Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Aug 15, 2023 • 22min
The Top 5 Reasons Your Wife Says She “Needs Space”
When your wife says “I need space…”It’s frightening and often confusing.But, understanding WHY she needs space… And what she needs space FROM…Can help you become the man that she wants to come CLOSER to…Instead of GET AWAY from.Learn WHY she’s asking for space…And what to do to make her become ATTRACTED to you again…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/s-4Nve4PZ6cDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Aug 10, 2023 • 3min
How To Stop Yourself From Feeling Out Of Control
When you feel yourself going on that “low road” and acting in ways you won’t be proud of…Stop and take a breath.Remind yourself that you’re OK.Start acting how you want to act if you can.If you can’t remove yourself from the situation until you can.Mentally rehearse this so you’re ready to go in the moment.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Aug 8, 2023 • 18min
How To Not Repeat Your Parents’ Mistakes
This week was a powerful week for me. My son told me directly that he didn’t really feel comfortable talking to me because he was worried I would respond with anger.This was a turning point for me. This moment combined with reading Parenting From The Inside Out by Daniel Siegel https://amzn.to/3KAr8CP helped me see that I was repeating some old patterns from my childhood that I wasn’t aware of.Learn how to find some of your old patterns… and change them… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Aug 3, 2023 • 3min
When You’re Respected By Everyone… Except Your Wife
You would think your wife would respect how hard you try to make her happy.That approach MIGHT make her LIKE you…But it WILL NOT lead to her RESPECTING you…Or being ATTRACTED to you.Learn how to earn her respect in today’s episode.It’s probably not what you think.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/6pSGR01K4pYDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Aug 1, 2023 • 20min
When You’re A Leader… Except With Your Wife
I talk to a lot of men who are great leaders at work.Business owners. Professionals. Military leaders and sports professionals.They are great leaders at church. Men’s group leaders, youth group leaders, even leaders of marriage ministries.BUT, they DO NOT feel like leaders with their wife.They walk on eggshells trying to make her happy.Their wives say they want them to lead more…But when they try, they get criticized.It can feel trapped and hopeless.But, there’s a reason for you being able to lead everywhere… except with your wife.Learn what it is… and what to do about it… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/Hle-Eh38qdQDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires as a real leader in the home. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Jul 27, 2023 • 4min
The 3 Steps To Be The Man Your Wife Passionately Desires
There are 3 simple steps to become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 1 - Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting.If you don’t do this, you’ll continue to push your wife away.And if you don’t get a guide to help you, you won’t be able to identify them. Or at least not all of them and not at a deep level.Step 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patternsThis is what will help you become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 3 - Repeat the new patterns until you are attractive on defaultWithout this, you WILL go back to your negative, unattractive patterns. Especially under stress.Like when your wife brings up your past mistakes or says “no” to sex.When you do all 3 of these steps, you WILL become the man your wife passionately desires.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps to guide you through these 3 steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Jul 25, 2023 • 19min
How To Be The Man Your Wife Passionately Desires
You’re trying to do the right things.You’re trying to make your wife happy.Cooking, cleaning, doing the 5 love languages.But, your wife isn’t turned on by any of it.She doesn’t even appreciate it, while people outside the marriage seem to.The question now is…Do you want to continue to try to create intimacy on your own?Or do you want to follow The Hero’s Journey to become the man your wife passionately desires?Learn how in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Jul 20, 2023 • 3min
Nice Is Nice, Strong Is Sexy
Is it possible to be “too nice” to your wife?YES!If you’re not willing to disagree with your wife…Express yourself…Speak up when you feel things aren’t fair…Then you are living in the “happy wife, happy life” mindset.Which creates a sort of happy wife who “loves you but is not in love with you…”A roommate, unbalanced, and walking on eggshells feeling in the marriage…And an emotionally and sexually frustrated husband.It’s time to represent yourself in your marriage.You’re just as important as your wife.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Jul 18, 2023 • 20min
How To Avoid Being “Friend Zoned” By Your Wife
Do you feel like roommates with your wife?Do you walk on eggshells, worried that your wife might not like what you say or do?Are you constantly trying to make your wife happy?If so, you are likely to be put in the “friend zone.”A marriage with low physical intimacy, or a feeling of “I love you but I’m not in love with you.”Learn what to do to get OUT of the friend zone…And enjoy a marriage with PASSION and INTIMACY…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Jul 13, 2023 • 2min
Courage Doesn’t Feel Good
The price of an intimate marriage is the courage to make yourself known…Even and ESPECIALLY when your wife might not like it.Courage sounds good… but it doesn’t feel good.It’s facing down your fear. And you CAN do it.It’s a choice. Will you be courageous or a coward?Which one is stronger? Which is more attractive?Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
