

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Dec 5, 2023 • 19min
How To Build Spiritual Strength In Marriage
For the next few weeks we’re going to be talking about how to build different strengths in marriage.To me, spiritual strength is:-Strong self-worth based in God-Strong self-esteem (the way you think about and talk to yourself… especially when you make mistakes)-A sense of mission and purpose-Being a man of integrityWhen you can do these three things, you have great spiritual strength.You feel great about who you are… and that is very ATTRACTIVE.Learn how to build these strengths in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 30, 2023 • 4min
3 Tips To Rebuild Trust In Marriage
Tip 1 - List Your CommitmentsList out what you’ve promised to do for yourself, your wife, your kids, your community, your church, your work and any other commitments.Tip 2 - Drop Most Of ThemDrop most of these commitments. Let people know you won’t be keeping them, and apologize to yourself and others for not keeping them.Tip 3 - Choose 1-3 And Follow Through. Say “No” To Everything Else.Choose the 1 to 3 most important commitments you will keep, and follow through on those.Then say no to everything else. Your “yes” then becomes more valuable and more trustworthy.This will build your self-confidence (self-trust)...Help you be trustworthy…And allow others to trust you (believe that you will do what you say you’ll do).Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 28, 2023 • 16min
When Your Wife Never Apologizes
I often hear from the men I work with that their wife never apologizes… while he apologizes all the time.Learn why this happens…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 23, 2023 • 3min
3 Empowerment Tips For Marriage
Tip 1 - Stop trying to control what you can’t control. Like what your wife does or how she feels. The fastest way to feel disempowered is to try to control something that is impossible to control.Tip 2 - Ask for what you wantYou will feel more empowered when you start getting what you want. But you can’t get what you want if you don’t ask for it.Tip 3 - Start saying “no”If you are always saying “yes,” it’s easy to feel controlled by others. As soon as you start saying “no,” you WILL feel more empowered.Watch on YouTube here. Happy Thanksgiving!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 21, 2023 • 16min
The Emasculated Vs The Empowered Husband
Many men will tell me that they feel emasculated in their marriage.One literal definition of this is to have your testicles removed.While this (hopefully) is not the reality, these men FEEL one main thing…POWERLESS.Whether it’s with money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or time…These men feel like they are constantly losing while their wife is winning.They say they try to lead… but their wife just won’t let them.And they can’t seem to do anything about it.Fortunately, there’s a way out of this.Learn how to step OUT of powerlessness…And into EMPOWERMENT…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 16, 2023 • 3min
3 Ways To Get Your Wife’s Respect
Men try to get their wife’s respect in 3 ways.Only 1 of them works.Learn what it is in today’s short episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 14, 2023 • 16min
Real Strength Vs Fake Strength In Marriage
If you’ve looked at dating advice to try to help your marriage, you’ve probably found some advice about being a “tough guy.”This is what I call fake strength.It CAN work to create a girlfriend/wife who is dependent on you and your approval…But it CAN NOT work if you want a truly intimate marriage…The kind that lives true to Christian values and shows your daughters the type of husband they want one day.Learn the difference between fake and real strength… and how to develop real strength…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 9, 2023 • 3min
3 Minute Book Review - How To Win Friends And Influence People
How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie is one of the most popular books on human relationships.Learn the biggest 3 principles…And how to apply them to your marriage…In today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 7, 2023 • 18min
Stop Beating Yourself Up For Your Mistakes
You’ve made mistakes in your marriage.And, you feel bad about them.But, beating yourself up about them won’t change the past…Will have negative effects on your self-esteem…Will make it more likely you make the same mistakes…And will stop you from the changes you want to make.Learn why… and what to do instead… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 2, 2023 • 4min
Deep Work 3 Minute Book Review
I’m finishing up “Deep Work” by Cal Newport.The basic idea is this: The ability to give something focused concentration is a skill.That skill is being whittled away by our focus on “shallow” activities, like social media.We need to rebuild the ability to give things sustained focus by blocking out time to do it.To block out that time, identify the main things you want to accomplish.Identify the main activities that will help you accomplish that.Eliminate the rest.If your marriage is the most important thing to you…And you want a program that will help you do deliberate, focused attention on your marriage in a way that’s been proven to help men Christian create more sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with their wives…Come join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages. CLICK HERE to apply to join.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157