You Are Not Broken

Sexual Empowerment, Reframing Pain,  Autism Experiences, Sex Work and More This is a wide-ranging conversation, and I hope you enjoy it! Suzannah Weiss is a feminist writer and sexologist. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. Offering a deeply personal account and powerful critique of sexual empowerment movements, Suzannah Weiss presents a way forward that focuses more on what women desire, and less on what men desire from them. She makes a bold yet compassionate call for women everywhere to inhabit their bodies and hearts ― to remain connected to their inner eye and their inner "I," even in a world where they are disproportionately "you," "she," or "them." Takeaways Reframing attitudes towards menopause is important to celebrate the positives of this life phase and challenge societal beliefs that devalue women in menopause. The objectification of older women in medical contexts can lead to dismissive treatment of issues related to desire and pleasure, highlighting the need for more inclusive and comprehensive healthcare. Understanding and addressing period pain requires recognizing that pain experiences vary among individuals, and it is essential to validate and investigate severe pain rather than dismissing it as normal. The orgasmic birthing movement promotes a positive and pleasurable birthing experience, emphasizing presence, breathwork, and sensory awareness to enhance the intensity and pleasure of childbirth. Supporting autistic individuals in dating and sexuality involves celebrating their strengths and unique experiences, promoting positive relationships, and challenging societal stereotypes and assimilation efforts. Pleasing and empowering women in the bedroom requires men to understand and respect boundaries, communicate openly, and prioritize mutual pleasure and consent. Changing attitudes towards masculinity and sex work involves recognizing the potential for men to use their sexuality for good, promoting respect and consent, and challenging societal shame and stigma around sex work. Teaching meaningful consent and embodied consent involves tuning into one's body and feelings to determine consent, promoting open communication, and reframing consent as an ongoing process rather than a one-time agreement. Subjectified by Suzannah Weiss You can find her on Twitter (@suzannahweiss) or Instagram (@weisssuzannah). FirmTech sponsors this podcast today. Go to ⁠myfirmtech.com⁠ and enter code NOTBROKEN for 15% off today. Our other amazing podcast sponsors To learn more about Solv Wellness and their products for female pelvic health, visit ⁠solvwellness.com⁠ for 30% off your first purchase of any product. Discount automatically applied at checkout. Women of all ages deserve to feel fantastic. And we can—because there is relief to be found. Go to ⁠myalloy.com⁠ to start your virtual appointment today. Use code NOTBROKEN20 it's good for $20 off any purchase, one time use, and expires July 31, 2024 Listen to my Tedx Talk: Why we need adult sex ed Take my NEW Adult Sex Ed Master Class: https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/adult-sex-ed Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP, a private facebook group to discuss and my private accountability group for your health, hormones and life support! www.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Morgantaler debunks misconceptions around testosterone, challenges gender biases, and discusses the impact of Women's Health Initiative study. He explores testosterone therapy benefits, reluctance of doctors to advocate for it, insurance coverage challenges, and exciting developments. The conversation delves into testosterone's effect on prostate cancer, refuting beliefs about its role in cancer growth and emphasizing optimal levels for tissue health.

