

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Jan 25, 2024 • 3min
Want More Empathy? There’s An App For That.
Believe it or not, there’s a great app that will help you build your emotional vocabulary, intelligence and strength.That, in turn, will allow you to have more empathy for your wife.When you know what you’re feeling, it will be a lot easier to relate to what your wife is feeling.You’ll be able to share your emotions (be known), and understand your wife’s emotions (know her).That’s what emotional intimacy is!Watch on YouTube here.Download the How We Feel App here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for Dr. Mike? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 23, 2024 • 20min
How To Develop More Empathy For Your Wife
Maybe your wife has told you that you don’t have much empathy.As a high achieving man, that’s likely true.We have often learned to shut down our emotions in order to “get things done.”While this helps in business, it creates major issues in our marriage.Learn how to stop telling people to “get over it…”And start practicing the empathy that leads to emotional intimacy, deep friendship and love in your marriage…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for Dr. Mike? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 18, 2024 • 6min
The Porn Free Process
You may have tried a lot of things to stop using pornography.Here are the steps that have helped the men I’ve worked with (who have often tried many of the “traditional” programs):-Integrate your sexuality-Learn to manage your thoughts and emotions when you have the urge to view pornography-Reward yourself for having urges and not acting on them-Do that 100 timesThat’s it!Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. This program is INCLUDED as part of the Strong Men Strong Marriages program, which you can apply to below.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 16, 2024 • 20min
How To Regain Trust After Pornography Use
I’d say 100% of the men I work with either have struggled or currently struggle with pornography.This definitely breaks your wife’s trust in you…But also breaks your trust in yourself.That leads to low safety in the marriage, which leads to superficial communication and low sexual intimacy.Learn how to restore trust after pornography use in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 12, 2024 • 14min
How To Restore Communication After It’s Been Lost
If you’re struggling to have meaningful communication in your marriage…A list of “what to say” just isn’t going to cut it.There’s a deeper reason why your communication has dried up.Until you address that, your wife won’t WANT to communicate with you.Learn how to fix the deeper issues that have created communication issues in your marriage…So you can start having the fun, laughter and intimate communication you desire…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 11, 2024 • 6min
The Best Love Language For Your Marriage
The Best Love Language For Your MarriageWe all need to feel loved, valued and accepted.The best favor you can do to yourself… and your family…Is to love, value and accept yourself.Learn the tip I’m using now to do that in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 9, 2024 • 19min
Why The 5 Love Languages Are Not Working For Your Marriage
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a best selling marriage book.And, it has great concepts that can help you and your wife understand each other better.BUT, used the wrong way, the 5 Love Languages can actually make things WORSE in your marriage.If you’ve been trying to give your wife:-Words of affirmation-Physical touch-Acts of service-Quality time-GiftsBut your marriage isn’t getting better…You need to hear this episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 5, 2024 • 17min
Friday Q&A January 5, 2024
On today’s episode we’ll cover:-How to navigate an in-home separation-How to evaluate whether your behaviors are manipulative or not-What to do if your wife has filed for divorceWatch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 4, 2024 • 5min
Top 3 Tips For Better Sex In Marriage
Want sex with HER, not just sex. Don’t approach it with “I’m horny and she’s my only moral option.” That’s not attractive to anyone.Cold, warm, hot. Use flirting and touch to bring her into a zone of thinking more about sex.Integrate your full brain. Use your physical desire, your emotional admiration for her, and your choosing her as your life partner as you approach her for sex. Let this shine in your eyes for her.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena see if you can create a video out of the audio, like on Buzzsprout and upload it like this: https://watch.screencastify.com/v/ixjBTiUtuWGlQ5ZWpHSR I didn’t upload anything to YouTube for this yet)https://youtu.be/d_aPeQhn7XUDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 2, 2024 • 21min
Sexual Strength In Marriage
Sexual Strength In MarriageSex is what makes a marriage relationship special.But, what we thought our sexual relationship might look like before marriage…And what it looks like once we’re married…Can be very different.Learn how to build your sexual strength so that you can…-Avoid turning to pornography or other negative outlets for sex-Approach sex in ways that are more attractive to your wife than rolling over in bed and saying “how about tonight?”-Learn to flirt and build up sexual tension in your marriageIn today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157