How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

Special guest Ryan Lanji, a cultural producer and winner of Netflix’s Big Flower Fight, dives into the exhilarating art of first dates. He shares hilarious personal stories and invaluable tips for navigating that nerve-wracking experience. The conversation explores the emotional rollercoaster of dating, focusing on the importance of authenticity, communication, and setting boundaries. Ryan also sheds light on queer dating dynamics, emphasizing the value of self-worth and support systems in forming meaningful connections.

Jessel Taank, the first South Asian housewife on The Real Housewives of New York, dives deep into her personal journey as a fashion publicist and brand consultant. She candidly discusses her struggles with IVF and the societal pressures of motherhood. With humor, she reflects on the challenges of balancing ambition with family life and navigating the reality TV landscape, likening it to Game of Thrones. Jessel also shares insights on identity, beauty standards, and the emotional toll of public scrutiny in a high-stakes environment.

In this episode, Sharmaine Lovegrove, an esteemed publisher and co-host of How To Write A Book, shares her journey of dating after a marital separation. She dives into the challenges of navigating both online dating and real-life interactions, emphasizing the importance of self-esteem and resilience amid rejection. Sharmaine also discusses the power of attraction, the emotional complexities of modern romance, and the significance of self-reflection in breaking negative dating patterns. Her candid anecdotes provide a refreshing perspective on finding love again.

Nick Grimshaw, a celebrated broadcaster and author, shares candid stories about significant moments in his life, including his struggles with education and personal identity. He vividly recounts coming out as the first openly gay breakfast show presenter and the complex family dynamics that shaped him. Grimshaw also discusses the humorous challenges he faced while interviewing celebrities and the relatable struggle to remain present amidst life's distractions. His journey emphasizes the importance of authenticity, self-acceptance, and the joys and trials of personal connections.

Explore the daunting question of dating readiness, tackling themes of heartbreak and self-love. The hosts share personal anecdotes about navigating love after loss with humor and sincerity. Discover the importance of self-awareness and how it shapes healthy relationships. Learn about the complexities of dating and the significance of vulnerability. Uncover the value of adaptability in dating expectations and assess your own readiness through practical exercises. Elevate your dating mindset with empowering beliefs for successful connections.

Dame Harriet Walter, an Olivier and Emmy-award-winning actress known for her roles in 'Killing Eve' and 'Ted Lasso', reflects on her storied career and the struggles she faced in the acting world. She shares humorous anecdotes about audition rejections and the complexities of embodying iconic characters. Walter also opens up about her battles with anorexia, loneliness, and her complicated relationship with food. Finally, she discusses the bittersweet nature of fame, revealing her desire for deeper fulfillment beyond recognition.

Sharon Horgan, acclaimed writer and director known for shows like "Bad Sisters" and "Catastrophe," opens up about her journey through failure and personal growth. She shares how dropping out of drama school and the end of her marriage led to unexpected positive changes in her life. Horgan highlights the resilience and confidence she gained from these experiences and discusses the balance of humor and darkness in her storytelling. She also reflects on the emotional complexities of motherhood and navigating life as she approaches her 50s.

Stephen Merchant, the actor, writer, and director known for his comedic genius in "The Office," opens up about the pressures of aging as he approaches 50. He shares invaluable insights gained from working with Ricky Gervais and discusses the resilience built through failure in the comedy world. Stephen reflects on the complexity of self-acceptance, particularly regarding body image, and reveals the insecurities that even the seemingly successful face, reminding us that everyone, no matter their fame, has their struggles.

Geena Davis, an award-winning actress renowned for iconic roles in films like 'Thelma & Louise' and 'Beetlejuice', joins for a candid discussion. She shares her struggles with imposter syndrome and the unexpected path that led her to her first film role after failing as a model. The conversation touches on her late diagnosis of ADD, her advocacy for gender equality in media, and the challenges women face in Hollywood. Davis also reflects on her friendship with Susan Sarandon and her aspirations of becoming an Olympic archer, all while managing the pressures of self-image.

In a heartfelt discussion, Jamie Dornan, known for his roles in 'The Fall' and 'Fifty Shades of Grey', shares his journey through failures in acting and personal life. He reflects on growing up in conflict-ridden Northern Ireland and the profound impacts of grief and loss, including the death of his mother. Dornan opens up about parenting three daughters amidst societal pressures, revealing insights on gender stereotypes and nurturing individuality. The conversation highlights the humor found in failure and the importance of embracing one’s unique path.