Dr. Martha Boone, a urologist and author, discusses alternative therapies in urology, the importance of quality information, and the changing landscape of hormone therapy. She shares her experiences with alternative treatments for bladder health, pelvic pain, and urinary tract infections. Dr. Boone also discusses the journey of testosterone and prostate cancer, highlighting the shift in understanding and treatment approaches. She emphasizes the importance of considering quality of life in medical decision-making and the need for individualized care. In this conversation, Dr. Martha Boone discusses her experiences in urology practice and her transition to writing. She highlights the challenges urologists face in providing comprehensive care within limited time constraints. Dr. Boone also shares her journey as a writer, including the publication of her books. The conversation explores the differences between writing fiction and nonfiction, as well as the difficulties of writing memoir. The unreliability of memory is also discussed, emphasizing the subjective nature of personal recollections. The conversation concludes with gratitude and encouragement for the next generation of urologists. Takeaways Alternative therapies can play a valuable role in urology, providing patients with additional options for treatment and symptom management. Access to quality information is crucial for patients to make informed decisions about their health and navigate the overwhelming amount of information available online. The journey of testosterone and prostate cancer highlights the evolving understanding of hormone therapy and the importance of individualized care. Considering quality of life is essential in medical decision-making, as it can greatly impact a patient's overall well-being and satisfaction with treatment. Urologists often face challenges in providing comprehensive care within limited time constraints. Transitioning from a medical career to writing requires discipline and adaptation to different genres. Writing fiction and nonfiction require different storytelling skills and approaches. Writing memoir can be particularly challenging due to the subjective nature of personal recollections. Memory is unreliable, and individual recollections of events can vary significantly. Gratitude and encouragement for the next generation of urologists. Martha B. Boone, M.D.Author of: The Big Free, The Unfettered Urologist, and Mother CharityMarthaBoone.comTwitter: @drmarthabooneFB: MarthaBBoone FirmTech sponsors this podcast today. Go to ⁠⁠myfirmtech.com⁠⁠ and enter code NOTBROKEN for 15% off today. Our other amazing podcast sponsors To learn more about Solv Wellness and their products for female pelvic health, visit ⁠⁠solvwellness.com⁠⁠ for 30% off your first purchase of any product. Discount automatically applied at checkout. Women of all ages deserve to feel fantastic. And we can—because there is relief to be found. Go to ⁠⁠myalloy.com⁠⁠ to start your virtual appointment today. Use code NOTBROKEN20 it's good for $20 off any purchase, one time use, and expires July 31, 2024 Check out details for my retreat: ⁠https://ascendretreats.com/2024-kellycasperson-sedona/⁠ Listen to my Tedx Talk: ⁠Why We Need Adult Sex Ed⁠ Take my NEW Adult Sex Ed Master Class: ⁠https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/adult-sex-ed⁠ Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP, a private facebook group to discuss and my private accountability group for your health, hormones and life support! ⁠www.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Infertility and Sex In this conversation, Dr. Sophia Goodridge and Dr. Gillian Stearns discuss infertility, stress, and sex. They share their personal experiences and journeys with infertility, highlighting the emotional toll it can take on individuals and relationships. The conversation also addresses the lack of education and support surrounding infertility and the challenges faced by women in balancing their careers and fertility. The importance of open communication, humor, and seeking support is emphasized throughout the discussion. Takeaways We define infertility Infertility is a common and often taboo topic that affects many individuals and couples. The emotional toll of infertility can strain relationships and impact sexual intimacy. Education and support are crucial in navigating the challenges of infertility. The role of IVF drugs on your sex life. We discuss the world they wish to see in regards to education and normalizing infertility. Open communication, humor, and seeking support can help maintain strong partnerships during infertility struggles. Dr. Sophia Delpe Goodridge is board certified in Urology and Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery. Her current  practice is in Roswell, GA and her interests include pelvic floor dysfunction, voiding dysfunction, urinary incontinence, overactive bladder and pelvic organ prolapse.    Dr. Gillian Sterns is a Urologist at Atrium Health, Director of Medical Student Education at Wake Forest, North Carolina FirmTech sponsors this podcast today. Go to ⁠myfirmtech.com⁠ and enter code NOTBROKEN for 15% off today. Our other amazing podcast sponsors To learn more about Solv Wellness and their products for female pelvic health, visit ⁠solvwellness.com⁠ for 30% off your first purchase of any product. Discount automatically applied at checkout. Women of all ages deserve to feel fantastic. And we can—because there is relief to be found. Go to ⁠myalloy.com⁠ to start your virtual appointment today. Use code NOTBROKEN20 it's good for $20 off any purchase, one time use, and expires July 31, 2024 Check out details for my retreat: https://ascendretreats.com/2024-kellycasperson-sedona/ Listen to my Tedx Talk: Why we need adult sex ed   Take my NEW Adult Sex Ed Master Class: https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/adult-sex-ed   Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP, a private facebook group to discuss and my private accountability group for your health, hormones and life support! www.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

