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The Sensitive and Neurodivergent Podcast with Julie Bjelland

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Jun 24, 2022 • 32min

Self Care Ritual for HSP Empaths with Sara Dessau Lopez

During this self-care practice, Sara gently guides us through a series of at-home rituals and sends us healing reiki to help create a clear and clean energetic line. I encourage you to revisit this whenever life gets overwhelming and you desire peace, calm, and focus. Please add your comments and thank Sara for sharing these beautiful tools with us ❤️ Sara Lopez is an intuitive coach, empath expert, and reiki healer in Vermont, U.S. She is the founder of Empath Magic, a digital community for empaths creating focused transformation. Sara’s experience with chronic pelvic pain and severe anxiety in her 20’s finally led her on a journey to overcome overwhelm from high sensitivity. When she learned about highly sensitive people and empaths, she finally understood herself better and learned to navigate the world in a new way. Her journey led her to teaching in the public schools for 14 years and then to doing an intensive apprenticeship with women’s health experts based in New York City. From there, she coached countless women struggling with pelvic pain.  She found something was missing from the women’s health coaching world: the emotional piece. When she began supporting women to focus on emotional healing, she was amazed to watch them find physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental balance and transformation. Now, she guides empaths to create focused transformation from a place of confidence and calm. She believes empaths are healers of the world’s wounds who deserve to be better understood.  Her work has been published in the Sensitive Empowerment community, Core Spirit, and Period magazine. https://empathmagic.com We warmly invite you to join (or host) our next live events in our Sensitive Empowerment Community
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Jun 16, 2022 • 54min

Answering HSP Questions with Julie & Wilow

Julie and Willow answer your HSP Questions! How can we stay regulated and balanced while we are feeling deep excitement so we can sleep? Can you speak to how perfectionism keeps us trapped from trying out new things and leading our lives with curiosity? I get severe overwhelm when driving, particularly in busy or unfamiliar areas. Also going to places such as airports. I was wondering what advice you might have for such situations When things get really busy for me I can become very drained and tired. My body can become achy and fatigued and also mentally it's like I have brain fog and can't process quickly or focus, and that leads to making mistakes. I know that it's because we are sensing and taking in so much and that we need to rest and practice self-care at such times. I'm wondering if you have any tips in terms of energy when going through busy times when you can't always practice those self-care tips that help preserve energy. How do/did you establish your boundary around what you share publically about your childhood when it comes to emotional neglect, childhood trauma, and parents? How can you find an HSP psychotherapist? I was wondering if you could share any tips you have to deactivate the flight or flight response when it kicks in. And More Join us live for our next podcast in our Sensitive Empowerment Community, and check out our bios and more episodes at HSPpodcast.com. Explore more resources for HSPs including free classes and our HSP Practitioners Directory at SensitiveConnection.com  
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Apr 21, 2022 • 48min

How to manage low energy, negative thoughts, and overprocessing as HSPs with Willow and Julie

The human mind is wired to look out for us which can often mean thinking worst-case scenarios and a negative view of things. It takes conscious effort to maintain a positive outlook for us all, which of course is not always easy. As HSPs we sometimes have a tendency to turn our powerful cognitive processing ability in on ourselves. When this is coupled with low energy or a pattern of self-doubt and low self-esteem our own minds can quickly become a very difficult place to be. The trouble is, it can be difficult to identify what are just low-frequency thoughts of fear and which are coming from a place of knowing and self-alignment. In this episode, we look at some of the techniques we can use on a daily basis to help maintain a peaceful state of being. Including ways in which we can create peace of mind when our energy is low. We will also look at why we end up in conflict with ourselves when we are simply trying to find a sense of belonging and safety. Links mentioned in the episode Join our next live podcast in the Sensitive Empowerment Community at SensitiveCommunity.com Learn more about Willow's Coaching Program to help you share your gifts with the world. https://www.juliebjelland.com/hsp-blog/making-life-make-sense-again-by-willow-mcintosh Explore all our episodes at HSPpodcast.com Explore all of Julie's HSP resources at SensitiveConnection.com
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Mar 24, 2022 • 43min

