Autism Parenting Secrets

Welcome to Episode 90 of the Autism Parenting Secrets. Meltdowns!  That’s the topic this week.  It’s a challenge like no other.  This episode dives deep into what a parent CAN do about their child’s meltdowns.  And the good news is… parents can do a lot.Our guests this week are Kate C. Wilde and Raun K. Kaufman. Collectively, they have over 50 years of experience supporting parents and their children on the autism spectrum.  They’re authors, teachers and thought leaders with powerful insights.They’ve partnered to create the Autism Crisis Turnaround (ACT) Protocol, a three-step process that helps parents better address challenging situations like meltdowns.Tantrums and meltdowns are not uncommon, but they’re likely much more prevalent with children on the spectrum.  And it can feel like they’re just a part of Autism - that they come with the diagnosis.But that’s NOT true.The secret this week is... Meltdowns are NOT Inevitable You'll Discover:Meltdowns DON’T Come With Autism (4:55)Meltdowns Are NOT Intentional (11:25)The 3 Core Issues Behind Your Child’s Meltdowns (14:37)How To Reclaim Your Power DURING A Meltdown (20:07)Why Setting Boundaries Benefits YOU The Most (29:00)The Perspective Shift That’s Needed (41:50) About Our Guests: Raun K. KaufmanRaun K. Kaufman is the author of the book, Autism Breakthrough: The Groundbreaking Method That Has Helped Families All Over the World and the former CEO of the Autism Treatment Center of America®. An international lecturer and graduate of the Ivy League’s Brown University with a degree in Biomedical Ethics, Raun has completed lecture tours in the U.S., United Kingdom, Ireland, the Netherlands, Belgium, Sweden, Norway, Spain, Portugal, Poland, Romania, France, Japan, Singapore, the Philippines, Malaysia, and Vietnam.He has been interviewed by media such as National Public Radio, BBC Television, Fox News Channel, The London Telegraph, and People Magazine.In addition to his work with families and educators for almost 25 years, Raun brings a distinctive qualification to the realm of autism treatment: his own personal history. As a child, Raun was diagnosed with severe autism and recommended for lifelong institutionalization. Instead, his parents developed The Son-Rise Program®, which enabled Raun to emerge with no trace of his former diagnosis. His story was recounted in the best-selling book, Son-Rise: The Miracle Continues, and the award-winning NBC-TV movie, Son-Rise: A Miracle of Love.Kate C. WildeKate C. Wilde has spent the last 30 years working with children and adults on the autism spectrum and their families, as well as with therapists, educators, and schools. She is the author of the acclaimed books, Autistic Logistics: A Parent’s Guide to Tackling Bedtime, Toilet Training, Tantrums, Hitting, and Other Everyday Challenges and The Autism Language Launcher: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Your Child Turn Sounds and Words Into Simple Conversations.Kate teaches throughout the U.S., Europe and Asia, she has also spoken at worldwide online autism summits, including the Autism Hope Summit and the Autism Recovery Tele-Summit. She is a columnist for Exceptional Needs Today, has written articles for such publications as Autism Parenting Magazine in the U.S. and SEN Magazine in the U.K. She has intensively trained and qualified more than forty professionals at the Autism Treatment Center of America® who have gone on to use The Son-Rise Program® to help thousands of families, children, and educators across the globe.  References in This Episode:The ACT ProtocolAutism Parenting Secrets - Episode 69 - Your Child Is NOT The ProblemAutism Breakthrough by Raun K. KaufmanAutistic Logistics: A Parent’s Guide to Tackling Bedtime, Toilet Training, Tantrums, Hitting, and Other Everyday Challenges by Kate C. WildeThe Autism Language Launcher: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Your Child Turn Sounds and Words Into Simple Conversations by Kate C. WildeAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening! 

