Strong Men Strong Marriages

The movies, church, and society teach us to “be one” in a marriage.But, we often misunderstand what this means.We become TOO blended with our wife.We become overly focused on “making her happy” and winning her approval (attention, appreciation and affection).A good marriage is like a good meal.Pasta and shrimp taste GREAT together.But if you put them in a blender and drink it…It doesn’t taste that great any more.Learn how to be TOGETHER in your marriage WITHOUT becoming overly blended in this episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/jprZYcdipl4Summary:-We become overly blended when our wife’s opinion becomes TOO important to us-Or when we seek TOO much for her approval (attention, appreciation, affection, sex)-Instead, we need to be our OWN man-AND learn how to work together with our wife-In ways that work for BOTH of us-You need the skills of confidence, communication, collaboration and intimacy to make that happen-You can learn ALL those skills in Marriage Basic TrainingCLICK HERE to join Marriage Basic Training.It CLOSES Friday, April 30th at Midnight pacific time.I’ll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. Marriage Basic Training will teach you EXACTLY how to have the confidence you need to have difficult conversations with your wife. You’ll learn how to get to where you are BOTH winning in money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, household work, and more. And I stand by my course. Do the work. If it’s not worth your investment, you get your investment back. CLICK HERE to join now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Resentment is a COMMON feeling in marriage.But, most people don’t know where it comes from or what to do about it.Overall, it comes from feeling like you are LOSING in your marriage…While your wife is WINNING.If you feel like you’re doing more than your fair share…Doing things you don’t really want to do…Or denying yourself things you really want…Resentment is sure to follow.Luckily, there’s a SIMPLE solution to completely ELIMINATE resentment in your marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling resentful in your marriage, you are either:--Doing things you don’t want to do--Denying yourself things you want to do--Doing things for your wife expecting her to do the same for you (without asking her clearly)-Overall, it feels like you’re losing and she’s winning-Instead, decide what’s a win for you-Understand what’s a win for your wife-And find a win for BOTH of youDr. MikeP.S. If you listen to the podcast, write a review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you’re listening. Let’s get to 100 reviews!P.P.S. If you’re ready to learn EXACTLY how to have a fun, happy and intimate marriage, let’s work together to get you there. Visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to learn how. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

A lot of men complain that their wife can’t seem to move past their mistakes.They just keep bringing up the past.Whether they’ve made big mistakes like an affair, or smaller mistakes like not listening to their wife…They just want to forget about it and move forward.They get frustrated when they make the changes their wife wants to see…But their wife doesn’t seem to appreciate those changes.This lack of appreciation can cause them to stop trying, which just makes things worse.Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in this episode…And put the past in the past once and for all.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Asking for forgiveness MINIMIZES the damage you’ve done-Stop trying to “dig yourself out of the hole” with good behavior-Instead, decide who YOU want to be as a man-And ask for your wife’s FEEDBACK to tell you when you’re not being that man-Asking for and being open to feedback shows EXTREME emotional strength-Which is very ATTRACTIVE to your wifeDr. MikeP.S. Want to work together in depth to build up your strength and create a happy, long-lasting and passionate marriage? Apply to join The Strong Man System here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Satan is attacking men, marriages and families CONSTANTLY.Every day, 130 people commit suicide. Of those, 90 are men.50% of marriages end in divorce. 40-80% of married people are unhappy in their marriage.42% of Americans are obese.The average savings for people age 20-40 is $2,000.Satan’s goal is to make us WEAK and MISERABLE.God wants us to be STRONG,JOYFUL and INDEPENDENT.We defend ourselves and defeat Satan by putting on the armor of God.Learn how to do that in practical, tactical ways in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Align yourself with God by being in integrity-Use your sexuality in ways that are consistent with who YOU want to be-Recognize there is right and wrong, and align yourself with right-Identify your purpose and mission and move towards that-Have the faith to do what is right and let the consequence follow (exposing your errors, fighting for win-win in your life and marriage)-Fill your thoughts with light and truth-Be in line with God’s Spirit and speak His words to influence othersDr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to be a leader in our army of principled men and build your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, financial and sexual strength in practical, measurable ways?  Visit MikeFrazierMD.com to apply to join us in The Strong Man System.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