254. The Fortune-Telling Genitals and/or I hate the Word "Cock" In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Casperson and Dr. Ashley Winter discuss various topics related to male and female sexual health. They cover the importance of sexual health advocacy on social media, the role and safety of cock rings, the link between erectile dysfunction and cardiovascular disease, the future of sexual health monitoring with smart wearables, and the development of a clitoral smart wearable device. They emphasize the need for research and funding in the field of sexual health and highlight the importance of normalizing discussions about sexual health for all genders. Takeaways Sexual health advocacy on social media can help educate and change lives. Cock rings can be a safe and effective tool for enhancing erections. Erectile dysfunction can be a sign of underlying cardiovascular disease. Smart wearables have the potential to revolutionize sexual health monitoring. The clitoris plays a crucial role in female sexual health and should be studied and understood. Further research and funding are needed to advance the field of sexual health. Ashley Winter, MD is a board certified urologist based in Los Angeles. She completed her urology residency at New York Presbyterian- Weill Cornell Medical center, and a fellowship in male and female sexual dysfunction with Dr. Irwin Goldstein at San Diego Sexual medicine.  She is working on a smart wearable device for the clitoris with FirmTech (⁠www.myfirmtech.com⁠). She can be found influencing patients and physicians all over the world through her  socialmedia @ashleygwinter (most active on Twitter/X) but trying to be more present on Insta/TikTok. Princeton ConsensusGuidelines on Erectile Dysfunction FirmTech sponsors this podcast today. Go to myfirmtech.com and enter code NOTBROKEN for 15% off today. Our other amazing podcast sponsors To learn more about Solv Wellness and their products for female pelvic health, visit solvwellness.com for 30% off your first purchase of any product. Discount automatically applied at checkout. Women of all ages deserve to feel fantastic. And we can—because there is relief to be found. Go to myalloy.com to start your virtual appointment today. Use code NOTBROKEN20 it's good for $20 off any purchase, one time use, and expires July 31, 2024 https://www.instagram.com/ashleygwinter/ email: ashley@myfirmtech.com twitter/X - https://x.com/AshleyGWinter   The non profit research team mentioned in this episode: 21st Century Sexual Fitness and HealthCare Foundation Contact elliot@myfirmtech.com for information and to make donations. Check out details for my retreat: https://ascendretreats.com/ Listen to my Tedx Talk: Why we need adult sex ed   Take my NEW Adult Sex Ed Master Class: https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/adult-sex-ed   Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP, a private facebook group to discuss and my private accountability group for your health, hormones and life support! https://kellycaspersonmd.com/membership/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

https://ascendretreats.com/2024-sedona-retreat-robyntigermd/ Dr. Kelly Casperson and Dr. Robin Tiger discuss their upcoming retreat in Sedona and their journeys in women's health. The retreat aims to provide education on menopause, perimenopause, and sexual health without PowerPoint presentations. The chapters cover topics such as the importance of education on women's health, understanding menopause, empowering women with hormone education, the power of coaching and mindset shifts, and the invitation to join the retreat. The retreat in Sedona offers a unique approach to teaching without PowerPoint presentations, focusing on experiential learning and community building. Education on menopause, perimenopause, and sexual health is crucial for empowering women and addressing the challenges they face. Understanding menopause as a profound hormonal change and embracing it as a gift can lead to a more positive experience. Coaching and mindset shifts can be transformative in personal and professional development, allowing individuals to take control of their lives. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sit down and buckle up. a long podcast but so so so many topics and though provoking ideas from the research and presentation from the just finished ISSWSH conference. Dr. Kelly Caspersen shares insights from the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH) Conference. She discusses the importance of lifelong learning and the mission of ISWSH to promote sexuality for all. Topics covered include polysexuality, monogamy and polygamy, shockwave therapy for erectile dysfunction and more, supporting sexual wellbeing in people with developmental disabilities and ADHD and, immune dysfunction and vulvar pain, hypoactive sexual desire disorder, and the role of healthcare providers in addressing quality of life. This conversation covers a wide range of topics related to sexual health, hormones, and the impact of technology. Some of the key themes include the role of role modeling and accountability in personal fitness, the misconceptions about menopause and desire, the influence of hormones in personal training, the potential use