

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Jun 1, 2021 • 18min
How To Create Emotional Safety In Marriage
Women typically want two things in a marriage: security and romance.Being an emotionally safe person provides security.It lets her know that you value her. That you will be there for her. That she matters to you.Learn how to provide this emotional safety and sense of security in today’s episode.Also, see why you can’t wait for your spouse to be perfectly “emotionally safe” before you bring up difficult issues.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System will be coming out very soon. It’s new and improved with more and better benefits than ever before, including times to work with me 1 on 1. Watch for it in the next few days, and if you’re not on my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join the list. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

May 25, 2021 • 21min
How To Stop Worrying About Your Marriage
Right now you’re worried about the future of your marriage.Will you get divorced?Will you get separated?Will your wife have another affair?You think your life will basically be over if these things happen.And that makes you try to STOP these things from happening… using EXTREME measures.Changing yourself. Doing the 5 love languages. Spying on her. However, these actions are motivated by FEAR. And FEAR is not ATTRACTIVE to your wife.It drives her AWAY. And makes all these negative outcomes MORE likely.Learn what to do INSTEAD in today’s episode.So you can approach these situations with CALM and CONFIDENCE… which are ATTRACTIVE to your wife.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System is being updated and will available very soon! In the meantime, I do have a few 1 on 1 spots available. You can schedule a consultation here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

May 18, 2021 • 29min
When She Says She Needs Space
When your wife says she “needs space,” what does that actually mean?It means she needs space from your NEGATIVE and UNATTRACTIVE thoughts and behaviors.Learn the top 3 negative things she needs space from…And how to CHANGE them…In this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary-DO NOT use the “no contact” rule, as this will create MORE distance between you and your wife-Be friendly and cordial-STOP one-up thinking and behaviors and realize how damaging they are-Stop being NEEDY and start being CONFIDENT -Stop PRESSURING her and start being a great CHOICE and understanding she has the FREEDOM to choose you or notDr. MikeP.S. Next week I’ll be opening my 30 day program to Win Your Wife Back. It’s a high intensity program for men who are ready to work hard to save their marriage. Watch for it next week. And if you’re interested in 1 on 1 work as an individual or couple, CLICK HERE to schedule a consult. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

May 11, 2021 • 23min
How To Sell Your Wife On The New You
You want to show your wife you’re changing.But you’re going about it all wrong.It’s not about maximizing the good and minimizing the bad.It’s not about making the “pros” outweigh the “cons.”It’s about DIAGNOSING your problems and TREATING them.It’s about being BRUTALLY HONEST about your shortcomings to yourself and your wife.ONLY then can she start to trust you…And have ANY belief or hope that things can change.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Which used car salesman do you trust more? The one who minimizes all the car defects, or the one who brings them to your attention… including the ones you didn’t notice yourself?-If you’re just about proving you’re a good choice, you’re showing you don’t really care about your wife. You just want to “make the sale.”-Instead, get CLEAR on your faults and why you are NOT a good choice for her-Then go about fixing them-Join The Strong Man System or work with me 1 on 1 to learn how to diagnose and fix those problems, so you can be a great choice and create an amazing marriage… no matter how bad things are right now.Dr. MikeP.S. Visit this page http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to work with me to help save your marriage. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

