
You Are Not Broken
Empowering women (and the partners who love them) to live their best mid lives. Combining the power of mind-work, body-science and relationships, I joyously smash the societal barriers that are keeping us from living our best intimate lives. Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term relationship, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, and normalize our intimacy and health. Nothing in this podcast is personal medical advice, of course.
Latest episodes

Aug 14, 2022 • 26min
172. Vulvar Itch - What Could It Be? With Dr. Jill Krapf
Vulvar Itch – What could it be? With Dr. Jill Krapf
So lucky to catch Dr. Krapf in her car (sorry for the spotty audio but too good to not share) for this live Q&A we did for my membership - but as you know Car audio isn't perfect - I still think it is worth the share!
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What can the vulvar itch be?
Why is it worse at night?
Does low estrogen increase risk of itch?
Dr. Jill Krapf discusses Lichen Simplex Chronicus
Does a bidet help?
Embedded Vulvar yeast
Lichen Sclerosis in premenopausal women
Flares are real
Krapf JM, Smith AB, Cigna ST, Goldstein AT. Presenting Symptoms and Diagnosis of Vulvar Lichen Sclerosus in Premenopausal Women: A Cross-Sectional Study. J Low Genit Tract Dis. 2022 Jul 1;26(3):271-275.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35533256/
https://jillkrapfmd.com/
https://www.instagram.com/jillkrapfmd/
I am a doctor but likely not your doctor – this is for entertainment and educational purposes only – consult your personal physician for your unique needs.
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Aug 7, 2022 • 15min
171. Vaginal Estrogen Show and Tell
Vaginal Estrogen Show And Tell
Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/eAgTp1dt4W4
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Is vaginal estrogen the same as menopause hormone therapy.
Do you need to use a progestin if you use a vaginal estrogen cream?
What is the risk of breast cancer with vaginal estrogen?
I am a doctor but likely not your doctor – this is for entertainment and educational purposes only – consult your personal physician for your unique needs.
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Jul 31, 2022 • 35min
170. - July Live Podcast - Sex and Mindfulness, Blood in Urine, and Hormone Q&A
July Live podcast – Mindfulness, blood in urine, and hormone Q&A
I quote from this book: https://amzn.to/3JhCfie
Better Sex Through Mindfulness by Lori Brotto
I talk about mindfulness
What is Hematuria?
Hormone Q&A
1) Breast Cancer and Hormones – Are Any Okay? I've been having issue getting sexually aroused and having an orgasm.
2) My mom is 79 with osteoporosis, she stopped her hormone therapy 20 years ago. Can she restart?
3) I’m going to talk to my doctor about HRT… I’ve been having hot flashes so bad! It’s awful! I’m wondering what exactly I should ask for?
4) What risks do oral estrogen have?
5) Thoughts about Premarin?
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Jul 24, 2022 • 48min
169. His Porn Her Pain - Sex Therapist Marty Klein, PhD
Dr. Marty Klein has been a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist for over 35 years. He has focused his entire career toward a single set of goals: telling the truth about sexuality, helping people feel sexually adequate & powerful, and supporting the healthy sexual & intimate expression and exploration of women & men. He practices in Palo Alto.
He has written 7 books, translated into 11 languages and has given over 1,000 lectures.
Why are people so against porn? Or why not be against porn?
The Ice Cream/Broccoli hypothesis
‘When people have low desire for lousy sex, that is not surprising” – Dr. Klein
Should we worry about porn dehumanizing women?
What is the number one fantasy by women?
Should you actually live our your sexual fantasies?
“Sexual fantasies do not have meaning” – Dr. Marty Klein
Porn addiction – define?
What about porn users who aren’t functionally sexually at home?
Is porn infidelity? What about sexting someone else? Only Fans?
Talk about the power struggles couples get in and think it is about porn
“The ultimate issue in many couples in conflict about pornography is the decline or disappearance of their once enjoyable sex life. While it is common to say that the porn user is selfish and rejecting of their partners, a lot of porn use is actually a desperate attempt to stay in a sexually unfulfilling couple.”
What to do if no longer attracted to your spouse? How is this not porn’s fault if it makes you get off to perfect bodies?
“Desire in middle age does not feel like desire at 23 years old” – Dr. Marty Klein
What he wishes women knew about their male partner’s porn.
What would you like to tell the men?
Why are there not enough sex therapists and what should I do about it?
https://www.martyklein.com/
Dr. Klein’s book: His Porn, Her Pain https://amzn.to/3IYvIsF
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Jul 17, 2022 • 43min
168. Breast Cancer - Surgeon, Survivor and Advocate: Dr. O'Riordan
Dr. Liz O’Riordan - – a breast surgeon with breast cancer. Her mission is to help cancer patients cope with life outside the hospital by showing health care professionals that it’s the little things that matter.
She co-wrote ‘The Complete Guide to Breast Cancer: How to Feel Empowered and Take Control’, to help patients and their families as they go through treatment.