Emotional Wounding Support During Hard Times with Julie & Willow

HSPs high on my Sensitivity Scale tend to absorb the world's pain. Plus life can hit us with a bunch of emotional wounds or hard times all at impacting both our physical and mental health. Examples of Emotional Wounding… Painful world events and images seen on the news Social media, discrimination, hatred… Death or pain of loved ones including animals and even trees. Negative self talk and self-criticism Medical or mental health challenges What helps?  When life stressors knock us down, here are loving ways to support yourself… think about emotional injury as the same as physical injury in the sense that it involves a time of care and nurturing healing. lovingly acknowledge the emotions, check in with your inner child with self-compassion, like how we might respond to children when they need support—loving, caring, gentle, patient, compassionate. remind yourself that the intensity of the feeling is temporary and won't feel this way forever. accept yourself as a deep feeler, think of the ebb and flow of nature, and accept your flow. stop your to-do list and focus instead on... "what do I need at this moment." Letting go of some responsibilities allows us to focus on our needs. It's ok to say no or change plans. up your self care and also spend a lot of time in nature, in water or near water, and with trees and quiet places. It's HSP medicine for most everything. slow down, let go, and ask for help if needed, prioritize tending to your wellness. cuddle pets, practice mindfulness, stare at the sky and watch the clouds move slowly, listen to the birds, observe tiny plants, leaves, blooms, make time to see the sunrise and sunset. The little things fill up our positivity tank to support the extra stressors. journal to reflect and process, weighted blankets, herbal teas, cuddling pets focus on the basics when exhausted…hydrating, making sure to eat something healthy, take baths, drink warm tea, lay under a weighted blanket, and allow yourself to just be. be kind and patient with yourself and not add additional pressures or expectations. We can turn to nature to remind us that the season of growth will come again, and it's ok to experience some dormancy and internal time as we work through whatever we might be experiencing. Limit news watching and balance it with positivity fill-ups (8 positives to neutralize 1 negative) Put action into helping and look for the helpers doing amazing things from their heart communities and podcasts like this one! connection to kind-hearted HSPs (join our live podcast episodes, events, and monthly Meet and Greets) more tools and support means you’ll be more resilient and balanced, learning conscious living choices that work for HSPs. Recommended Resources HSP Practitioners Directory 'Tips & Tools to Thrive' Topic in the community. Brain Training Course and HSP Toolbox Course Find everything at SensitiveConnection.com
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Mar 11, 2022 • 35min

Discovering You Have an Environmental Sensitivity - Managing Overwhelm and Important Decisions with Andrea Weber

Realizing you have environmental sensitivities to things like chemicals, EMFs or mold can be overwhelming. Many people don't know much about these sensitivities, what to do, where to go for help or how to explain what's happening and this can lead to additional stress and emotional burden on top of what is already being experienced with physical symptoms. This insightful presentation will cover the following: - Self-compassion through initial overwhelm - Gaining perspective and the next steps to take - Finding a medical practitioner who can help - Immediate interventions to reduce exposures - Working through tools for relief and wellbeing - Planning ahead to minimize triggers - Thinking about the future in terms of home/work environments Discovering you have an environmental sensitivity can be an overwhelming and isolating experience with so many questions, emotions, and decisions to make. In this informative presentation, Andrea shares how to navigate your way through this and provides a practical roadmap of important considerations.  It's empowering and reassuring to know that there are things you can do to make a difference and that help and support are available. Find out more about the valuable work Andrea is doing to help environmentally sensitive people by visiting expansivehappiness.com You can take the free Environmental Sensitivity Quiz and explore the Self-empowered Sensitivity Management Program. You'll also receive the "Top Ten Tips to Managing an Environmental Sensitivity" when you sign up for regular communications. ----- See Andrea's previous episode: Episode 137: Keys to Managing Environmental Sensitivity with Andrea Weber Join us for Q & A with Andrea in our Sensitive Empowerment Community (SEC). Plus explore more episodes on The HSP Podcast at HSPpodcast.com
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Feb 24, 2022 • 49min

Believing and trusting in ourselves as HSPs with Willow and Julie

We often hear how important it is that we believe in ourselves, yet what if we are struggling to make something happen? It is all too easy to slip into self-doubt and a spiral of negative beliefs. One of the greatest resources we have as HSPs is our commitment to our growth and development. Also, our tenacity to pursue our personal evolution and what is most important to us in the world. When it comes to believing and trusting ourselves there are some very useful tools and techniques we can use that help us to access this in any and all circumstances. For instance, when we allow ourselves to look back over our lives we will see that have evolved and we have grown through many challenges. There is a great deal of evidence of us finding a way and being successful. Even if those examples may not be to the degree we wanted, the evidence is there nonetheless. In this episode, we take a look at why it is important not to be over-critical when we are in transition or doing our best to achieve something important. Instead by recognizing the deeper truth of our ability we can access and develop a reliable source of trust and belief in ourselves. Read Willow's Blog Post: How to Reveal Your Innate Expertise as an HSP Join the Sensitive Empowerment Community Find an HSP Therapist, Healer, Coach on our HSP Practitioners Directory
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Jan 27, 2022 • 59min

