Strong Men In God

I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today.I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God.Since I’ve made the shift, I feel:-Much more peace-Much lighter-Much more gratefulAnd, God is blessing me financially as well.Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months.Today you’ll learn about his story…And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man…That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles…To create BIG transformations in just 31 days.Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to join the group with me for the November 20th 31 day challenge, visit this link and when you use the code “strongmen” you’ll get $19.99 off!https://31dailychallenges.com/ P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago.I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process.I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way…And how to accomplish it…Learn how in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat.Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)...That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)...And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)...And let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.That’s when you tell your wife:-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling-You’re rightThis causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did-Understand how she could feel that way-Understand how she could think that wayThis helps her feel safe and open her mind, heart and body more to you.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MytcPIKG2xkDr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by…Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayNow, try it and see how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

My wife and I got in a fight last night…And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern…Creating less safety and closed hearts…And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy….Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayWatch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjjxlpDd52ADr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work.Instead, try…Responding with kindness…Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)...Or just saying “no.”And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either…Get mad back…Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)...Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy.Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy.Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLcoDr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

Relationships are built by…Talking to peopleSpending time togetherDoing things togetherTo build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things.Choose 1 to do this week.And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.