You want a happy marriage. One where you wake up feeling like the luckiest man alive.Where you go to work feeling strong and confident, because you know your wife has your back.Where you come home to a wife who smiles and jumps into your arms when you come home.Where you sit down to a dinner of laughter and connection with your family.After dinner, you sit and talk with your wife about your hopes, dreams and fears, feeling more connected than ever.You head to bed for a night of passion and connection.You go to bed thinking “I can’t believe this is my life.”You CAN have this kind of marriage.You just have to master 5 skills to get there.In this episode I’ll show you what they are.And, how you can learn them in just 6 weeks through my Marriage Basic Training program.Dr. MikeP.S. Enrollment for Marriage Basic Training CLOSES Thursday, April 1st at Midnight Pacific Time. CLICK HERE to join us. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Remember, Satan’s goal is to make us miserable.If you’re feeling miserable in your marriage right now, Satan is winning!Satan is on a mission to destroy your marriage, and he uses certain tactics to do it.The more we are aware of these tactics, the better we can combat them.Learn what some of them are, and how to counteract them, in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling guilty or resentful in your marriage… it’s a clue that you need to be more honest-If you are upset you’re not getting enough attention, appreciation or affection… you need to see if you’re becoming codependent-If you often feel like you don’t understand your wife or that her opinions are dumb… you are likely becoming prideful and possibly narcissistic or sadistic-If you feel you don’t have time for your marriage… you need to get your priorities straight-If sex isn’t how you want it… you need to look at how you’re approaching it and whether you’re integrating it in a useful wayDr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Basic Marriage Training: Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening next week. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Take this survey to make sure you get YOUR questions answered in my free training next week. https://forms.gle/8QRiAHKHdUKTtk8GA. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

This is a big question for many members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.But, it's the wrong question.Today I'm joined by Daniel Burgess, DanielABurgess.com, a Marriage and Family Therapist and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.We review some of the Church's teachings about sexuality and masturbation over time, which Daniel has studied extensively and reported about on his website.But, in our personal work and work with clients, we've discovered that the question "is masturbation a sin" leads you down the wrong path.Learn the better questions to ask in today's episode.Summary:-The question “is masturbation a sin” reflects rigid, black or white and somewhat immature thinking-The better questions to ask are “how do I want to use my sexuality?” and “is this thinking and behavior drawing me closer to God and my wife, or pulling me away?”-The law of chastity and scriptures do not specifically mention masturbation-Use personal revelation to see how masturbation fits (or doesn’t fit) into your life and marriageDr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening at the end of this month. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Watch for the course in 2 weeks. If you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join so you can be notified when it opens. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Most men think apologizing means saying “I’m sorry” and moving on.But that’s a big mistake.And it’s that attitude that will keep you “in the doghouse” and keep you from regaining your wife’s love and trust.Learn what an apology is, and the common mistakes men make when trying to apologize, in this episode.Watch on YouTube here.Summary:-An apology includes seeing what you did that hurt your wife, acknowledging her hurt, and doing deep work to change yourself from someone who would hurt his wife-Men will often not apologize at all, or get defensive-They will minimize what they did (that was a long time ago, it could have been worse)-They will get impatient and encourage their wife to “get over it” and “move forward”-They will ask their wife to trust them -They will make it about them instead of the hurt they caused their wifeIf you have done any of these, this episode will help you see why these are problems and how to change them.Dr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening at the end of this month. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Watch for the course in 2 weeks. If you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join so you can be notified when it opens. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Flirting can be one of the most fun things you can do in a relationship.But often, we forget to do it after we’ve been married a while.Or, we may have never been very good at it.In this episode, you’ll learn the principles and techniques of flirting with your wife.So you can bring fun, excitement and romance into your marriage.At the end of the day, flirting is about bringing PLAY back into your marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-An easy way to start is by giving sincere compliments and appreciation to your wife, especially in public-Communicate love and attraction through eye contact-Touch her and kiss her… WITHOUT groping her-Challenge each other to contests, add bets to make it extra fun-Accuse her of being too forward… playfully-Use artistic, creative activities to increase eros energyMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Communication is the #1 problem that men, women and couples complain about.In working with people, I’ve discovered the top 5 communication mistakes that lead to poor communication (and poor connection) in marriage.If you can avoid these mistakes…And learn the #1 communication skill…You’ll be on your way to a happier, more passionate and more intimate marriage.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/o6v30cuJ8HcSummary:-The #1 goal to have in your communication is to DEEPLY understand your wife-If your goal is anything except that (at least to start), you WILL have communication problems-Common things that get in the way of understanding are assuming you know what the other person means, deciding they can’t be understood, deciding their opinion is stupid and trying to prove your point, stopping short of your goal, and losing your coolMikeP.S. At the end of this month, I’ll be opening up an 8 week course that will teach you all the Marriage Skills you need to create a happier, more passionate and more intimate marriage. The course will start on April 1st, and you’ll learn and implement 1 new marriage skill each week. Watch your email for more information, or join my email list here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157