How to have Extraordinary Relationships

Some incredible and interesting guests coming up in Season 2.Here, we look ahead. Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

The tens of books she has written.How she loves a full on Christmas!!Sacks and satsumas? Movies Movies Movies!Advent calendars?How hard it is to buy for people!(Can you wrap a digital download code?!!)How kids can be frightened of food!How living in France teaches kids how to eat!What people look for in a book, and a little on structure.How some writers like to surprise themselves! Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Some wonderful and interesting guests are coming in Season 2 - here we look ahead. Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

In conversation with Jessica Yip - from her website:  I always thought if I did things “right,” love would just happen like it seemed to for everyone else.But underneath my material success, I was reliving all the toxic patterns that I was raised with: — Hot/cold relationships, — The inability to navigate conflict, — Martyring my needs/desires/goals for those of others.Even so, I was no stranger to self-development. A lifelong learner, do-er, and achiever — just like you — I read, listened to, and practiced it all. For years.But the many tools I had weren’t the ones I needed to put a stop to this cycle of heartbreak.  Calling in “The One” finally broke the spell.LOVE IS NO LONGER A MYSTERY, A STRUGGLE, OR A FANTASY.When I tell you that I’m healthy, I mean that I feel confident and connected to myself in a way that I didn’t know was possible. All of my dreams — of being in love, of being an entrepreneur, of making a music album, of belonging to a community, of writing a book — have become a miraculous reality.I coach because, despite all the ways we may have been actively and/or passively taught otherwise, everyone deserves to love and be loved. I coach because the joyful future you want is more than possible. It’s waiting for you, and I’m here to help you get there. Key Points of the Episode:   ·        How she had a great life on paper but felt an aching incompleteness.·        How an on/off situationship she realised was not serving her.·        How she reclaimed her voice in every sense- the journey.·        The two incredible brothers she met that worked magic in he life.·        Her musical heroes journey.·        The unhealthy patterns and beliefs we carry and how to break them.·        How we find our voice in relationships.·        How we do not need anyone to be anything for us to be happy.·        How to cultivate generosity of spirit in relationships. Reach out www.jessicayip.com  Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Sophie is a senior Imago Clinic instructor, a global citizen, speaks multiple languages, and has a highly successful relationship. Lucy has also trained with her.She brings a fantastic energy to the room. Key points of the episode: ·       How she never expected to focus so much on sex, and why she does.·       How talking about the pain, never helps one to feel “hot and horny”·       Where she thinks the wounds come from.·       How people do not know what their sexual needs are – or express them badly if they do.·       The adaptive strategies we develop if our needs are not met.·       Spontaneous desire contrasted with responsive desire.·       How she wanted to reclaim her own sexuality which she had disconnected to.·       Sexual appreciation dialogues·       Curiosity. Connection. Capacity. Willingness.Reach out here:Slade.imago@icloud.comwww.sophieslade.com  Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Anna Anderson is an established spiritual coach, and author, and has her own podcasts too. She empowers women to tune in and lead from their heart.Key points of the episode:  ·        How she guides people to do their own work and lead in Love·        How women come to her when they have "ticked the boxes" but are still not happy.·        How she teaches an inner connection of "I am" consciousness.....·        to find a life where we are self validating.·        How we are supposed to have all the good things, but not be defined by them.·        How we are all going through alchemical stages - "shedding the old to allow the new"·        Her story and where she came from we do not have to hit rock bottom.·        How growth happens. Reach out to Anna here: www.annaa.com Insta @iamannaanderson  Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Jeanne Byrd- from her website:I have been creating a safe space for men and women to transform their bodies and relationships since 2008. Using intuition, nutrition and transformative practice, I help my clients achieve results that were impossible with their old lifestyles and beliefs.My desire for you…I want to help you create a successful, soulful love life that matches your most intimate desire for partnership.I want to help you nourish and support your physical body so that you feel congruent and comfortable in your own skin, able to offer your heart and body to your Beloved as a gift, without shame or ambivalence.I want to help you catalyze heartbreak and suffering so that the people and experiences that informed you, no longer define you, or impact your future.I am a Senior Certified Calling in “The One” Coach and Facilitator, a Senior Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach, a Certified INHC Institute of Integrative Nutrition Coach, and a Senior Certified Feminine Power Transformative Coach. I have over 10 years of transformative coaching experience and have successfully worked with hundreds of men, women and couples.Key points of the episode:·        How nutrition, yes nutrition is key to love relationships.·        How mood is the missing link - Food=Mood·        How stress and her eating was breaking her body down.·        How stress absolutely has an effect on our immune systems.·        And how self care is absolutely necessary.·        Bring ALL parts of yourself to the table.·        Why we struggle with self care.·        What the "Calling In The One" process is.·        How our patterns run us, but are ultimately not true.·        How as a child, we blame ourselves for other peoples behaviour.·        Films that portray happy healthy love. (Jeanne has a film background)·        A little on conscious uncoupling.Reach out to Jeanne here www.jeannebyrd.com Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Lynn Crilly is an author, counsellor and filmmaker but more importantly a mother, grandmother and has been married for 34 years!  Sam Crilly is an actress, a professional poet, a creative and co-creator of the Troublemuncher, an app that helps young people express their feelings.  Key points of the episode: ·        How the Troublemuncher and the poetry came into being.·        Samantha's  journey with anorexia and OCD.·        How the whole family and the local GP was very supportive.·        How the OCD manifests in Samamtha. (in a somewhat unusual way)·        How Lynn removed Samantha from all the mental health services and nursed her back to health - a true story of a mothers love....·        ...and how this helps Lynn serve her clients now.·        How the family dynamics were affected.If you would like to reach out to Lynn - please do so here: www.lynncrilly.com Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Louisa Young is a writer and songwriter whose twelve novels include the award-winning ‘My Dear I Wanted to Tell You’ trilogy. She’s half of the children’s author Zizou Corder (with her daughter Isabel Adomakoh Young), and half of the band Birds of Britain (with Alex Mackenzie). She’s a Londoner, a former journalist, a singer, a feminist, a reader, and ‘a masterly storyteller’ –  The Washington Post.Her latest novel, Twelve Months And A Day, is published by Borough Press in June 2022. ‘A tale of two love stories with a supernatural twist, Twelve Months and a Day is poignant and sad as well as funny, and beautifully written and imagined. What if our beloveds lived on as ghosts and watched us grieve, what if they never really leave us, and what if some of these ghosts even meet?’ — Monique Roffey Her ‘beautiful’, ‘heartbreaking’. spectacular’, ‘unflinching’, ‘bruising’, ‘brilliant’, ‘honest as the morning after’ memoir, You Left Early: A True Story of Love and Alcohol, is out in paperback. She released her debut album, You Left Early, also about love, death and addiction, in 2018.Louisa has taught at Arvon, Skyros, Moniack Mhor, at Guardian Masterclasses, and for Birkbeck (University of London). She has been a Visiting Specialist Lecturer in Creative Non Fiction at the University of Kent at Canterbury. Key points of the episode:How she was depressed in her early years, and how she finally beat it and how life got better.How her (and many other) work worlds have changed so much over the years.Young children and their critique of her work!A close call with the IRA.Her thoughts on the riots (August 2024)What she will and wont write about and why."All about the approach, not about the topic"The difference betwen "fault" and "responsibility" and the need for tough love sometimes.Her new "romcom" book.... and a secret new project!Reach out on www.louisayoung.co.uk Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

