

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Oct 13, 2020 • 19min
How Calling Your Wife Out Can HELP Your Marriage
Did you know what your wife WANTS you to call her out?Maybe not consciously, but unconsciously, she wants you to show STRENGTH and LEADERSHIP in your marriage.And that means, when it's appropriate, calling out her inappropriate behavior (in a strong and loving way)...DISAGREEING with her at times (in a strong and loving way)...And passing other "strength tests" she throws your way.(You’ll learn what a few of more of them are in this episode).Like any strength building, it's uncomfortable at first...But leads to BIG benefits later.You’ll have to ABANDON the mantra “happy wife happy life…”Because it requires DISCOMFORT for her and you to set boundaries in this way.And start to believe the mantra “strong is sexy.”Watch you YouTube here. MikeP.S. If you're ready to feel STRONGER and create more INTIMACY in your marriage than you've EVER experienced, come join us in The Strong Man System.You'll have more physical, mental, emotional and spiritual intimacy in your marriage than you have EVER had... in 90 days or less... or your money back.CLICK HERE to join. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 6, 2020 • 20min
Religious Differences In Marriage - How They Can Be A GOOD Thing
If you and your wife have different religious beliefs, it can be SCARY.A lot of experts will tell you that this can be a big cause for PROBLEMS in marriage.BUT, it can also be an incredible OPPORTUNITY.For MORE intimacy and connection.In fact, you may find that discussing and understanding these differences brings MORE intimacy than almost anything else.Learn how this can happen in this episode.And, if you're ready to have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids... in 90 days or less... visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me and join us in The Strong Man System.I’ll see you there!Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 29, 2020 • 53min
Win Your Wife Back Workshop Part 2 - How To Get The BEST Relationships You've EVER Had... In 90 Days Or Less
In part 1 of the workshop, we learned that the main problem is that your wife is not ATTRACTED to you right now.That’s why she wants a divorce or separation, “loves you but is not in love with you,” or is interested in someone else.We learned that STRENGTH is what ATTRACTS women.Spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.We started learning HOW to build that up.And how to become an EXPERT at communication, conflict management and intimacy.This week you’ll learn the FINAL steps to TRANSFORM your marriage…And create the BEST relationships you have EVER had.With God, yourself, your wife and your kids…In 90 days or less…Guaranteed.You can SIGN UP for The Strong Man System here.It’s a ONE TIME investment of $2,000 with a LIFETIME of benefits.-LIFETIME access to online materials-LIFETIME access to ask me questions ANY time… as often as you WANT-LIFETIME access to our member’s only Facebook group for support-LIFETIME access to a weekly group call for LIVE coachingAnd…If you complete ALL the materials…And follow through on ALL the habits…For 90 days straight…And don’t feel like you have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids…You get your investment BACK.There’s nothing to lose and a lifetime of health and happiness to gain (According to the 80-year long Harvard Study of Adult Development).CLICK HERE to sign up now. See you inside!Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 22, 2020 • 38min
Win Your Wife Back Workshop Part 1 - 5 Steps To GUARANTEE Yourself A Strong, Joyful and Intimate Marriage
For many of you listening to this podcast, your marriage is NOT where you want it to be right now.You may be…-Recovering from infidelity (yours or hers)-Hearing “I love you but I’m not in love with you”-Facing potential divorce or separation (or are already in that process)-Having little to no sex in your marriage-Having BIG trouble with communicationNo matter WHAT is going on in your marriage right now…The MAIN problem is that you are no longer ATTRACTIVE to your wife.This workshop will help you see EXACTLY how to build that attraction back up…So you can GUARANTEE yourself a strong, joyful and intimate marriage…And AVOID a lifetime of a loveless marriage or a messy divorce.Part 1 is today and part 2 is next week.To watch the workshop, visit this link: https://winyourwifeback2020.pages.ontraport.net/See you inside!Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 15, 2020 • 23min
The Counterintuitive Way To Get More Attention, Appreciation And Affection From Your Wife
