Strong Men Strong Marriages

Mike Frazier, MD
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Jun 15, 2021 • 22min

How To Listen Without Trying To Fix It

As high achieving men, we’re used to fixing problems. And we’re good at it.So, when our wife comes to us to talk about a problem, we naturally want to try and fix it.Unfortunately, this often backfires.She feels like we don’t really understand her.And we’re frustrated because she doesn’t want to hear our (expert) advice.Today you’ll learn what to do INSTEAD of trying to fix her problem.So that when she comes to you feeling frustrated or upset, you’ll know EXACTLY how to turn that frustration into MORE connection and attraction.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System officially opens next week. It’s the best it’s ever been and will help you learn EXACTLY how to become the strongest, most attractive version of yourself to give you the best shot of saving your marriage. Watch for it next week, and if you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Jun 8, 2021 • 20min

The Nice Guy, The Bad Boy and The Strong Man

In the book "The Noble Art of Seducing Women" by Kezia Noble, she identifies 3 types of men.The nice guy.The bad boy.And the good man.For us, we'll call the third the Strong Man.These same guys show up in marriages.The nice guy puts his wife above himself in ALL ways, hoping that someday she will return the favor with attention, appreciation and affection (sex).The nice guy gets walked on. And hopes someday he will be appreciated for it.The bad boy puts himself first in ALL ways. He knows what he wants, and he does what he wants. His wife or girlfriend doesn’t matter that much.The bad boy walks on his wife. It’s his way or the highway.The strong man, on the other hand, puts what he wants EQUALLY to what his wife wants. He works for solutions that are wins for BOTH him AND his wife.The strong man walks TOGETHER with his wife, in a marriage that feels amazing to both of them.Learn more about these three men, and how to become the strong man, in this episode.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System will be coming out very soon. It’s new and improved with more and better benefits than ever before, including times to work with me 1 on 1. Watch for it in the next week or two, and if you’re not on my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join the list.P.P.S. If you don’t want to wait and want to join The Strong Man System RIGHT NOW, you can CLICK HERE to join. The finishing touches are still being applied, but the meat is there and if you are ready to act NOW, let’s get to work. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Jun 1, 2021 • 18min

How To Create Emotional Safety In Marriage

Women typically want two things in a marriage: security and romance.Being an emotionally safe person provides security.It lets her know that you value her. That you will be there for her. That she matters to you.Learn how to provide this emotional safety and sense of security in today’s episode.Also, see why you can’t wait for your spouse to be perfectly “emotionally safe” before you bring up difficult issues.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System will be coming out very soon. It’s new and improved with more and better benefits than ever before, including times to work with me 1 on 1. Watch for it in the next few days, and if you’re not on my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join the list. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 25, 2021 • 21min

How To Stop Worrying About Your Marriage

Right now you’re worried about the future of your marriage.Will you get divorced?Will you get separated?Will your wife have another affair?You think your life will basically be over if these things happen.And that makes you try to STOP these things from happening… using EXTREME measures.Changing yourself. Doing the 5 love languages. Spying on her. However, these actions are motivated by FEAR. And FEAR is not ATTRACTIVE to your wife.It drives her AWAY. And makes all these negative outcomes MORE likely.Learn what to do INSTEAD in today’s episode.So you can approach these situations with CALM and CONFIDENCE… which are ATTRACTIVE to your wife.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System is being updated and will available very soon! In the meantime, I do have a few 1 on 1 spots available. You can schedule a consultation here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 18, 2021 • 29min

When She Says She Needs Space

When your wife says she “needs space,” what does that actually mean?It means she needs space from your NEGATIVE and UNATTRACTIVE thoughts and behaviors.Learn the top 3 negative things she needs space from…And how to CHANGE them…In this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary-DO NOT use the “no contact” rule, as this will create MORE distance between you and your wife-Be friendly and cordial-STOP one-up thinking and behaviors and realize how damaging they are-Stop being NEEDY and start being CONFIDENT -Stop PRESSURING her and start being a great CHOICE and understanding she has the FREEDOM to choose you or notDr. MikeP.S. Next week I’ll be opening my 30 day program to Win Your Wife Back. It’s a high intensity program for men who are ready to work hard to save their marriage. Watch for it next week. And if you’re interested in 1 on 1 work as an individual or couple, CLICK HERE to schedule a consult.  P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 11, 2021 • 23min