In this interview a truly leading edge conversation with an extaordinary man Dr. Joe Kort - from his website:… I believe in finding new and constructive means of communication for couples so they can better understand their partners and use their relationships for mutual healing and fulfillment.Also - there is no shame in erotic orientation. As a heterosexual couple or individual, learn how to have a sex-positive attitude toward your sexual fantasies and minimize any shame you carry about your erotic interests. From the taboo topic of masturbation to more complex subjects such as emotional landscape and attachment, Dr. Joe Kort sheds light in the dark by sharing his more than thirty years experience in sex therapy. The key to happy, healthy sexuality is to not deny ones core erotic orientation.And - we live in a world that is deeply confused and conflicted about all matters sexual. If we talk about it at all it is often in whispers, “dirty” talk, or from a negative perspective such as sexual abuse, sexual trauma, or negative and incorrect messages we heard during our formative years.Key points of the episode:How he keeps up with the latest in therapy.A surprising revelation about sexuality.His claim to fame on Tik Tok!Surprising solutions to seemingly impossible sexual problems.The difference between sexual attraction and trauma urge.How there is no such thing as sexual addiction.The difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation.New term -"Erotic empathy."How we anaesthetize our pain by eroticising it, and how it has nothing to do with sexual attraction.New sexual term - not a "top" or "bottom" but a "side"!New term - "Outercourse"A definition of "kinky" and the difference of a "fetish"Why auto-erotic asphyxiation is dangerous.How he has kept his 31 year old marriage to his husband fresh.The difference between "porn use" and "porn watching" and a new take on porn addiction.How his job is "To help you find an answer that is not even on this planet right now!"New term "Gaytricarhy"How we can be more sexually fluid at times.Reach out to learn more about this fascinating man on https://joekort.com/ Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/