

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women
Melanie Curtin
Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? And if you're ready to do the work, come work with us -- we'd love to have you: www.evolutionary.men/apply.Get in touch at dearmenpodcast@gmail.com.
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May 10, 2020 • 1h 5min
103: Reverse polarity can kill your sex life as a couple -- unless you do this (ft. Violet & Jason Lange)
What happens in a romantic relationship when a man is more in his feminine energy and a woman is more in her masculine energy? Hint: not a lot of hot sex. Here, we go into David Deida's concepts of stage 1, stage 2, and stage 3 relationships and how each side of a couple can grow into even deeper, hotter, and more satisfying sex than ever.

May 4, 2020 • 1h 6min
102: BONUS GirlTalk - on men being in their power
Whether in sex, dating, or relationships, both men and women grapple with how to be in their power. If being powerful doesn't mean being controlling, what does it mean? A woman in a relationship with a man is profoundly impacted by how much he's owning his own sense of self, boundaries, and attraction. We cover all this as well as the importance of the phrase, "Maybe it's a bath night."

Apr 24, 2020 • 1h 10min
101: First-ever listener panel! on owning power as a man (ft. Ben, David & Mark)
What's a memorable time you owned your power? How about a time you didn't? Three loyal Dear Men listeners drop wisdom on sexual confidence, freezing up with a girl, how to cultivate a quality marriage, and more in this first-ever listener panel on our topic for the month: owning your power as a man in the modern world.

Apr 17, 2020 • 41min
100: Being masculine & having emotions: how to "do" it well (ft. John Schinnerer)
Men are often shamed for having emotions, which is holding back men, women, and culture as a whole. As a man, how do you deal with your anger, sadness, and also your joy? How do your emotions impact your sex? It turns out a man being emotionally skillful is part of what has him feel SAFE to the feminine. Healthy women *want* a man knows how he feels and can process those feelings. Here's how one man navigated getting there while being present to his masculinity.

Apr 12, 2020 • 1h 13min
99: A power couple talks about power in their relationship (ft. Jason & Violet Lange)
How does a man being in his power affect his woman? Whether in sex, dating, or relationships, the way WE show up affects how the OTHER person shows up -- whether it's a man impacting his woman, or vice versa. This is a cool exploration of how Jason and Violet's relationship unfolded, the obstacles they navigated together, and a description of the resilience of their love.

Apr 3, 2020 • 1h 12min
98: How to boost your sex appeal by owning your power (ft. Kevin O'Malley)
Women love a man who's in his power. Power isn't dominance (a point that a lot of men and women get confused). Sex, dating, relationships, and love are all served when the masculine owns his power -- and here's one man's story of going from a man who held back and waited and was passive, to one who owns his power as a leader and a lover.

Mar 27, 2020 • 39min
97: Using a matchmaker: what to know (ft. Matchmaker May)
Both men and women have used matchmaking for centuries in cultures all over the world. Here we talk about the world of modern matchmaking, its relationship to sex, what men and women look for, and more.

Mar 21, 2020 • 29min
96: How do you date if you have a mental illness? (ft. Jim of NoLongerLonely.com)
How do you date if you've got a diagnosis like schizophrenia, an anxiety disorder, clinical depression, or bipolar? You can always use NoLongerLonely.com, a dating site specifically designed for you! Founder Jim goes through his impetus for creating the site and his experience with sex, dating, and relationships with a clinical diagnosis.

Mar 6, 2020 • 37min
95: How NLP can dramatically help your sex & love life (ft. Mark Sing)
Unconscious & subconscious beliefs about sexuality, dating, relationships, and women can block men from what they want. Beliefs that were installed in childhood (like, "Don't bother anyone" or, "I'm not enough") can prevent you from going for what you want in sex and relationships as an adult. In this episode we discuss how your beliefs may be affecting your dating and relationship life, and how to un-install beliefs that aren't helpful anymore. Gamechanger! Featuring NLP dating coach Mark Sing.

Feb 28, 2020 • 34min
94: Real-life sexual healing (ft. Melissa Davison, Certified Sexological Bodyworker)
Melissa Davison, a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, dives deep into the realm of sexual healing, exploring how men can overcome challenges like erectile dysfunction and develop healthier intimacy. She shares her transformative journey into this niche field, emphasizing the importance of breathing and body awareness in enhancing sexual performance. Davison discusses the stigma around adult sexuality and the need for open communication and re-education. Through personal stories, she encourages men to embrace assertiveness in relationships, fostering genuine connections.