She tells us her story.
What do you wish people knew about breast cancer?
Let’s talk about controllable risk factors for breast cancer – Alcohol and adiposity
Give us some frank advice about sex and relationships
How to cope with the emotional burden of breast cancer
Let’s talk about self image
The role of weight lifting and exercise
How can the partners help? How does the sexual role change when care giving roles change?
Talk about the collateral damage of breast cancer treatment could be thanks to an instant menopause and chronic pain.
Vaginal atrophy on Anastrazole and Tamoxifen and chemo – options
ACOG statement on use of Vag E in breast cancer pts.
The Complete Guide to Breast Cancer: How to Feel empowered and take control https://amzn.to/37E1woz
https://liz.oriordan.co.uk/
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/don-t-ignore-the-elephant/id1588554895
https://www.instagram.com/oriordanliz/
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Jul 10, 2022 • 45min
167. Femtech Boss! Sold “Female Viagra” for 1 Billion Then Took it Back - Cindy Eckert!
She started with Slate Pharmaceuticals, which redefined long acting testosterone treatment for men then moved to Sprout Pharmaceuticals which broke through with the first ever FDA-approved drug for low sexual desire in women — dubbed “female Viagra” by the media. After selling the company for $1B in 2015, she successfully fought to get the drug back and launch it on her own terms. Meet Cindy Eckert!
Addyi - Filbanserin - The first FDA approved medication to treat the condition Hypoactive (low) Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD), characterized as frustrating low libido, is the most common form of sexual dysfunction in premenopausal women. Though not fully understood, HSDD is believed to be caused by an imbalance of chemicals in the brain.
Are we limiting women by “protecting them”?
How did Addyi come into her life?
Data on Addyi and breast cancer is coming out!
Prescription versus supplements and what is “natural”?
You make it look glam – but is it a slog?
She wants to make 1 Billion of wealth for women!
“Success comes from courage” – Cindy Eckert.
https://addyi.com
https://thepinkceiling.com
https://www.instagram.com/cindypinkceo/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DyuSZ80-kZI
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Jul 3, 2022 • 1h 22min
166. Ask The Sexperts: Desire, Squirting and More!
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Today's podcast is audio from a panel I was on this year at Western Washington University with my good friend and owner of a sex positive store Wink-Wink Boutique, https://winkwinkboutique.com Jenn Mason. Margot Lewis joins us too!
What do you wish people knew more? Women are not just small men.
What to do if you get triggered with your intimate activities?
Defining Spontaneous and responsive desire – the difference.
Increasing desire in long term relationship
Don’t confuse spontaneous desire with love.
What is a sex coach?
How to balance sexytime with life.
What is squirting?
OMGyes.com
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Jun 29, 2022 • 42min
165. June Live Podcast
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· Can you talk about the Dutch test? - but your feelings on an accuracy, what kind of information does it give ,better than lab test ? pros cons
· So bioidentical hormones are going to be banned?
· Do you know if there are any interactions between estradiol vaginal cream and clobetasol?
· I have an underlying feeling of shame which surfaces from childhood.
· I am 62 years old using vaginal hormonal cream. It does help with lubrication and desire. But I can not reach orgasm. No matter how long and hard we tried. Help please.
· Can you talk about UTIs, antibiotics, and thrush? Why do so many women get UTIs, why do they get worse with menopause, and how can we prevent/manage them?
· I had a terrible reaction to adding estrogen cream
· I have been suffering from postcoital urethral syndrome according to my physician. Is there any definite treatment for it??
· I received a hormone pellet( estrogen and testosterone) and started oral progesterone (oral, once daily). About 4 weeks after I started bleeding for the first time in 1.5yrs (I am post menopausal). I have been bleeding (like a normal period amount) for about 10 days. Is this common?
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Bonafide products help women embrace the natural changes that occur throughout all phases of life.
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Jun 26, 2022 • 23min
164. Book Release June 28th - I Read the Intro!
The book comes out June 28th!
https://amzn.to/3A447Up
I read the intro!
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Jun 19, 2022 • 25min
163. Sharing My Journey - Dr. Kelly Answers some Q&A
A company sent me a list of questions for me to answer for their blog. So I thought I would record it and share it with you. Hope you enjoy!
How would you introduce yourself to a brand new patient?
What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
What is your personal mission with your practice?
How did you develop an interest in urology?
What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced in your practice?
What is something most women don’t know about their sexual wellness that you want to share?
How do sexual wellness and urology relate to each other?
Have you always focused on the connection between emotional/relationship health and physical health? How did that become a part of your practice?
What inspired you to start the You Are Not Broken podcast?
What have you learned about your medical practice through starting your podcast?
What has your You Are Not Broken audience taught you?
What episode from You Are Not Broken would you recommend to a new listener?
What inspired you to write the You Are Not Broken book?
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Anyone who signs up the first month gets a signed copy of my new book: You Are Not Broken: Stop “Shoulding” All Over Your Sex Life.
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