

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Nov 24, 2020 • 52min
How To Have A Better Sex Life With Your Wife
Right now your sex life isn't where you'd like it to be.You've tried the usual things. Helping more around the house, buying her gifts, trying to speak her love language, spending less time with friends and work and more time at home.You’re getting frustrated that all your efforts are not being recognized.You’re barely getting a “thank you,” much less a wife who is eager to go to bed with you.And telling her you’re frustrated hasn’t been helping.But, you're missing what ACTUALLY works to create a great sex life.And that is STRENGTH.This presentation will help you understand what kind of strength to build...And how to show it in a way that creates PASSION and INTIMACY in your marriage.CLICK HERE to watch.MikeP.S. For a complete system on how to build your strength and create incredible intimacy in your marriage...And LIFETIME coaching to guide you along the way…Join The Strong Man System. You can get the details here. November registration CLOSES on Monday, November 30th at Midnight Pacific Time. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 17, 2020 • 32min
What To Do When Your Wife Is Depressed And Anxious
What To Do When Your Wife Is Depressed And AnxiousWhen your wife is depressed and/or anxious, it can be hard to know what to do to help her.Today I have a special guest, Lizzie Langston.She is an LDS postpartum coach, helping women overcome depression and anxiety that often follows having a baby.We discuss how we as husbands can help our wives as they struggle with depression and anxiety.Watch you YouTube here. You can find Lizzie on her website or her instagram, @LizzieLangston.Highlights:-Don’t take responsibility for your wife’s depression or anxiety-Don’t try to “fix” her depression or anxiety-Physically being there, even without saying anything, is very helpful to her-Make sure to be managing your own self-care well-Make getting help not a big deal, as she likely feels like a burden and doesn’t want to be a financial burden-Model getting help by getting help or coaching for yourselfMikeP.S. The Strong Man System opens up again on Friday, November 27th - Monday, November 30th. Give your family the gift of a strong and loving leader in their home. There’s nothing more meaningful you could do for them. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 10, 2020 • 21min
How To Be More Confident
To be a strong and loving leader of your home, you need to be confident.Confidence feels great, feels strong, and is ATTRACTIVE to your wife and others.But, how do you become more confident?There are 3 main steps:1. Be someone who can be relied on. A man of your word. Keep the promises you make.This includes saying "no" more than you say "yes" so that your "yes" is more valuable.2. Realize your INHERENT value that does NOT change as a son of God.3. Recognize and build up your gifts and abilities, and use them in SERVICE of others... instead of COMPARING yourself to others.Watch you YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you're ready to build up your spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength to create a better marriage than you ever thought possible, join us in The Strong Man System. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 3, 2020 • 24min
How To Be More Manly
What does it mean to be a real man?I've been trying to answer that question my whole life.This week, we'll look at two examples.One is the type of man we want to be (Nephi)...The other is the type of man we do NOT want to be (Laman and Lemuel)Watch you YouTube here. Summary:-Faith vs Fear. COMMITTING to a result BEFORE knowing all the "how."-Persistence vs Giving Up-Asking For Help vs Not-Gratitude vs Complaining-Trying to change your situation vs Trying to change yourselfMikeP.S. For a complete system to build yourself up as a man so you can have a strong, joyful and intimate marriage, visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 27, 2020 • 24min
What Does God Think About You?