Welcome to Episode 89 of Autism Parenting Secrets. We know your goal as a parent is to support your child EVEN more.You’re motivated to be better and do more for your child.But believing that it’s ALL for them can create friction.And that’s the last thing you need.  And it’s not what your child wants.The secret this week is… There’s One Deep TruthTune in to learn more. You'll Discover:What Just About Every Parent Gets Wrong (3:55)The Real Objective of a Doctor’s Office Visit (6:50)The One Thing To Let Go (12:48)References in This Episode:Wake Up WarriorThe Option Institute and The Son-Rise ProgramAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 48 - Make Investments, Not SacrificesAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 43 - Beating Yourself Up NEVER HelpsAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 88 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week is all about focus.It’s about NOT getting distracted or consumed by the day-to-day ups and downs.Especially given all that you do for your child, it’s natural to want to see progress and improvements.  The sooner the better.But only focusing on the short term can be frustrating, exhausting, and might lead you down paths that take you away from what you really want, for your child and for yourself.The secret this week is… Play The LONG GameTune in to learn how. You'll Discover:A Strategy That Doesn’t Need To Be Controversial (3:58)The Key To More Stamina and Resilience (6:50)The Surprising Key To Faster Progress (10:14)Where The Magic Lies (11:45)Some Powerful Long Term Moves (13:04)How To Discern Who and What Can Help (15:31)References in This Episode:Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 85 - VISION Is More Than Meets The EyeAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 86 - The ALF Expands What’s PossibleAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 87 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week, we continue the theme of addressing the root cause.  Whatever it is that you are wanting to help your child with, it’s NOT a success strategy to only address the symptoms.There’s always an underlying root cause/causes that if addressed, can spur huge gains.This week’s discussion is a conversation with Luminara Sedar, founder of Autism Transformed.Luminara helps parents discover and address the root causes of their child’s challenging autism behaviors so that a child can be calm, happy, develop to peer level, and gain independence.She’s a scientist, functional nutritionist, and a holistic healer.  She works with clients throughout the world using nutrition, opening body systems, and removing toxic buildup to help shift autism behaviors.Oftentimes, the body lacks the information and instructions it needs to do what it was designed to do.  And alleviating the toxic load is a key first step.The secret for this week is…You Can REPROGRAM The BodyTune in to learn more. You'll Discover:The One Thing That MUST Get Addressed First (6:08)Why Kids On The Spectrum Have Bigger Issues 9:54)The Importance of the Drainage Funnel (12:23)The Signs of Lymph Blockage (14:31)What is NMT? (18:59)The Benefits of Being An Open-Minded Skeptic (28:46)Why Binders Are Essential (33:37)How Safe Detoxification Unfolds (37:16)About Our GuestLuminara Serdar is an autism recovery expert, helping parents discover and address the root causes of their child’s challenging autism behaviors so that a child can be calm, happy, develop to peer level and gain independence. And so parents can feel competent, empowered, and happy.  She’s trained as a scientist in genetics, cell biology, and biochemistry, as a functional nutritionist and holistic healer.  She works with clients throughout the world using nutrition, opening body systems, and removing toxic buildup to help shift autism behaviors. Website: https://autismtransformed.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/autismtransformed/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/autismtransformed/References in This Episode:Entangled Minds: Extrasensory Experiences in a Quantum Reality, Dean Radin, Ph.D.HeartMathAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 86 of Autism Parenting Secrets.This week, we focus on a way to improve overall wellness that is not on many people’s radar. Dr. Alex Bronson of Bronson Family Dentistry joins Cass and Len.  He’s a co-author of two published articles and is a clinical faculty member at the ALF Educational Institute and takes a Whole Body Approach to Dentistry.This is an expansive conversation about the importance of addressing jaw and bite issues.  It’s important for everyone, especially young children.We talk specifically about the Advanced Light Force (ALF) dental appliance.  