Redefining Masculinity. How the HSP and LGBTQ+ Community Can Influence and Lead us With William Allen. Hosted by Willow McIntosh

William writes...“On many occasions, Dr. Elaine Aron has written that Highly Sensitive People were designed by nature to perform an evolutionary function. We are the wise counselors, the cautious advisors, and the thoughtful and empathetic souls who aid the human race. We are at an important juncture in human history. A form of exploitative and dominance-focused masculinity has been running the planet for millennia. The consequences of this form of masculinity are evidenced in the planet's current state. We as a planet are in a state of imbalance, as we allow this form of distorted masculinity to jeopardize our future. After getting a degree in Psychology with an eye on doing psychology research, he recalibrated for a career in Information Technology. He found himself in a thirty-year career as an Information Technology manager at Wells Fargo who enjoyed managing highly intelligent, often difficult staff, many of whom were highly sensitive. As we know it in the West, masculinity is not always inclusive, emotionally expressive, empathetic, intuitive, or nurturing – all qualities that HSPs come by naturally. As a result, HSP men have often been left out of this exclusive club, as have many others identifying as male. This must change not only for men's sake but also for the planet. It is important to understand that masculinity is by and large a cultural construct and is learned. We can reshape the construct to be less toxic for men, allowing men to become fully human in their ability to be authentic, loving, strong, empathetic, and constructive. Being a male is not the issue. It is about the cloak of masculinity that many men wear, which is hurtful and dangerous. I believe that HSP men and members of the LGBTQ+ community can serve as role models for this new form of masculinity. These two communities share a common goal of recognition and inclusion.” William Allen is an author with a writer’s heart and researcher’s mind. After getting a degree in Psychology with an eye on doing psychology research, he recalibrated for a career in Information Technology. He found himself in a thirty-year career as an Information Technology manager at Wells Fargo who enjoyed managing highly intelligent, often difficult staff, many of whom were highly sensitive. He retired early from his corporate job to start his Hypno-coaching and neurofeedback brain training business, BrainPilots, in Bend, Oregon. In late 2016, he began his blog, The Sensitive Man, about his experiences, as a highly sensitive man. The blog became the genesis of his first book, Confessions of a Sensitive Man. His new book, On Being a Sensitive Man, is the follow-up book, which focuses on how to live in the world as a sensitive man. He feels that HSP males need to take their keen insights and intuition and make them public. He would like to shed more light on highly sensitive males and the much-needed role they need to take in our society. www.thesensitiveman.com Explore more episodes on The HSP Podcast at HSPpodcast.com 
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Jan 8, 2022 • 11min

Meditation for the Sensitive: you are wonderful as you are

Do you know how special you are as a sensitive person? You are valuable and wonderful, just as you are.  
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Dec 10, 2021 • 46min

Do you feel in resistance to yourself as an HSP?

As HSPs we can often feel like we are in constant battle with ourselves internally. Almost like interference with our own energy and well-being. Whilst this sounds counterintuitive to our own happiness we can often be unaware of how much we are doing it. The cause of this is often as a result of feeling we needed to hide our true feelings as children in order to protect ourselves. The trouble is as adults this no longer serves us and can have a great cost to our health, well-being, and personal success. Some of the signs to look out for are inner tension and a habit of constantly second-guessing what we feel, think and do. The good news is, this habit can be reversed once we take the first step of becoming aware of it. Then we can gradually move towards the promotion of a calm and loving inner experience as we learn to be ourselves again as adults. Join us this week as we look out for the warning signs and the ways in which to bring balance and healing to this most meaningful endeavor. Explore all episodes and connect to us at HSPpodcast.com  Register for my free Masterclasses for HSPs at HSPmasterclass.com
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Nov 23, 2021 • 43min

Simple Self-Care for Sensitive Souls, part of the Empaths, Sensitives & Intuitives Summit

This interview is part of the Empaths, Sensitives & Intuitives Summit a free online event. For more information, and to register free, click here. This recording is a copyright of The Shift Network. All rights reserved. The modern world is often overwhelming and stressful for those with sensitive nervous systems. You often suffer from the challenges of sensory overload, impacting your mental health, and also your physical health. Fortunately, there are simple tools that Julie Bjelland, LMFT, will share that have helped thousands of highly sensitive people (HSPs) move from surviving into thriving, allowing you to live life to your fullest potential — because the world needs you. In this session, you'll discover: The modern world often causes sensory overload for sensitive people Solutions to the challenges of high sensitivity, including fierce self-care to stay balanced and healthy Sensitive people are needed to change the world

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