May 4, 2021 • 25min
I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You
Women want two things in a marriage.Security and romance.If you’re hearing “I love you but I’m not in love with you,” she’s missing one or both of these things.Learn how to provide BOTH security AND romance in this episode.So you and your wife can both feel “in love” with each other again.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Security is provided by having a strong sense of self, being a man of your word, a man on a mission, being willing to stand up to and for your wife, and having the mental and emotional maturity to get to win-win-Romance is provided by owning your sexuality, and directing it towards your wife in a fun, playful and attractive way-You can learn how to do BOTH of these things-I can teach you how to do them in my courses and 1 on 1 workDr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to work with me to save your marriage, as an individual or a couple, schedule a 20 minute consultation. We’ll see where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and whether I can help you get there. CLICK HERE to schedule. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 27, 2021 • 21min
Why "Being One" In Marriage Is A Problem
The movies, church, and society teach us to “be one” in a marriage.But, we often misunderstand what this means.We become TOO blended with our wife.We become overly focused on “making her happy” and winning her approval (attention, appreciation and affection).A good marriage is like a good meal.Pasta and shrimp taste GREAT together.But if you put them in a blender and drink it…It doesn’t taste that great any more.Learn how to be TOGETHER in your marriage WITHOUT becoming overly blended in this episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/jprZYcdipl4Summary:-We become overly blended when our wife’s opinion becomes TOO important to us-Or when we seek TOO much for her approval (attention, appreciation, affection, sex)-Instead, we need to be our OWN man-AND learn how to work together with our wife-In ways that work for BOTH of us-You need the skills of confidence, communication, collaboration and intimacy to make that happen-You can learn ALL those skills in Marriage Basic TrainingCLICK HERE to join Marriage Basic Training.It CLOSES Friday, April 30th at Midnight pacific time.I’ll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. Marriage Basic Training will teach you EXACTLY how to have the confidence you need to have difficult conversations with your wife. You’ll learn how to get to where you are BOTH winning in money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, household work, and more. And I stand by my course. Do the work. If it’s not worth your investment, you get your investment back. CLICK HERE to join now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 20, 2021 • 23min
How To End Resentment In Your Marriage
Resentment is a COMMON feeling in marriage.But, most people don’t know where it comes from or what to do about it.Overall, it comes from feeling like you are LOSING in your marriage…While your wife is WINNING.If you feel like you’re doing more than your fair share…Doing things you don’t really want to do…Or denying yourself things you really want…Resentment is sure to follow.Luckily, there’s a SIMPLE solution to completely ELIMINATE resentment in your marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling resentful in your marriage, you are either:--Doing things you don’t want to do--Denying yourself things you want to do--Doing things for your wife expecting her to do the same for you (without asking her clearly)-Overall, it feels like you’re losing and she’s winning-Instead, decide what’s a win for you-Understand what’s a win for your wife-And find a win for BOTH of youDr. MikeP.S. If you listen to the podcast, write a review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you’re listening. Let’s get to 100 reviews!P.P.S. If you’re ready to learn EXACTLY how to have a fun, happy and intimate marriage, let’s work together to get you there. Visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to learn how. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 13, 2021 • 20min
How To Put The Past In The Past And Move Forward
A lot of men complain that their wife can’t seem to move past their mistakes.They just keep bringing up the past.Whether they’ve made big mistakes like an affair, or smaller mistakes like not listening to their wife…They just want to forget about it and move forward.They get frustrated when they make the changes their wife wants to see…But their wife doesn’t seem to appreciate those changes.This lack of appreciation can cause them to stop trying, which just makes things worse.Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in this episode…And put the past in the past once and for all.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Asking for forgiveness MINIMIZES the damage you’ve done-Stop trying to “dig yourself out of the hole” with good behavior-Instead, decide who YOU want to be as a man-And ask for your wife’s FEEDBACK to tell you when you’re not being that man-Asking for and being open to feedback shows EXTREME emotional strength-Which is very ATTRACTIVE to your wifeDr. MikeP.S. Want to work together in depth to build up your strength and create a happy, long-lasting and passionate marriage? Apply to join The Strong Man System here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 6, 2021 • 29min
How To Put On The Armor Of God
Satan is attacking men, marriages and families CONSTANTLY.Every day, 130 people commit suicide. Of those, 90 are men.50% of marriages end in divorce. 40-80% of married people are unhappy in their marriage.42% of Americans are obese.The average savings for people age 20-40 is $2,000.Satan’s goal is to make us WEAK and MISERABLE.God wants us to be STRONG,JOYFUL and INDEPENDENT.We defend ourselves and defeat Satan by putting on the armor of God.Learn how to do that in practical, tactical ways in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Align yourself with God by being in integrity-Use your sexuality in ways that are consistent with who YOU want to be-Recognize there is right and wrong, and align yourself with right-Identify your purpose and mission and move towards that-Have the faith to do what is right and let the consequence follow (exposing your errors, fighting for win-win in your life and marriage)-Fill your thoughts with light and truth-Be in line with God’s Spirit and speak His words to influence othersDr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to be a leader in our army of principled men and build your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, financial and sexual strength in practical, measurable ways? Visit MikeFrazierMD.com to apply to join us in The Strong Man System.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Mar 30, 2021 • 1h 2min
Marriage Basic Training: The 5 Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage
You want a happy marriage. One where you wake up feeling like the luckiest man alive.Where you go to work feeling strong and confident, because you know your wife has your back.Where you come home to a wife who smiles and jumps into your arms when you come home.Where you sit down to a dinner of laughter and connection with your family.After dinner, you sit and talk with your wife about your hopes, dreams and fears, feeling more connected than ever.You head to bed for a night of passion and connection.You go to bed thinking “I can’t believe this is my life.”You CAN have this kind of marriage.You just have to master 5 skills to get there.In this episode I’ll show you what they are.And, how you can learn them in just 6 weeks through my Marriage Basic Training program.Dr. MikeP.S. Enrollment for Marriage Basic Training CLOSES Thursday, April 1st at Midnight Pacific Time. CLICK HERE to join us. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157