How it can provide short-term payoffs while paving the way for significant long-term success. The secret for this week is…The ALF Expands What’s PossibleTune in to learn more. You'll Discover:What’s an ALF?  (11:27)Who Benefits Most from the ALF (15:06)The First Big Red Flag To Watch Out For (15:47)A Second Big Red Flag To Watch Out For (22:49)Why The ALF is More-Kid Friendly (25:51)Clues That Point To Structural Problems (30:00)How To Find An ALF Practitioner (32:31)How The ALF Provides Short-Term Payoffs That Lead To Long Term Success (38:07)The Typical Duration Of The ALF Process Takes (40:27)The Single Biggest Thing To Do Today That Makes a Huge Impact (45:15)About Our Guest:Dr. Alex Bronson, of Bronson Family Dentistry, is a 2012 Graduate of Midwestern University Arizona College of Dental Medicine. He is a co-author of 2 published articles and is a clinical faculty member at the ALF Educational Institute. As an undergraduate, Dr. Alex Bronson double majored in Biology and Psychology at the University of Virginia. His interests include a “Whole Body Approach to Dentistry,” ALF orthodontics, Evolutionary Dentistry, Biologic and Cosmetic Dentistry, Dental Implants, TMD, Nutrition, and Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy.Dr. Alex BronsonBronson Family DentistryReferences in This Episode:ALF Education InstituteALF Dentist DirectoryPatrick McEwenBreathable Mouth TapeAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 85 of Autism Parenting Secrets. Parents of a child with autism are often confused by their child’s behaviors. Things like poor eye contact, spinning objects, inflexibility, and tantrums.Figuring out what to do, if anything, is a big source of frustration and overwhelm.Instead of seeing such behaviors as ‘bad’, it’s more helpful to get curious. What’s causing these behaviors?  Why is my child doing them? With awareness and intention, we can get better at noticing the clues that can lead to the root cause.  There are scores of possibilities and every child is unique.This week we focus on one possible root cause that is often overlooked.Vision is an important and little understood concept.  It means more than eyesight.Are undiagnosed vision issues holding your child back?The secret for this week is…VISION Is More Than Meets The EyeTune in to learn more. You'll Discover:The Real Meaning of VISION (3:36)Why BINOCULARITY Matters So Much (5:38)The Most Nutritionally Demanding Organ of the Body (7:13)Why Vision Therapy Can’t Be Overlooked (12:41)A Big Red Flag You Can’t Miss (134:30)Visual Symptoms to Look Out For (18:54)A Non-Obvious Reason for Poor Eye Contact (28:57)The Common Condition That Can Be Mistaken for Learning Disabilities (36:50)The Type Of Corrective Lenses You DON’T Want (40:20)The Exact Type of Eye Professional You Want (42:05)When Insurance Covers Vision Therapy (46:50)The Relationship Between Motor and Vision (51:35)A Great Way To Improve Flexibility (56:15)About Our Guest:Patricia LemerOutsmarting Autism, Updated and Expanded: Build Healthy Foundations for Communication, Socialization, and Behavior at All Ages by Patricia LemerThe Autism Detectives podcastReferences in This Episode:Locate a Developmental OptometristAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 20 - The Sequence Truly MattersInfant See ScreeningThe Hidden Link Between Vision and Learning: Why Millions of Learning-Disabled Children Are Misdiagnosed, Wendy Beth RosenThinking Goes to School: Piaget's Theory in Practice, Dr. Harry Wachs and Hans FurthFixing My Gaze: A Scientist's Journey Into Seeing in Three Dimensions, Susan R. BarrySue Barry Fixing My Gaze TedX TalkSound Medicine: How to Use the Ancient Science of Sound to Heal the Body and Mind, Kulreet Chaudhary M.D.Additional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 84 of Autism Parenting Secrets. For parents committed to being the best parent they can be, it all comes down to decision-making.We lead and guide our kids as best we can.We’re tested time and time again with challenges that require action.Because reacting doesn’t work.But before we act we must choose.  We need to make a decision.This week we take a closer look at the decision-making process.  What works and what doesn’t help?The secret for this week is…INDECISION Is A Bad DecisionTune in to learn more. You'll Discover:The Very Real Benefits of DECIDING (3:51)Top BS Excuses That Keep Us Stuck (5:06)There’s Really Only Three Options (11:55)The Essential Steps To Making a BETTER Decision (12:41)Additional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get.  Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 83 of Autism Parenting Secrets. One of the most important responsibilities a parent has is feeding their kids.Getting food right benefits every child, but it’s even more critical for kids on the spectrum.While there are skeptics, the vast majority of parents embrace the notion that food matters.  