to eight years living as a trans woman, and ultimately finding peace through detransition. He reflects on autogynephilia, gender ideology, and what he’s learned about himself—and the wider conversation on gender.

Apr 10, 2025 • 1h 22min
The DSM Author Who Warned About Overdiagnosis - Allen Frances (#8)
Dr. Allen Frances, who chaired the DSM-IV Task Force, joins us for a candid and at times tense conversation. Known for his warnings about psychiatric overdiagnosis, Frances shares insights on the medicalisation of ordinary life, the autism diagnosis boom, and his philosophy of diagnostic caution. But the discussion takes an unexpected turn when it comes to gender dysphoria, revealing a sharp divergence between his views and those of the hosts. This episode is a striking example of respectful disagreement on a deeply complex issue.