How To Sell Your Wife On The New You

You want to show your wife you’re changing.But you’re going about it all wrong.It’s not about maximizing the good and minimizing the bad.It’s not about making the “pros” outweigh the “cons.”It’s about DIAGNOSING your problems and TREATING them.It’s about being BRUTALLY HONEST about your shortcomings to yourself and your wife.ONLY then can she start to trust you…And have ANY belief or hope that things can change.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Which used car salesman do you trust more? The one who minimizes all the car defects, or the one who brings them to your attention… including the ones you didn’t notice yourself?-If you’re just about proving you’re a good choice, you’re showing you don’t really care about your wife. You just want to “make the sale.”-Instead, get CLEAR on your faults and why you are NOT a good choice for her-Then go about fixing them-Join The Strong Man System or work with me 1 on 1 to learn how to diagnose and fix those problems, so you can be a great choice and create an amazing marriage… no matter how bad things are right now.Dr. MikeP.S. Visit this page http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to work with me to help save your marriage. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 4, 2021 • 25min

I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You

Women want two things in a marriage.Security and romance.If you’re hearing “I love you but I’m not in love with you,” she’s missing one or both of these things.Learn how to provide BOTH security AND romance in this episode.So you and your wife can both feel “in love” with each other again.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Security is provided by having a strong sense of self, being a man of your word, a man on a mission,  being willing to stand up to and for your wife, and having the mental and emotional maturity to get to win-win-Romance is provided by owning your sexuality, and directing it towards your wife in a fun, playful and attractive way-You can learn how to do BOTH of these things-I can teach you how to do them in my courses and 1 on 1 workDr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to work with me to save your marriage, as an individual or a couple, schedule a 20 minute consultation. We’ll see where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and whether I can help you get there. CLICK HERE to schedule. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Apr 27, 2021 • 21min

Why "Being One" In Marriage Is A Problem

The movies, church, and society teach us to “be one” in a marriage.But, we often misunderstand what this means.We become TOO blended with our wife.We become overly focused on “making her happy” and winning her approval (attention, appreciation and affection).A good marriage is like a good meal.Pasta and shrimp taste GREAT together.But if you put them in a blender and drink it…It doesn’t taste that great any more.Learn how to be TOGETHER in your marriage WITHOUT becoming overly blended in this episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/jprZYcdipl4Summary:-We become overly blended when our wife’s opinion becomes TOO important to us-Or when we seek TOO much for her approval (attention, appreciation, affection, sex)-Instead, we need to be our OWN man-AND learn how to work together with our wife-In ways that work for BOTH of us-You need the skills of confidence, communication, collaboration and intimacy to make that happen-You can learn ALL those skills in Marriage Basic TrainingCLICK HERE to join Marriage Basic Training.It CLOSES Friday, April 30th at Midnight pacific time.I’ll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. Marriage Basic Training will teach you EXACTLY how to have the confidence you need to have difficult conversations with your wife. You’ll learn how to get to where you are BOTH winning in money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, household work, and more. And I stand by my course. Do the work. If it’s not worth your investment, you get your investment back. CLICK HERE to join now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Apr 20, 2021 • 23min

How To End Resentment In Your Marriage

Resentment is a COMMON feeling in marriage.But, most people don’t know where it comes from or what to do about it.Overall, it comes from feeling like you are LOSING in your marriage…While your wife is WINNING.If you feel like you’re doing more than your fair share…Doing things you don’t really want to do…Or denying yourself things you really want…Resentment is sure to follow.Luckily, there’s a SIMPLE solution to completely ELIMINATE resentment in your marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling resentful in your marriage, you are either:--Doing things you don’t want to do--Denying yourself things you want to do--Doing things for your wife expecting her to do the same for you (without asking her clearly)-Overall, it feels like you’re losing and she’s winning-Instead, decide what’s a win for you-Understand what’s a win for your wife-And find a win for BOTH of youDr. MikeP.S. If you listen to the podcast, write a review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you’re listening. Let’s get to 100 reviews!P.P.S. If you’re ready to learn EXACTLY how to have a fun, happy and intimate marriage, let’s work together to get you there. Visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to learn how. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Apr 13, 2021 • 20min

How To Put The Past In The Past And Move Forward

A lot of men complain that their wife can’t seem to move past their mistakes.They just keep bringing up the past.Whether they’ve made big mistakes like an affair, or smaller mistakes like not listening to their wife…They just want to forget about it and move forward.They get frustrated when they make the changes their wife wants to see…But their wife doesn’t seem to appreciate those changes.This lack of appreciation can cause them to stop trying, which just makes things worse.Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in this episode…And put the past in the past once and for all.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Asking for forgiveness MINIMIZES the damage you’ve done-Stop trying to “dig yourself out of the hole” with good behavior-Instead, decide who YOU want to be as a man-And ask for your wife’s FEEDBACK to tell you when you’re not being that man-Asking for and being open to feedback shows EXTREME emotional strength-Which is very ATTRACTIVE to your wifeDr. MikeP.S. Want to work together in depth to build up your strength and create a happy, long-lasting and passionate marriage? Apply to join The Strong Man System here. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

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