And when they try to find answers, they’re confronted with a diet landscape that’s confusing and overwhelming.  And everyone has an option and no one agrees on anything.There are several pitfalls to avoid on the quest to harness the power of food.  And this week’s discussion focuses on one of them.The secret for this week is…There’s NO Perfect DietTune in to learn more. You'll Discover:The Step You Can’t Skip (9:09)The 7 Pitfalls To Avoid (10:54)The 3 Fundamental Qualities of The Right Diet (17:06)References in This Episode:Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 59 - Most Gluten-Free Is Full of CrapAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 8 - Food Matters SO MUCH MORE Than You ThinkAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 12 - Yes You CAN Nourish Your Picky Eater!Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 33 - Reducing Excess Glutamate Works WondersAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 82 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week on Autism Parenting Secrets, we welcome Emily Abbott.She’s the host of The Brain Possible Podcast and the founder and CEO of The Brain Possible, an online resource for parents of a child who has suffered brain injury.  If you’re committed to finding ways to better support your unique child, the key is openness.The secret this week is… The UNCONVENTIONAL Unlocks PossibilitiesYou'll Discover:The Therapy That Helped The Most: ABM (3:34)What You Won’t Hear From Mainstream Practitioners (20:19)The Benefits Of Different Perspectives/Approaches (25:17)Why It’s All About “Best Fit” (30:11)How To Avoid Crash and Burn (34:51)The ONE Thing To Do If You Do Nothing Else (39:49)The Hidden Gift (43:37)About Our Guest:As Founder and CEO of The Brain Possible, Emily Abbott’s inspiration to create the website came from her family’s difficult journey to find treatment and support for their son Carter, who suffered a brain injury in infancy. She’s also the host and voice of The Brain Possible Podcast and YouTube Channel where knowledge and inspiration are shared with listeners through her discussions with experts in various fields.In addition to her role at The Brain Possible, Emily is the Director of Creative Design for Abbott Properties, where she oversees all interior and exterior design projects, including boutique properties like The Bardot event space and The Hotel Indigo in Kansas City. A native of central New Jersey, Emily studied art at Hollins College and Pace University, and is currently raising four wonderfully energetic children with her husband Matthew in Kansas City.References in This Episode:The Brain Possible PodcastThe Brian Possible ResourcesThe Brain Possible Practitioner Directorywhoiscarter.orgWho Is Carter? An Unexpected Journey of Tragedy and Miracles by Matt AbbottCarter’s StoryAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 23 - Autism Is NOT HardwiredWhat To Do About Your Brain-Injured Child by Glenn DomanFamily Hope Center Parent Training CourseFinally Focused by James GreenblattNourishing Traditions by Sally FallonAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!

Welcome to Episode 81 of Autism Parenting Secrets. Especially after New Year’s Eve, so many of us give some time and attention to how we want the next year to be better than this year.We feel renewed excitement and more motivation to change.We dare to allow more hope in.  To desire more for us and our child.But that energy surge usually fades with time.  Sometimes it disappears fast.So while New Year’s Resolutions are great, they’re just pure fantasy unless you have a few things in place.The secret for this week is…Resolve. NOT Resolutions. Greater RESOLVE must come before any resolutions or goals.And this is an opportunity for every parent.Tune in to learn more. You'll Discover:The 6 Steps to Achieving Goals (4:25)Why Resolutions Don’t Work (7:34)How To Fuel Your Desire (8:54)Success Strategies For Stronger Commitment (10:57)References in This Episode:Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 28 - Without Goals There’s ChaosAdditional Resources:Free Resource: 33 Mistakes Most Autism Parents Make and How To Avoid ThemTo learn more about Cass & Len’s All-In Warrior Parent Tribe, click hereGot a Picky Eater? - this can helpTo learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.Don't forget to subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts to get automatic episode updates for our "Autism Parenting Secrets!"And, finally, please take a minute to leave us an honest review and rating on Apple Podcasts. They really help us out when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of the reviews we get. Thanks for listening!