of clitoral ultrasound for evaluating cardiovascular health, the effects of stress on sexual desire, the relationship between diabetes and sexual function, the concerns and considerations of hormone replacement therapy, the impact of coffee on a new menopause medication, the importance of advocacy and education in sexual health, the connection between orgasm and pain, the use of sex tech and its effects on sexual function, the importance of human touch in sexual experiences, and the debunking of myths surrounding semen retention and rough sex. Enjoy! Reminder to follow, subscribe and share for more! Take Aways Lifelong learning is important for staying up-to-date with evolving knowledge about sexual health and hormones. Sexuality is a human right and should be appreciated as part of the human experience. Definitions and labels in sexuality can vary and it is important to ask individuals how they define themselves. The microbiome and immune function play a role in vulvar pain and sexual desire. Healthcare providers should prioritize addressing quality of life and understanding the unique needs of their patients. Accountability and role modeling can be powerful tools in personal fitness and wellness. Menopause does not always lead to low desire, and the quality of a long-term committed relationship can be a risk factor for low desire. Hormones play a significant role in personal training and muscle recovery. Clitoral ultrasound may have potential applications in evaluating cardiovascular health in women. Stress can have both positive and negative effects on sexual desire and function. Diabetes can impact sexual function, and physical activity can help protect against sexual dysfunction in women with diabetes. The use of hormone replacement therapy should be carefully considered, and the marketing of hormone-free alternatives can be misleading. Coffee may have an impact on the efficacy of certain medications, including new menopausal medications for hot flashes. Advocacy and education are crucial in promoting sexual health and debunking myths. The brain plays a significant role in sexual pleasure and pain perception. Sex tech can enhance sexual experiences but should not and can not replace human connection and touch. There is a need for knowledge translation in research to ensure that findings are effectively communicated and applied in clinical practice. It is important to prioritize consent and safety in sexual activities, and to debunk myths and misconceptions surrounding rough sex and choking. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sex Coaching for Beginners In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Casperson interviews Kristine D'Angelo, a sex coach, about her journey into sex coaching and the difference between sex therapy and sex coaching. They discuss common barriers to pleasure, the impact of childhood messages on sexuality, and the importance of redefining sex in heterosexual relationships. Kristine provides tips for women to get into their bodies and invites them to explore sexual content and invite pleasure. They emphasize the importance of communication in relationships and the need to overcome anxiety in conversations about sex. The conversation concludes with a discussion on reconnecting with pleasure in everyday life and improving sex life through communication and understanding. In this conversation, Kristine D'Angelo, a certified sex coach, discusses the importance of exploring sexual fantasies and the challenges people face in sharing them. She also provides insights on finding a sex coach and the benefits of working with one. Kristine shares various platforms where people can connect with her and access her resources. Takeaways Sex coaching focuses on future-focused problem-solving and helping individuals achieve their goals for a more fulfilling sex life. Common barriers to pleasure include being stuck in the headspace, overthinking, and trying to meet unrealistic expectations. Tips for women to get into their bodies Common Barriers to Pleasure Childhood messages and societal norms can create barriers to pleasure and a lack of understanding of one's own sexual needs and desires. Transitioning from a task-oriented mindset to a pleasure-oriented mindset is important for enjoying sexual experiences. Communication and understanding are key to improving sex life and maintaining a strong foundation in a long-term relationship. Many people struggle with sharing their sexual fantasies and may feel shame or avoid the topic altogether. Overcoming anxiety in conversations about sex Finding a sex coach can be done through organizations like the World Association of Sex Coaches (WASC), online searches, or social media platforms. Working with a sex coach can provide support, guidance, and education to enhance sexual well-being and relationships. “Assumptions are the termites in long term relationships” - Kristine D'Angelo IG: sexcoachkristine Podcast: IG So I Married A Sexologist Doyoursexlifeafavor.com Youtube https://worldassociationofsexcoaches.org/   Check out details for my retreat: https://ascendretreats.com/ Listen to my Tedx Talk: Why we need adult sex ed Take my NEW Adult Sex Ed Master Class: https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/adult-sex-ed Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP, a private facebook group to discuss and my private accountability group for your health, hormones and life support! www.