

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Sep 16, 2025 • 26min
How To Feel Free In Relationships - My Breakthrough
THANK YOU for your prayers to help me find freedom in relationships.I had some MAJOR breakthroughs this week that have me feeling better than I EVER have in my marriage and as a father.This one I think you should listen to vs giving you the highlights here.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 9, 2025 • 2min
The Importance Of Rest
This week I need a break.So, the podcast is just reminding me and you to rest when we need to.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 2, 2025 • 15min
Are Your Rules For Life Taking You Where You Want To Go?
We all have rules for life.The things that tell us how we’re supposed to act… and how other people are supposed to act.Are you supposed to be in shape? What kind of shape?Are you supposed to make money? How much money?Are your kids supposed to listen to you? What if they don’t?How is your wife supposed to treat you? What are her jobs?We all have answers to these, but often we’re not totally aware of them.But, aware of them or not, they run how we treat ourselves and others…And they may not be taking us where we want to go.Learn how to figure out and evaluate your rules for life…So that you end up with the success you actually want…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZEPGqbQpMADr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 26, 2025 • 13min
Using Prayer For Your Next Step As A Husband And Father
I’m not sure what the next step is for you.What needs to change to take you to new levels of joy and intimacy in your marriage.But, God does.So, instead of worrying about things never getting better…Or setting a plan on your own…Take some time alone and open yourself to receive the ideas, perspective changes or encouragement that God has for you.I had a very meaningful shift this week that I share in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 19, 2025 • 15min
The Top 3 Ways To Take Care Of Yourself To Be A Better Husband And Father
We all have needs in relationships.The trick in a marriage is figuring out…Which needs are coming from a CHILDISH place…And which needs are coming from an ADULT place.If it’s coming from a CHILDISH place, it’s up to YOU to take care of that need.If it’s coming from an ADULT place, it’s time to have a conversation with your wife and ask clearly for what you need.But often to get to that adult place, you need to take care of younger you FIRST.And adult you as well.Learn my top 3 ways to take care of yourself…So you can feel better and appropriately ask for what you want from your wife…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 12, 2025 • 24min
Developing Patience As A Husband And Father
Do you want your marriage to change RIGHT NOW?Do you want your kids to act better RIGHT NOW?Most of us do.But, when we try to force people to be something they’re not…It usually backfires.Like trying to force open a flower.You end up just destroying the flower.Or cutting open the goose to get more golden eggs.You just end up with a dead goose.Learn how to develop the patience to let people develop (including yourself)…While also encouraging that development in yourself and others…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 5, 2025 • 19min
How To Access Powerful Masculine Energy
Do you feel like your wife doesn’t appreciate you?That she cares about the kids more than you?That she can be nice to everyone except you, but is still willing to use the money you bring in?I’ve certainly felt this way.And this energy is not the powerful masculine energy that feels good and attracts your wife to you.It’s a young, immature energy that needs to be tended… by you.Learn how to take care of the younger you…So you can access the powerful, God-given masculine energy available to you…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jul 29, 2025 • 11min
What To Do When You Feel Down In Marriage
There are going to be days when you feel down in your marriage.Sad. Overwhelmed. Tired.And, that’s OK.That’s normal and human.Instead of trying to “buck up,” take care of yourself first.Acknowledge you are feeling down, see what you need, and meet that need.Then, think about other ways you can think in the future.Heal first, fix later.Learn more in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. MikeP.S. Want to join our Strong Men Strong Marriages Membership program? It’s just $200 per month to create a loving, intimate marriage and change the whole trajectory of your family’s future. We’re looking for 500 men willing to do that this year. Open now! CLICK HERE to join us! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jul 22, 2025 • 27min
How To Be A Truly Powerful Husband And Father
There are two main forces of power available to you as a husband and father.One is a destructive force.This force is a “my way or the highway” energy.It intimidates to get its way.And, it is more powerful than doing nothing.And, it ends in people wanting to create distance from you, making you feel lonely in your marriage.The other force available to you is the TRANSFORMATIONAL force.This power allows you to stop what needs to be stopped…But in order to build what you want to build…A loving relationship with your wife and children.It is MORE POWERFUL than the destructive force, because it INCLUDES, DEFEATS and TRANSFORMS the destructive force.Learn how to access this TRUE power of transformation in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jul 15, 2025 • 17min
The Beauty Of Boundaries In Marriage And Parenting
In our marriage and parenting, we’re often too hard or too soft.When we’re too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do.This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently.And, it leads to people distancing from us.When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak.And, our wives and kids kind of like that…But they don’t respect us or feel safe with us.And we don’t feel safe or respect ourselves.Thankfully, there is a “just right” place to be a parent and a husband.One where we have the love AND respect of others…And we love and respect ourselves.Learn about this in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmxd3VzEvgoAnd to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157