
From Hostage To Hero
Sari de la Motte is the host of "From Hostage to Hero" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Join us weekly as Sari shares tips that will help you up your game at trial and connect with your jurors.
Latest episodes

Dec 15, 2023 • 19min
Encore Episode - Are You Unwittingly Legitimizing Defense Arguments
Are you accidentally giving the defense an edge in court? Discover how to redirect focus onto your case and energize the jury to champion your cause. Uncover the 'funnel method' for crafting principled jury questions that steer the conversation in your favor. Plus, hear insights on the vital role of self-love and engaging with your audience. This fresh approach might just redefine your courtroom strategy!

Dec 8, 2023 • 17min
Encore Episode - How to Piss the Jury Off in Opening
Learn how to engage and motivate the jury without irritating them. Explore the importance of the teaching section in presenting the case and contrasting desired conduct with actual conduct. Discover strategies for crafting a compelling opening statement that emotionally invests the jury and generates anger towards the defendant.

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Dec 1, 2023 • 25min
Encore Episode - Four Questions to Help Jurors Give You the Principles in Your Case
Learn the four questions to ask jurors to elicit their principles in a case. Discover the importance of experiential questions and how they reveal beliefs. Explore strategies for addressing sexual abuse impact without asking personal experiences. Emphasize the need to know case principles before using the four questions approach.

Nov 24, 2023 • 9min
Encore Episode - Why You Need to Use the Coffee Rule in Voir Dire
I'll be blunt—spewing words like "subsequent,” "prior," "motor vehicles,” or phrases like "Who here has experience with…,” “By a show of hands..." makes my head fucking hurt. You sound like a FREAK, and it's got to stop! WHO are you talking to? If you are wanting to connect with jurors, you've got to cut the bullshit lawyer-speak and remember how to talk like a normal person—like you're having coffee with a friend. Here at H2H, I teach the coffee rule: be a human, not an attorney robot. You want the jury nodding, not scratching their heads. This encore episode is a rapid kick in the ass. Short, sweet, and straight up. -Sari Mentioned in the episode: William N. Quote: "Nobody drives 'vehicles.' If you're sitting at a coffee date looking at someone across from them and you're like, 'So, did you have to take your vehicle to get maintenance last week?' Slap yourself across the face because that is ridiculous. Nobody talks like that. Nobody. Jurors don't." * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JUROR’S MIND Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom. Get the training here: sariswears.com/jury

Nov 17, 2023 • 21min
Encore Episode - If You're Limited on Time, Be Sure to Cover THIS in Your Voir Dire
“Ok, Sari, I get how important voir dire is, but what do I cover if I only have limited time?” This. This is what you cover whether you have all the time in the world (put it at the end!) or limited time. What is “this?” Check out this episode, and get a pen and paper out! -Sari Quote: “Asking your jury, ‘How can money help?’ will get you to where you need to go in voir dire.” Podcast Tip: There are three principles you must source from the jury during voir dire: - People should take responsibility when they hurt someone. - Money holds people responsible. - Money can help. Shoutout: Curtis L.

Nov 10, 2023 • 51min
Ep. 233 - $17.5 Million Winning Verdict: Trial Debrief with Michael Cowen and Malorie Peacock
If you're here weekly, you know that I don't normally interview people in this podcast. But in this SPECIAL episode, I take you on a thrilling journey into the minds of two absolute fucking legal legends, Michael Cowen and Malorie Peacock. Fresh off their incredible $17.5 million victory, together, we'll unveil their winning strategies, inspired by our H2H Playground program. Get ready to let go of your preconceived notions and build your confidence as a trial attorney right alongside me! Love, Sari Mentioned in the episode: Michael Cowen's exciting event coming up – the Big Rig Bootcamp, where they'll share their wisdom on trucking cases. https://triallawyernation.com/bigrigbootcamp/ Quote: Michael Cowen - I think the biggest way it's changed is internal. I used to go in there scared that someone's going to want to screw me over or they're not going to believe me or I'm not going to be good enough. And now I just tell myself before every trial, these are good people. They're coming in here taking time out of their day for very little money. They want to do the right thing. I'm going to trust them to do the right thing. * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JUROR’S MIND Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom. Get the training here: sariswears.com/jury

