

Sari Swears
Sari de la Motte
Sari de la Motte is the host of "Sari Swears" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)
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Jan 13, 2023 • 18min
Ep. 193 - The Jury Didn't "Get it Wrong"
How many times have you blamed the jury for getting it wrong? I hate to break it to you, but that's not true. They don't always get it *right*, but the jury NEVER gets it wrong. Find out what I mean in today's episode of the FH2H Podcast. For continued learning, I recommend reading this article by Stephen O. Roberts, found HERE. -Sari *****GET ON THE WAITLIST FOR H2H PLAYGROUND***** Join us in the ONLY online working group providing trial skills training, a consistent place to practice, feedback and coaching, plus a kickass community of brilliant trial attorneys. Get on the waitlist here: https://sariswears.com/play

Jan 6, 2023 • 16min
Ep. 192 - Happy New Year! (Important Updates)
Today I'm sharing my special well wishes for the new year with my favorite people in the world… plaintiff trial attorneys. Tune in to the podcast to hear me cheer you on as you head into another year bravely fighting for justice. Don't let the big swinging 🍆s of the world keep you down. Love, Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Dec 30, 2022 • 17min
Ep. 191 - Three Questions I Ask Myself at the End of Every Year
As you prepare to usher in 2023, I invite you to reflect on the three questions I always ask myself at the end of the year: What did I create this year? What did I learn this year? How did I grow this year? Tune in to the podcast to hear me explain each of the questions in more detail. Then grab your notebook and take some time to answer them for yourself. Happy New Year! -Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Dec 23, 2022 • 24min
Ep. 190 - Stop Doing This in Closing. (Like, Immediately.)
Are you wasting precious time in closing trying to persuade the jury to be on your side, by spending hours reviewing evidence and statements and doing other boring shit? STOP it! If you want to communicate effectively with your jurors—and I know you do—you have to get out of your head and into theirs. In today's episode, I'm going to help you do just that. Tune in to the podcast for a crash course in closing. Learn what to stop doing AND what to start doing in closing if you want to win more cases. You've got this! -Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Dec 16, 2022 • 19min
Ep. 189 - May The Best Principle Win
We were doing a trial debrief recently after one of our H2H members didn't get their verdict. "We went in, did the principle thing, and we lost." But here's the thing. There's a hierarchy of principles. And that's what I'm talking about in today's episode. The principle that's going to win will be decided by what your case is about. Is it about a sense of security or a sense of esteem? Tune in to find out more. -Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Dec 9, 2022 • 18min
Ep. 188 - Do You Constantly Ask Yourself, 'What if?'
Do you find yourself asking, "What if…" when facing a scary situation? You know, like, trial? Recently I had a major scare myself and found my brain going to all sorts of crazy places. But I remembered what I knew about the brain, and got myself on the right track. And you can too. Give this episode a listen to learn more. -Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Dec 2, 2022 • 29min
Ep. 187 - Tis the Season for Depression; Fa la la fuck la
The holidays are a big time for depression. And depression affects lawyers in disproportionate numbers compared to other professions. So in today's podcast I'm talking about the myths and truth about depression, how to get help, and the do's and don'ts for someone trying to help a loved one who is depressed. I am currently depressed. I share because I want to remove the stigma from mental illness. I hope you give it a listen. -Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Nov 25, 2022 • 11min
Ep. 186 - Why You Blame Yourself for Every Damn Thing
Are you like me and blame yourself whenever ANYTHING goes wrong? This confused me as I am not known as a people pleaser, nor do I suffer from low self-esteem. Ahem. So I went looking for the answer to why I was throwing so much blame my way, when whammo: it hit me. And it was a total surprise. Tune in to learn more. -Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Nov 18, 2022 • 21min
Ep. 185 - Sari's Top 10
You asked and I delivered. Specifically, on how I make my life work. In this podcast episode I'm telling you the top 10 things I use/do to make my life awesome, and I know they can make your life awesome too. - Sari * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Nov 11, 2022 • 25min
Ep. 184 - Why the H2H Method May Not Be Working for You
Have you recently purchased the brand new H2H FUNdamentals masterclass or tried something you read in the book or heard on the podcast?How did it go? If it didn't go the way you hoped, there's a reason for that. Seven reasons, in fact. I discuss them all in this podcast episode. -Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel


