The Powerful Man Show

Episode #37 Have you ever been in a heated argument with your partner? In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss what to do after a heated argument with your partner and how to correct it.  One important thing to do first is to find out what triggered that situation to happen, or what triggered you to overreact. In order to avoid overreacting, both parties must communicate clearly what they both want without feeling like a victim and without judgment. Communicate out of love and respect because if you let your emotions and ego drive you during that situation, you will just end up hurting each other. Take ownership & apologize for what happened and for overreacting. Tell your partner how you felt and what made you overreact and what you will do to rectify it. In this episode, you will learn: How to avoid being in a heated situation Importance of communication A personal problem VS. a relationship problem Being aware and taking ownership ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode #36   In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss the importance of having people around you whom you can have the level three conversation with.   Level three conversation is being able to have a real and deep conversation with someone or a group without judgment. It is a kind of conversation where you can take off your mask and just be yourself. You can be able to share your pains and wins in life and by sharing, you allow the recipient to see and understand who you are.   Men tend to stick to themselves as lone wolves but it does NOT have to be that way. You should surround yourself with people you can confide in and connect with.   It is crucial to develop this kind of relationship in your life because it results in such a deeper level of connection.   We all have the means to do it. You just have to step out and allow those conversations to happen. We have to utilize our resourcefulness to connect to the world and be committed to that level of conversation.   In this episode you will learn : What is a level three conversation How to be involved in this level of conversation What is the importance of a level three conversation What are the steps in order to have a level three conversation with other people ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode #35    Do you feel like you're perpetually tired & losing the passion from your life?    In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss the steps to overcome emptiness in life.   There are times when we feel empty, we lose passion and no matter how hard we try, somehow the same pattern continues to play out.   The first step to overcome this is to become aware that you are in a cycle and accept it without judgment. Pause for a second and start considering why the same pattern keeps happening over and over again. Look at what's going on with your life that's causing you to feel empty. Write down what's currently going on with your life and the actions that you are taking. Take a real inventory of your life and accept it.   The second step is to dive into the root of that emptiness. We should be aware of what has been the driving force & find the truth. Allowing us to be able to change it and rediscover the passion that we lost.   After finding the root, we should know what we really want our lives to look like. If you are not living the life that you want then take massive action and move forward to the direction you want to go. Do not waste your time living up to other people's standards and expectations.     In this episode you will learn: The steps in overcoming emptiness Finding the root in order to make a change and solve the problem Breaking the pattern Living the life that you wanted to live How to rediscover your passion. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode 34 In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss the things money can't solve. In our society, it's common for us to think that money is the solution to all our problems (even if it's a subconscious belief) and we often forget that there are other things that are more important than money. We believe that making more money will help us get to a certain point where we will be able to work less, have the freedom to travel and have more time to spend with our family. Yet, while we are busy hustling and wanting to provide more for our family, we are losing our relationships and the problem becomes worse.   We need to understand that building connections within our relationships is much more significant than chasing money. We don't need to buy unnecessary things or spend too much money for a vacation in order to spend time and be connected with our family. Being present and spending quality time with them is already enough to solve that problem.   We get to be aware that money isn't the only solution for everything. Recognize the problem, find the root cause and solve it right away to break the chain.       What you will discover in this episode: 1. That money can't solve everything 2. Building relationships are more important than money 3. Recognizing the root cause of the problem to break the chain 4. Spending money for unnecessary things to solve a problem will just create more problems ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode 33 "I hope they don't find out." In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss the importance of being yourself. Putting on a front or wearing a mask will only make us more exhausted because we then feel the burden of thinking that people might find out who we really are. The society that we live in has trained us to put on a front in order to be accepted. We always give our best, showcase everything, use all our energy and at the end of the day, the real us becomes exhausted. Putting on a mask for a long time drains us and will only put us into desperation and emptiness. Being ourselves and sharing our weaknesses builds a deeper emotional connection to people around us. Showing who we really are and allowing people to love the REAL us and care for us because they accept who we really are is the KEY. Things you will discover in this episode: Importance of showing the real you How to build emotional relationships with the people around you What causes us to feel drained or exhausted ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode 32 In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss the regrets of a father and the importance of giving your time and presence to your family. Fathers are builders because they build something for their family and for their future. They are often away from their family to hustle and make money so that someday they can do all things with their loved ones. But...what happens is they wake up one day realizing how much time has passed. We talk about the importance of providing emotionally. Giving your partner, your kids, your family & friends your quality time. Being physically and emotionally present for them is beyond any amount of money because it is the memory and the legacy that you leave to them. This is a wake-up call to start making a change. Recognize your priorities as a father and set your life up in accordance with your priorities. Spend quality time with your kids, play with them while you still can, appreciate and educate them because these are the values that will be instilled to them as they grow old...not the money as their priority. In this episode you will learn: The importance of quality time and presence Importance of proving emotionally for the family Knowing your priorities as a father Matching your calendar with your priorities ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode 31 In this episode, Doug and Tim share their personal epiphanies and how it changed their lives. Doug shared that by asking yourself questions about what you really want in life or how you feel and what's really going on will help you realize the things that really matter to you. Examine yourself and answer those questions honestly then take a step back, plan and start making a change in your life. Tim, on the other hand, shared that after having a serious and honest conversation with someone else made him realized that all this time he has been insecure, he was always trying to prove himself to everybody around him, and he wanted acceptance. He was unaware of those facts and after realizing what is really going on, he took a moment and had an honest reflection with himself. This epiphany made him look at some things differently and it started changing his life. In this episode you will learn: The importance of self-reflection The power of an honest conversation with yourself or with someone else. How to look at things differently. Importance of asking questions ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode #30   In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss the importance of finding and making happiness instead of money.   Every day, we are pushing ourselves so hard in order to make more money and to enjoy life in the next few years. And yet, in order to truly enjoy life, you need to know what will really make you happy. More times than not, it is NOT the money but the experience that will give us sustained happiness.    Happiness is doing what you want to do and finding purpose in what you do. If you are happy, you will be able to appreciate simple things around you. You will feel grateful for what you have and feel at peace within who you are.   Instead of focusing on making money to prepare and enjoy life in the future, we should focus on experiencing happiness now, not tomorrow, not when we have the money or when we lose weight.   In Doug's coaching experience, he has observed thousands of business people who are happy become more productive and make more money. If you are happy and light, people want to be around you and more people means a larger network, and larger networks will help your business to make more money.   In this episode you will learn : 1. The importance of making happiness instead of money. 2. That happiness is an important key to make more money. 3.  The importance of doing what you want. 4. Finding happiness in the simple things that you have.   ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

Episode 29 In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss some ways on how to make sure your business serves your life instead of your life serving your business.   First, we need to know the main WHY for the business and if it still serves its purpose. As leaders and business owners, we sometimes lose ourselves in the hustle and forget why we do it in the first place.   Second, we need to pay attention to our own stress levels. We should not be sacrificing our own happiness, hobbies or personal relationships just to build or run an organization. Our energy should be managed in a way that allows us to still enjoy our lives while doing our jobs at the same time.   By doing something meaningful in our business we also gain fulfillment and sense of purpose in life.   If some things are not working, take a pause, take ownership and make a change. Figure out what you really want and make a plan on how to make it happen. Take drastic actions, be bold to do things on your way because it is ultimately YOU who must decide how you will live your life, not your work or business.    In this episode you will learn: 1. Balancing work and personal life 2. Finding the purpose of your business 3. Importance of managing energy ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man.