When it comes to creating a strong, joyful and intimate marriage, there are 3 relationships that need to be built.1. God's relationship with you/your relationship with God2. Your relationship with yourself3. Your relationship with your wifeToday we're going to examine God's relationship with you... meaning...What are God's thoughts and feelings about you?If you feel like you're trying to earn God's approval (and the approval of others)...And avoid His disapproval (or disapproval of others)...This episode will be LIFE CHANGING for you.MikeP.S. For a complete system to rebuild your relationship with God, yourself and your wife... so you can have a strong, joyful and intimate marriage... visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 20, 2020 • 20min
The 3 Levels Of Sex In Marriage
Do you wish you had a better sex life with your wife?Do you have a hard time bringing up sex with your wife…Or does she often say “no” or “I’m too tired” when you do finally ask?In this episode, you’ll learn WHY your sexual advances are unattractive to your wife…And how to make them much MORE attractive…And likely to get a “yes.”Summary:-There are 3 levels of sex in marriage-Physical - orgasm-focused-Emotional - validation-focused-Rational - knowledge-focused-When you are on level 1 or 2, your wife knows you are trying to USE her through sex (which is why she says “no”)-When you are on level 3, your wife and you know that it’s about deep CONNECTION (which is why she will say “yes”)MikeP.S. If you're ready to have more intimacy than you have EVER had in your marriage... guaranteed... come join us in The Strong Man System. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 13, 2020 • 19min
How Calling Your Wife Out Can HELP Your Marriage
Did you know what your wife WANTS you to call her out?Maybe not consciously, but unconsciously, she wants you to show STRENGTH and LEADERSHIP in your marriage.And that means, when it's appropriate, calling out her inappropriate behavior (in a strong and loving way)...DISAGREEING with her at times (in a strong and loving way)...And passing other "strength tests" she throws your way.(You’ll learn what a few of more of them are in this episode).Like any strength building, it's uncomfortable at first...But leads to BIG benefits later.You’ll have to ABANDON the mantra “happy wife happy life…”Because it requires DISCOMFORT for her and you to set boundaries in this way.And start to believe the mantra “strong is sexy.”Watch you YouTube here. MikeP.S. If you're ready to feel STRONGER and create more INTIMACY in your marriage than you've EVER experienced, come join us in The Strong Man System.You'll have more physical, mental, emotional and spiritual intimacy in your marriage than you have EVER had... in 90 days or less... or your money back.CLICK HERE to join. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 6, 2020 • 20min
Religious Differences In Marriage - How They Can Be A GOOD Thing
If you and your wife have different religious beliefs, it can be SCARY.A lot of experts will tell you that this can be a big cause for PROBLEMS in marriage.BUT, it can also be an incredible OPPORTUNITY.For MORE intimacy and connection.In fact, you may find that discussing and understanding these differences brings MORE intimacy than almost anything else.Learn how this can happen in this episode.And, if you're ready to have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids... in 90 days or less... visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me and join us in The Strong Man System.I’ll see you there!Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 29, 2020 • 53min
Win Your Wife Back Workshop Part 2 - How To Get The BEST Relationships You've EVER Had... In 90 Days Or Less
In part 1 of the workshop, we learned that the main problem is that your wife is not ATTRACTED to you right now.That’s why she wants a divorce or separation, “loves you but is not in love with you,” or is interested in someone else.We learned that STRENGTH is what ATTRACTS women.Spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.We started learning HOW to build that up.And how to become an EXPERT at communication, conflict management and intimacy.This week you’ll learn the FINAL steps to TRANSFORM your marriage…And create the BEST relationships you have EVER had.With God, yourself, your wife and your kids…In 90 days or less…Guaranteed.You can SIGN UP for The Strong Man System here.It’s a ONE TIME investment of $2,000 with a LIFETIME of benefits.-LIFETIME access to online materials-LIFETIME access to ask me questions ANY time… as often as you WANT-LIFETIME access to our member’s only Facebook group for support-LIFETIME access to a weekly group call for LIVE coachingAnd…If you complete ALL the materials…And follow through on ALL the habits…For 90 days straight…And don’t feel like you have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids…You get your investment BACK.There’s nothing to lose and a lifetime of health and happiness to gain (According to the 80-year long Harvard Study of Adult Development).CLICK HERE to sign up now. See you inside!Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 22, 2020 • 38min
Win Your Wife Back Workshop Part 1 - 5 Steps To GUARANTEE Yourself A Strong, Joyful and Intimate Marriage
For many of you listening to this podcast, your marriage is NOT where you want it to be right now.You may be…-Recovering from infidelity (yours or hers)-Hearing “I love you but I’m not in love with you”-Facing potential divorce or separation (or are already in that process)-Having little to no sex in your marriage-Having BIG trouble with communicationNo matter WHAT is going on in your marriage right now…The MAIN problem is that you are no longer ATTRACTIVE to your wife.This workshop will help you see EXACTLY how to build that attraction back up…So you can GUARANTEE yourself a strong, joyful and intimate marriage…And AVOID a lifetime of a loveless marriage or a messy divorce.Part 1 is today and part 2 is next week.To watch the workshop, visit this link: https://winyourwifeback2020.pages.ontraport.net/See you inside!Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157