Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Jun 6, 2023 • 17min
When Your Wife Does What You Want And You’re Still Not Happy
I’ve seen it happen over and over. In myself and my clients.Your wife does what you’ve been hoping for.She has sex with you. She starts cooking more. She writes you nice notes or texts.But, you’re still not happy.And she feels like whatever she does, it’s not enough for you.Learn EXACTLY why this is happening…And how to fix it…In today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Jun 1, 2023 • 3min
Is Your Wife Actually Criticizing You?
Sometimes we’re overly sensitive with our wife.We can take a comment as criticism…That isn’t mean that way at all.She may just be giving you information. Or asking for something.Learn how to tell the difference in today’s quick episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 30, 2023 • 17min
What To Do When Your Wife Criticizes You
When your wife points out what you’re doing wrong…It doesn’t feel good.Men tend to respond by getting defensive, pointing out her flaws, or desperately trying to earn her approval.None of these work to create a strong, intimate marriage.Instead, we need to:-Calm down-Find the request in the complaint-Decide if we’ll honor that request or notLearn how to do this in today’s episode:Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 25, 2023 • 3min
The Power Of Curiosity To Transform Your Marriage - Thursday Thoughts
High achieving Cristian men use their judgment often.They evaluate ideas and reject some as inferior to others.This can be very helpful in the workplace.But it can drive a wedge in your marriage.Learn what to do instead of judging your wife’s ideas or actions around money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and how she spends her free time (like being on her phone)...So you can create real connection, intimacy and attraction in your marriage.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 23, 2023 • 16min
What To Do When Your Wife Is On Her Phone
If your wife is on her phone in the evening or in bed…It can be frustrating. You wish she would spend more time talking with you instead of on her phone.Unfortunately, the things you’re doing now are probably making her MORE likely to stay on her phone instead of talking to you.Learn how to approach your wife when she’s on her phone in a way that will make her WANT to pay attention to you more than her phone.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 19, 2023 • 31min
Post Betrayal Trauma - Interview With Dr. Debi Silber
If you’ve been betrayed…Or if you’ve betrayed your wife…There are certain steps of healing that need to happen.So you can get back on the road to recovery…And create a great relationship again.Today’s interview with Dr. Debi Silber will explain those steps to you.You can learn more about Dr. Debi at her website here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow (even after infidelity)… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 18, 2023 • 3min
Changing The Dance - Thursday Thoughts
The interactions in your marriage could be considered a dance.Do you like the dance you’re doing?If not, then TAKE THE LEAD and CHANGE IT!And invite your wife to follow.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 16, 2023 • 18min
How To Be A Masculine Leader In Your Marriage
Feel like you’re getting run over in your marriage?Or, is your wife complaining that you never listen or don’t respect, appreciate or prioritize her enough?Or maybe both?Learn how to take the lead in an effective, masculine, attractive way in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 9, 2023 • 22min
How To Stop Being Passive Aggressive In Marriage
Do you find yourself feeling frustrated and resentful in your marriage?About things like money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time?Has your wife accused you of being passive aggressive?Learn the symptoms… and how to stop being passive aggressive for good… in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
May 4, 2023 • 9min
What You Can Control - And What You Can't - Thursday Thoughts
Nikola Jokic won the NBA’s MVP award two years in a row.How? By not caring about it.You see, winning that award was not in his control. So he spent no time thinking about it.Instead, he focused on practicing and becoming a better player. Things within his control.Which, in turn, made it more likely for him to win the award.What your wife does or doesn’t do is out of your control.And if you spend your time trying to change her mind, win her back, or make her happy…You’ll find yourself anxious and confused because you’re trying to control something out of your control.And you’ll repel your wife.Instead, focus on what you can control.Building up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.Being aligned with who you want to be as a man. Being a closer follower of Christ.When you do this, you’ll feel stronger and in control.And, it will make it much more likely that your wife will choose you.If you’re ready to focus on building up your internal strength and interpersonal skill as a man…CLICK HERE to apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meSee you inside.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
