The Powerful Man Show

Episode #922 Are you still falling into the trap of being the "nice guy" in your relationship? Let’s revisit what this means and how to move beyond it. In this episode, Doug and Andy take another look at the behaviors that keep men stuck in people-pleasing patterns—and the consequences it has on their marriages. We explore why covert contracts (those unspoken expectations) lead to resentment, and what happens when men swing too far in the opposite direction, becoming overly detached or aggressive. You’ll learn how to check your motives, avoid transactional behaviors, and handle feedback from your partner without shutting down or overreacting. With clear examples and actionable insights, this discussion will help you show up as a confident and caring husband without slipping back into old habits. If you’re ready to reevaluate and refine how you’re showing up in your marriage, this episode is for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #921 Are you supporting your wife in ways that truly help her thrive? In this revisit episode, Erin and I explore the timeless topic of how men can better understand and support the women in their lives. We’re diving back into the conversation about the gender differences in how we "fill our cups" and why recognizing these differences is essential for deeper connection. You’ll revisit insights on: The role of stress, sleep, and movement in restoring feminine energy. Why alone time, being truly heard, and feeling desired by her man are key for women. Simple ways to create space for your wife’s femininity—even with a packed schedule. How understanding these principles can transform your relationship and family life. If you missed this before or need a reminder, this episode is packed with practical steps to bring out the best in your partner and create a stronger, more balanced relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #920 What truly draws women to a man? Spoiler: it’s not about the car or abs—it’s all about the energy he brings to the table. In this revisited episode, Doug Holt is joined again by his wife, Erin, as they dive deeper into what makes a man irresistible from a woman’s perspective. Drawing on her experience as a coach, Erin shares how grounded confidence, emotional maturity, and genuine presence create an undeniable spark. They also unpack why neediness is a major turn-off and how small, intentional changes can completely transform your connection with your wife. Revisit this conversation to rediscover: How to cultivate calm confidence that women love. Why being fully present is the ultimate attraction hack. Simple shifts to become the man your partner craves. Ways to bring fun, playfulness, and passion back into your relationship. Missed it the first time? Take this chance to refresh your approach and turn insights into action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #919 Has your wife ever criticized you in front of your kids or tried to rally them against you? It’s a tough spot to be in, and it can take a toll on your family. In this revisit episode, we dive back into an important topic: understanding why this happens and how to handle it effectively. You’ll discover how to set boundaries, uncover the deeper issues driving this behavior, and protect your kids from being dragged into the conflict. Take a firm yet loving approach to restore respect and harmony in your home. Tune in and revisit these essential strategies. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #918 Are you tired of doing the same thing for every anniversary? It’s time to shake things up. In this revisited episode, we dive into practical strategies to transform your milestone into a celebration worth remembering. Learn how to plan ahead, incorporate your wife’s love language, and avoid the last-minute panic that so many guys face. You’ll hear about: Why planning in advance is key to a stress-free celebration. Creative ideas to make your anniversary stand out. How to craft an experience that both you and your wife will love. Let’s turn your next anniversary into something unforgettable. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #917 What happens when your libidos don’t match? Maybe you want sex more than your wife—or she wants it more than you. It’s a common challenge, but one you can tackle together with the right tools. In this revisit episode, we’re bringing back one of our most impactful conversations on navigating mismatched desires in the bedroom. We explore practical strategies for improving intimacy, from scheduling "sex dates" to understanding the emotional and hormonal dynamics at play. You'll learn how connection fuels desire, why open communication about sex matters, and steps to reignite passion—even when life feels too busy. If your relationship feels stuck or needs a boost, this timeless advice will help you create the passionate, connected marriage you both deserve. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #916 Are you paying more taxes than you should? In this episode, Doug chats with Brian, a lawyer and tax strategist who’s passionate about helping business owners and investors keep more of their hard-earned money. Brian shares practical tips on tax-efficient business structuring, real estate investments, and why your CPA, bookkeeper, and tax lawyer should work together as a team. You'll discover actionable strategies like how to maximize deductions, the benefits of holding companies, and the power of real estate professional status. Brian also dives into creative ways to leverage tools like whole life insurance and infinite banking, making complex topics approachable and clear. If you’ve ever wondered how to save on taxes ethically while protecting your assets and growing your wealth, this episode is packed with valuable insights you can use right now. Connect with Brian Boyd: Email: bboyd@thompsonburton.com Book: A Lawyer's Guide to Finding, Funding, and Managing Real Estate Investments  Facebook: www.facebook.com/ThompsonBurton/ Twitter: x.com/thompsonburton LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/boydlegal/ __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #915 Remember when we talked about fighting for your marriage, not in it? It’s time to revisit those tools and go even deeper. In this episode, we’re breaking down the essentials for turning marital conflicts into opportunities for connection. We’ll revisit the Hidden Motives Technique—a proven method to make your wife feel truly seen and heard. Plus, we’ll explore the power of regular check-ins and why having “rules of engagement” for arguments can completely shift the dynamic in your relationship. If you’ve been here before, think of this as a refresher with some added depth. And if this is your first time, you’ll learn simple, actionable strategies to handle conflict with compassion while building intimacy and trust. Let’s reconnect and take your marriage to the next level. It’s time to revisit what works. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #914 Has your phone snuck back into your marriage? It happens to the best of us, especially in today’s tech-heavy lifestyle. In this revisit of one of our most impactful episodes, we’re diving back into the topic of digital distractions and how they can quietly erode intimacy. You’ll be reminded: Why screens can feel like a third wheel in your relationship. How a weekly “digital detox” can reignite connection and trust. Ways to build tech-free zones that naturally draw you closer. In this episode, you’ll rediscover how to put down the phone and pick up the meaningful conversations and playfulness that once defined your relationship. Whether this is your first listen or a timely reminder, it’s packed with actionable advice to help you strengthen your marriage in a tech-obsessed world. Take this as your sign to hit pause on distractions and reconnect with your spouse. Listen now! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #913 What if fitness didn’t mean endless hours in the gym or giving up the foods you love? In this episode, Doug Holt interviews fitness expert David Sherban, who shares his practical, no-nonsense approach to achieving health and fitness without sacrificing your lifestyle. With years of experience as a coach and gym owner, David reveals how small, consistent changes can lead to sustainable results, challenging the myth of "all-or-nothing" routines. Listeners will learn: Why making health a priority now prevents future challenges. How to build a fitness plan that fits your busy life. Nutrition strategies that are both effective and enjoyable. The role of peptides, blood panel analysis, and strength training in achieving optimal health. David’s insights are particularly valuable for business owners and professionals looking to balance career success with personal vitality. His coaching style focuses on creating a realistic, sustainable plan for long-term health. Connect with David Sherban: Instagram: @davidjamessherban Email: David@trainnoble.com Tune in to discover how to reclaim your health, find balance, and enjoy the process! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.