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The BIO in Biopsychosocial – Medications for Sexual Health In this episode, Dr. Mona Gupta and Dr. Melissa Dahir join Dr. Kelly Casperson to discuss the importance of sexual health and the misconceptions surrounding it. They emphasize that sexual health is a bio-psycho-social issue and should be treated as such. The panel also addresses the black box warnings and misconceptions associated with sexual desire drugs, highlighting the benefits and considerations of these medications. They debunk the myth that alcohol is unsafe to consume while taking these drugs and discuss the positive effects of these medications on sleep. The panel also explores the sexual side effects of antidepressants and provides strategies for managing them. They delve into the use of testosterone replacement therapy and its impact on sexual health. Finally, they offer advice on navigating medications and seeking help for sexual health issues. Takeaways Sexual health is a bio-psycho-social issue that should be treated holistically. Addyi – how it works, its influence on sleep, and it’s safety profile, and it works in pre and post menopausal women. Black box warnings and misconceptions surrounding sexual desire drugs should be reevaluated, as these medications can have significant benefits for individuals. Alcohol consumption is not necessarily unsafe while taking sexual desire drugs, and the effects of these medications on sleep can be positive. The sexual side effects with SSRI’s and common psychiatric medications. Antidepressants can have sexual side effects, but there are strategies for managing these issues, such as adjusting the dosage or adding complementary medications. Testosterone replacement therapy can be an effective treatment for sexual health issues, particularly when used in conjunction with other therapies. When seeking help for sexual health issues, it is important to find a provider who is knowledgeable and supportive.    Dr. Melissa Dahir, DNP, IF has been the Midwest’s leading healthcare expert in sexual medicine and vulvar pain disorders since 2006. In 2012 the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) named her an ISSWSH Fellow (IF) which is a top distinction in this field. She strongly believes that ongoing research is the key to advancing women’s sexual health. https://melissadahir.com/    Dr. Mona Gupta, a renowned psychiatrist with seven practices and growing in North Carolina, is a forward-thinking key opinion leader in psychiatry. Specializing in breaking down patients' problems into manageable components, she facilitates easier tackling. Dr. Gupta, a passionate advocate for women's sexual health, emphasizes its undervalued role in mental health and overall wellbeing. Dr.Gupta: https://www.guptapsychiatry.com/  https://www.facebook.com/GuptaPsych https://twitter.com/GuptaPsychiatry https://youtube.com/@guptapsychiatrywellness1740?si=Fxud1VWQj1ADCV6 https://www.tiktok.com/@guptapsychiatry1 Check out details for my retreat: https://ascendretreats.com/ Listen to my Tedx Talk: Whywe need adult sex ed   Take my NEW Adult Sex Ed Master Class: https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/adult-sex-ed   Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP, a private facebook group to discuss and my private accountability group for your health, hormones and life support! www.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Check out details for my retreat: https://ascendretreats.com/ In this episode, Dr. Kelly Casperson discusses the connection between the brain and sex, the role of hormones in desire and arousal, and tips for increasing desire and overcoming mental blocks. She also addresses common concerns such as painful intercourse, bladder issues, and changes in sexual sensation after surgery. Dr. Casperson emphasizes the importance of communication, seeking professional help when needed, and understanding that everyone's sexual journey is unique. In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Casperson discusses various topics related to sexual health. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing sex and the role of dopamine in our desire for pleasure. She addresses challenges with painful sex and low libido, providing recommendations for overcoming these issues. Dr. Casperson also highlights the need to expand the definition of sex beyond penetration and explores ways to achieve orgasm and pleasure. Additionally, she discusses the impact of diet on sexual health and provides guidance on finding a reputable sex therapist. Takeaways:The Connection Between Sex and the Brain The Role of Hormones in Desire and Arousal Tips for Increasing Desire and Overcoming Mental Blocks Using Erotica and Visuals to Spark Imagination Navigating Sexual Frequency and Expectations Managing ADHD and Staying Present During Sex Using Vibrators and Addressing Painful Intercourse Improving Communication and Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships Understanding Burning Sensations After Ejaculation Addressing Bladder Issues and Prolapse Using Vaginal Estrogen for Dryness and Atrophy Managing Libido and Pleasure with Various Factors Addressing Changes in Sexual Sensation After Hysterectomy Exploring the Effectiveness of Libido-Boosting Products The Importance of Prioritizing Sex Challenges with Painful Sex and Low Libido Recommendations for Overcoming Challenges Expanding the Definition of Sex Achieving Orgasm and Pleasure The Impact of Diet on Sexual Health Finding a Reputable Sex Therapist www.heytabu.com Listen to my Tedx Talk: Why we need adult sex ed Take my NEW Adult Sex Ed Master Class: https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/adult-sex-ed  Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP, a private facebook group to discuss and my private accountability group for your health, hormones and life support! www.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices