

Rikki and Jimmy on Relationships
Jimmy Knowles and Rikki Cloos
How’s your relationship? That’s what we thought. You’re going to love Rikki and Jimmy on Relationships, the show where we uncover the thoughts and behaviors that are sabotaging your relationship… and what you can do about it. Jimmy and Rikki are passionate about sharing the ways that imperfect partners like you can shift unhealthy relational dynamics and create closeness. Drop your defenses and open your heart, eyes, and ears… we’re going to learn how to be the best partner we can be, together.
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Jun 29, 2023 • 1h 23min
"Relationships are elegantly SIMPLE". Our interview with expert Dr. Stan Tatkin
We got the pleasure to interview Rikki's favorite author and relationship expert Dr. Stan Tatkin. We loved talking with him about how to function as a team and why it's so important to have a unified mindset if we ultimately want a safe secure partnership with someone.
If you would like to connect with Dr. Tatkin or buy his new book this is the website! https://www.thepactinstitute.com/books

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May 18, 2023 • 1h 25min
THIS is why Anxious/Avoidant partners STRUGGLE together...
Discover the intricate dynamics of anxious and avoidant attachment styles and how they shape relationships. Learn about the dangers of labeling partners and the importance of radical accountability. Explore the emotional struggles of both attachment styles, including the need for reassurance and the fear of abandonment. Tune in for practical tips on navigating conflicts, maintaining healthy boundaries, and fostering open communication. Plus, enjoy lighthearted sponsorship banter that adds a fun twist!

Apr 29, 2023 • 1h 12min
How to Intentionally Love our Partners!
Rikki and Jimmy go over what it would look like to Intentionally love your partner over a 48 hour period.

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Apr 11, 2023 • 1h 28min
What are Healthy Needs vs Unhealthy Needs in a Relationship
The hosts delve into the critical difference between healthy and unhealthy needs in relationships. They explore the significant role of acceptance, discuss the nuances of validation, and the impact of communication on emotional connections. There’s a focus on navigating dynamics like emotional labor and the balance between intimacy and autonomy. The importance of vulnerability and recognizing affection styles is highlighted, along with practical tips for fostering trust, empathy, and playfulness in partnerships.

Mar 26, 2023 • 1h 7min
HELP! My partner has a LOW/HIGH S*X Drive
If you and your partner have different "bedroom drives", this episode is for you! We go into our tips and tricks on how to navigate this very common dynamic in our Relationships. Hope it's as good for you as it was for us.

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Mar 9, 2023 • 1h 10min
Narcissistic Red Flags in your Relationship
Dive into the world of relationship dynamics as the hosts unravel the intricacies of narcissism. Learn to identify key red flags like manipulation and attention-seeking behaviors. They discuss the confusion caused by love bombing and the need for setting personal boundaries. Emphasis is placed on communication and empathy, showcasing how to foster emotional safety. Hear personal anecdotes that highlight the journey towards self-worth and navigating toxic relationships, equipping listeners with the tools to enhance their connections.

Feb 21, 2023 • 1h 4min
Am I Allowed to Look at my Partners Phone? || How to Build Trust in your Relationship (Episode 6)
In this episode we cover a variety of topics including whether our partners should have full access to our phones, how to build trust, and how mental illness plays a role in our Relationships

Feb 9, 2023 • 1h 1min
How to anticipate HER NEEDS? || How to keep your Relationship from BOREDOM
In this episode we cover all the questions you have submitted including How to anticipate each others needs, how to keep your relationship from getting boring, how to forgive yourself, and how to listen to your partner during conflict. Thanks so much for listening!

Jan 25, 2023 • 1h 5min
How to Prevent FIGHTS in the first place! / Answering your TOP Questions
Discover how to effectively prevent fights in relationships by mastering emotional dynamics. Learn the significance of self-reflection and choosing the right therapist for couples therapy. Uncover healthy conflict resolution techniques and the power of genuine apologies. Explore the journey from exhilarating infatuation to stable love, and the importance of nurturing intimacy. Prioritize kindness in your partnership and foster open communication to strengthen connections. Tune in for insightful anecdotes and practical advice!

Dec 25, 2022 • 1h 2min
How to FIX your Relationships!
In this episode we answer your most frequent questions on how to fix your relationships. We are passionate about giving you any and all tools and skills to build connection and intimacy and healthy communication together.