How do you get your wife to pay more attention to you?Appreciate you more?Kiss, hug and have sex with you more?Some couples therapists will say "just ask for it."This seems like it would work... BUT IT DOESN'T.You know because you're already trying this.Learn what to do INSTEAD... that ALWAYS works... in this episode.Watch on YouTube hereMikeP.S. For your COMPLETE system to build up your internal strength and interpersonal skill… so you get the strong, joyful and intimate marriage you’ve always wanted… in 90 days or less… join us in The Strong Man System. The first module opens September 21st. Sign up here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 8, 2020 • 19min
Marriage Communication Tool - The Sentence After
Experts say up to 93% of communication is non-verbal.That's why "saying the right words" or focusing on "communication skills" in marriage almost always FAILS.Instead, what will make the most IMPACT in your communication is evaluating your INTENTIONS in what you are saying.And, a great way to find these is to ask yourself..."What is the sentence AFTER?"For example, when you say to your wife "I'm trying to understand you..."Is the sentence after in your head..."But I can't because that idea is stupid."Or is it..."Because I want to really understand where you're at so we can find something that works for both of us."Because your wife (and you) WILL pick up on this sentence after.You just have to do the work to FIND it and WORK on it.And you CAN do it!Watch on YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 1, 2020 • 21min
What Is Success In Marriage?
You think it’s…Good sex. Being appreciated. Being valued. Being loved.And, a successful marriage does include ALL of those things.BUT…Your wife CAN NOT give those to you.These things MUST come from something DEEPER and more SOLID than your wife’s words and actions.And you CAN feel those things… even WITHOUT your wife.You can feel full, valued, loved and appreciated.Learn how in this episode.Watch on YouTube MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 25, 2020 • 20min
You Are Worth Choosing - How To Stop Needing Your Wife’s Validation
A lot of the men I work with are looking for VALIDATION from their wives.Now, they will call it different things.They will say "I just want my wife to care" or "I just want my wife to have sex with me" or "I just want my wife to reach out to me when she doesn't need something."But, when it comes down to it, they are asking for their wife to VALIDATE their sense of self-worth.I did this for YEARS in my marriage.Unfortunately, it doesn't work.Your wife can NOT be responsible for your sense of self-worth.She can try for a while, but eventually she'll get tired of it.Instead, you need to KNOW for YOURSELF that you have INFINITE worth and potential.That you are WORTH choosing.Then, you can go out and serve your wife WITHOUT expecting her attention, appreciation or affection...Which is when you are MOST LIKELY to get it from her.Because she knows there really are "no strings attached."Watch on YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 18, 2020 • 21min
Why Physical Strength Matters - What I Learned From Dunking A Basketball
As I’ve thought about how to help my clients better, I realized that I neglected something VERY important…Developing your physical strength and fitness.Find out why in this week’s episode:Watch on YouTube here.Summary:When you work on a physical goal, MANY good things happen…-Your overall health and energy improve-Your mind works more easily and quickly-You are able to find purpose and meaning-You have TOTAL control over it, which is powerful… especially when you’re feeling powerless-You develop consistency and the ability to fail, both of which are necessary in to succeed in ALL areas of lifeMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!P.P.S. Want proof I dunked? Visit this page. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 11, 2020 • 22min
My Negative Marriage Pattern - And What I'm Learning
In case you thought a great marriage is always perfect...You're wrong!In this episode I share a negative pattern that has plagued our marriage for YEARS...And what I did to FINALLY start breaking free from it.Hint: It has to do with me feeling like a MARTYR in my marriage.Watch on YouTube here.Summary:-When I feel like a martyr in my marriage, my WIFE is probably struggling-Instead of COMPLAINING, use my strengths-Spiritual strength - Be the strong and loving husband I want to be-Emotional strength - Seek to UNDERSTAND her and manage my OWN emotions-Mental strength - Use STFAIR to look at my thoughts-Sexual strength - Approach sex in a way I can be PROUD ofMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157