

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Dec 28, 2023 • 3min
Look Good, Smell Good
What is the most important physical thing you can do to be more attractive to your wife?According to 500 Christian wives, it’s just this.Look good, smell good.Get more details on this on today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 26, 2023 • 17min
Physical And Financial Strength In Marriage
Strength across all areas is attractive to your wife.As men, we often overly focus on physical and financial strength as the measure of success.And, while women do value physical strength…It’s not quite in the way you might think.Same with financial strength. More money doesn’t necessarily mean more attraction.Learn how to build these strengths in the most attractive ways in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 21, 2023 • 19min
Internal Needs Vs Relationship Needs
I never liked the word “need” in relationships.In fact, I’ve often taught that “neediness is unattractive.”However, I’ve come to believe a little differently.It’s true that for our internal needs, such as feeling good enough, we can’t rely on our wife. We need to find other resources for that. Because if we do rely on our wife for these internal needs, we wear her out and never feel fulfilled.However, we also have relationship needs.We have needs from our wife. We need her to do certain things so that we can trust her, feel connected, and have intimacy.And it is entirely appropriate to ask for those needs from her.Learn how to distinguish between these in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question? You can reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 20, 2023 • 5min
Top 3 Tips For Better Sex In Marriage
Want sex with HER, not just sex. Don’t approach it with “I’m horny and she’s my only moral option.” That’s not attractive to anyone.Cold, warm, hot. Use flirting and touch to bring her into a zone of thinking more about sex.Integrate your full brain. Use your physical desire, your emotional admiration for her, and your choosing her as your life partner as you approach her for sex. Let this shine in your eyes for her.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 19, 2023 • 25min
How To Build Emotional Strength In Marriage
I used to think of emotional strength as never being overwhelmed by emotion.I didn’t want to be “too emotional.” I thought that was weakness.I wanted to be ruled my reason, not my emotions.However, being unable to really feel emotion is actually emotional weakness. Or numbness. Or deadness.It keeps you from really experiencing life.It also keeps you in a judgmental mindset towards your own emotions and the emotions of others…Which sabotages the relationship with yourself and others.Learn how to be “All Good” with emotions…And experience a much richer life with richer relationships…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question? You can reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 14, 2023 • 5min
3 Signs Of Mental Weakness In Marriage
Sign 1 - You blame your wife for how you’re feelingSign 2 - You mix up facts and your interpretation of those factsSign 3 - You are overly influenced by the thinking of others… or overly rigid in your thinkingAll of these lead to you being mentally and emotionally unstable and reactive…Which doesn’t feel good and isn’t attractive.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 12, 2023 • 19min
How To Build Mental Strength In Marriage
How To Build Mental Strength In Marriage“As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he” Proverbs 23:7God has given us amazing brains that have incredible power.What we think affects how we feel, what we do, and the results we get in our lives.Most of us are not aware of this power, or how our thoughts are influencing the results in our lives and marriages.Learn in today’s podcast how to harness this power…And create the love, connection and intimacy you’re looking for in your marriage…Instead of resentment and disconnection.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 7, 2023 • 4min
Spiritual Strength Eliminates Neediness
When you have real spiritual strength…Neediness disappears.When you feel great self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, and a sense of mission and purpose…You step out of needy, codependent behavior and into strong leadership.Get a reminder on how to build these in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Dec 5, 2023 • 19min
How To Build Spiritual Strength In Marriage
For the next few weeks we’re going to be talking about how to build different strengths in marriage.To me, spiritual strength is:-Strong self-worth based in God-Strong self-esteem (the way you think about and talk to yourself… especially when you make mistakes)-A sense of mission and purpose-Being a man of integrityWhen you can do these three things, you have great spiritual strength.You feel great about who you are… and that is very ATTRACTIVE.Learn how to build these strengths in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 30, 2023 • 4min
3 Tips To Rebuild Trust In Marriage
Tip 1 - List Your CommitmentsList out what you’ve promised to do for yourself, your wife, your kids, your community, your church, your work and any other commitments.Tip 2 - Drop Most Of ThemDrop most of these commitments. Let people know you won’t be keeping them, and apologize to yourself and others for not keeping them.Tip 3 - Choose 1-3 And Follow Through. Say “No” To Everything Else.Choose the 1 to 3 most important commitments you will keep, and follow through on those.Then say no to everything else. Your “yes” then becomes more valuable and more trustworthy.This will build your self-confidence (self-trust)...Help you be trustworthy…And allow others to trust you (believe that you will do what you say you’ll do).Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157