Oct 20, 2023 • 24min
Ep. 232 - 8 Steps To An 8-Figure Verdict
Want your 8-figure verdict? In today’s episode of the FHTH Podcast, I’ll tell you how to get it. Need I say more? Get your notepad and listen now! Xo Sari Mentioned in this episode: The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks https://a.co/d/6rDVb3T FHTH Podcast Episode #180 Why Over-Preparation is Killing Your Case FHTH Podcast Episode #226 The Three Scariest Words for Trial Attorneys FHTH Podcast Episode #231 Hard Work Won’t Get You Where You Want To Go Quote Would you be willing to stand up for your clients in trial over and over again if you never even got a verdict? Would you still be willing to do this work? If you can answer yes to that question, that means you're a real trial lawyer. If you're willing to say yes to that regardless of the outcome, that's what makes you a fucking trial lawyer. An eight-figure verdict? That's just a cherry on the sundae. * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JUROR’S MIND Understand what the jury is thinking so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom. Get the training here: sariswears.com/jury

Oct 13, 2023 • 19min
Ep. 231 - Hard Work Won't Get You Where You Want to Go
“Putting a lot of energy into an activity.” ☝️That’s the actual meaning of hard work. And I LOVE it. According to that definition, I work very hard because I put a fuck ton of energy into what I do. But y'all tend to be more familiar with a few other definitions of hard work, like… “difficult to bear” and “causing suffering.” Hard work is NOT the only determinant of success, especially if you’re a woman or a person of color in the United States. Tune in to this very sweary episode of the FHTH podcast to learn more about my thoughts on the subject. Enjoy! Quote "When we're touting that hard work is all it takes to get ahead in life, in your career, or in trial, it's fucking bullshit. For at least half of the United States being women and then add in all the people of color on top of that, it just doesn't fucking work that way. And because you all keep believing that it does, it's not doing you or your sisters or people of color any favors." * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JUROR’S MIND Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom. Get the training here: sariswears.com/jury

Oct 6, 2023 • 14min
Ep. 230 - The Surprising Reason Why You Worry
If you know me at all, you know I fucking hate surprises because I’m a NORMAL PERSON. In today’s episode of the FHTH Podcast, I’m delving into the psychology of why we worry, which is (surprise!) to avoid being surprised. 🤯 If you worry too much (chances are you do worry too much btw), I want you to understand that there is NOTHING wrong with you. Your brain is just doing its job: keeping y’all alive. To learn more about why you worry, the effects worrying has on your health, and how to stop worrying, tune into the latest podcast! Enjoy! Sari Mentioned in this episode: FHTH Podcast Episode 202 - How to make any juror answer work in your favor Quote Your job is to fight, not to win. That is your job. You are there to stand up for your client, plead their case, and get the facts out there. What a jury decides is a separate thing. The end. Your job is to fight. * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JUROR’S MIND Understand what the jury is thinking so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom. Get the training here: sariswears.com/jury

Oct 3, 2023 • 1h 4min
H2H Playground Panel Discussion
“We’re all making each other better. It feels like a family.” “I didn’t know I needed this community until I was here.” “We don’t have to look anymore.” In today’s special episode, I sat down with some of my Crew to hear more about their H2H Playground experience. I created this thing in 2020 to meet a need, but it’s grown even beyond my initial vision. Now…? This group is changing the way law is practiced. And these 6 panelists are on the front line. I’m excited to share their success and their journey with you. Enjoy! Sari *** ENROLLMENT IS OPEN FOR THE H2H PLAYGROUND™ *** JOIN THE CREW AND NEVER WORRY ABOUT WINNING AGAIN This is the time to get in the H2H Playground™ where you can be part of the best online working group and community of civil plaintiff & criminal defense attorneys. Get all the info & enroll here: https://sariswears.com/play