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How do you get your wife to pay more attention to you?Appreciate you more?Kiss, hug and have sex with you more?Some couples therapists will say "just ask for it."This seems like it would work... BUT IT DOESN'T.You know because you're already trying this.Learn what to do INSTEAD... that ALWAYS works... in this episode.Watch on YouTube hereMikeP.S. For your COMPLETE system to build up your internal strength and interpersonal skill… so you get the strong, joyful and intimate marriage you’ve always wanted… in 90 days or less… join us in The Strong Man System. The first module opens September 21st. Sign up here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Experts say up to 93% of communication is non-verbal.That's why "saying the right words" or focusing on "communication skills" in marriage almost always FAILS.Instead, what will make the most IMPACT in your communication is evaluating your INTENTIONS in what you are saying.And, a great way to find these is to ask yourself..."What is the sentence AFTER?"For example, when you say to your wife "I'm trying to understand you..."Is the sentence after in your head..."But I can't because that idea is stupid."Or is it..."Because I want to really understand where you're at so we can find something that works for both of us."Because your wife (and you) WILL pick up on this sentence after.You just have to do the work to FIND it and WORK on it.And you CAN do it!Watch on YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

You think it’s…Good sex. Being appreciated. Being valued. Being loved.And, a successful marriage does include ALL of those things.BUT…Your wife CAN NOT give those to you.These things MUST come from something DEEPER and more SOLID than your wife’s words and actions.And you CAN feel those things… even WITHOUT your wife.You can feel full, valued, loved and appreciated.Learn how in this episode.Watch on YouTube MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

A lot of the men I work with are looking for VALIDATION from their wives.Now, they will call it different things.They will say "I just want my wife to care" or "I just want my wife to have sex with me" or "I just want my wife to reach out to me when she doesn't need something."But, when it comes down to it, they are asking for their wife to VALIDATE their sense of self-worth.I did this for YEARS in my marriage.Unfortunately, it doesn't work.Your wife can NOT be responsible for your sense of self-worth.She can try for a while, but eventually she'll get tired of it.Instead, you need to KNOW for YOURSELF that you have INFINITE worth and potential.That you are WORTH choosing.Then, you can go out and serve your wife WITHOUT expecting her attention, appreciation or affection...Which is when you are MOST LIKELY to get it from her.Because she knows there really are "no strings attached."Watch on YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

As I’ve thought about how to help my clients better, I realized that I neglected something VERY important…Developing your physical strength and fitness.Find out why in this week’s episode:Watch on YouTube here.Summary:When you work on a physical goal, MANY good things happen…-Your overall health and energy improve-Your mind works more easily and quickly-You are able to find purpose and meaning-You have TOTAL control over it, which is powerful… especially when you’re feeling powerless-You develop consistency and the ability to fail, both of which are necessary in to succeed in ALL areas of lifeMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!P.P.S. Want proof I dunked? Visit this page. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

In case you thought a great marriage is always perfect...You're wrong!In this episode I share a negative pattern that has plagued our marriage for YEARS...And what I did to FINALLY start breaking free from it.Hint: It has to do with me feeling like a MARTYR in my marriage.Watch on YouTube here.Summary:-When I feel like a martyr in my marriage, my WIFE is probably struggling-Instead of COMPLAINING, use my strengths-Spiritual strength - Be the strong and loving husband I want to be-Emotional strength - Seek to UNDERSTAND her and manage my OWN emotions-Mental strength - Use STFAIR to look at my thoughts-Sexual strength - Approach sex in a way I can be PROUD ofMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

"Your wife can prop up your ego or your penis, but not both."Today I have a VERY special treat for you all!Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife!If you're not familiar with her work, she is a licensed therapist who specializes in relationships and sexuality.She is one of the people I respect and admire very much and who has helped me understand why focusing on STRENGTH is SO IMPORTANT when it comes to sexual attraction.In this interview you will learn:-How the female sexual response works... and why being a good CHOICE for her is so important-Why you need to STOP being "pathetic" when it comes to sex... and what to do instead-How to approach sex with your wife in a way that's ATTRACTIVE... instead of just saying "do you want to have sex?"-My own personal breakthrough at the end of the interview about the feeling of "taking" sex from my wife... and how I can approach it in a way I can be PROUD of... even though my wife has a history of serious sexual abuseYou can find Dr. Finlayson-Fife's excellent courses and retreats here: http://finlayson-fife.comDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Most people come to me because they’re not happy in their marriage.They’re not getting enough of what they want from their wife.BUT, they usually are NOT doing the MOST EFFECTIVE things to get their wife (or others) to do more of what they want.Learn the BEST and MOST EFFECTIVE ways to influence others to do more of what you want in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-COMPLAINING will NOT get you more of what you want-Figure out EXACTLY what you want your wife to do-Ask for that, giving a REASON why you want it-If she says “no…”-Try to understand WHY-Feel the hard emotions that come up-Decide what YOU will do if she says “no”-Follow through on what you said you would doMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

We just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary at an amazing party with family and friends that are also family.You’ll hear a few tips on how to throw a great party…And  5 of the biggest lessons that I’ve learned through these 15 years.Watch on YouTube here Summary:1 - Decide and then get spiritual confirmation2 - Have faith and let people help3 - Happy wife happy life is a lie4 - Intimacy requires bravery5 - You have to know the bitter to know the sweetMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Do you feel like you're trying hard in your marriage...But it's making NO difference?Is your wife INDIFFERENT about your changes...Or even HOSTILE about them?In this episode, we'll discuss how you can use FAITH to continue to "do good to them that hate you."Watch on YouTube hereSummary:-Doing good is like planting a seed-Continuing to do good is like watering that seed-It can take YEARS to see that seed grow into a plant-BUT, every day of watering counts.-You are building up the roots. Becoming that better man.-And good WILL return to you for it. Guaranteed.-Keep watering. Have patience. Have faith.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157