

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Feb 25, 2025 • 16min
Nurturing Growth: Encouraging Your Partner
Episode #945 What do you do when you’re committed to personal growth, but your partner isn’t? How can you encourage them without making them feel judged or pressured? In this episode, Doug and Chris break down a common struggle for men—wanting their wife to invest in herself but not knowing how to support her in a way that actually works. They reveal why pushing too hard can backfire, why leading by example is the most powerful strategy, and how to create a space where growth happens naturally. They discuss the difference between sharing your journey with excitement versus telling your wife what she “should” do. Doug opens up about his own experiences, the lessons he’s learned, and how he’s seen transformation happen in relationships when men focus on becoming the best version of themselves first. If you’ve ever felt frustrated watching your partner stay stuck while you evolve, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools to lead in a way that inspires—not pressures. Listen now and start leading by example. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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Feb 22, 2025 • 30min
Navigating Marriage: When to Step In and Be Your Best Self
In this engaging discussion, Erin Holt, a group coaching expert and Doug Holt’s wife, sheds light on the female perspective in marriage. They explore why many women initiate divorce and the common disconnect between partners. Erin emphasizes the importance of proactive communication, vulnerability, and self-care for men. The conversation highlights the necessity of trust and leadership in relationships, urging listeners to take initiative and embrace personal growth to strengthen their bonds. Tune in for practical advice on deepening marital connections!

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Feb 20, 2025 • 23min
Breathe Deep: A Guide to Managing Anger and Strengthening Relationships
Ever reacted in anger and regretted it later? This discussion dives into mastering emotional control, featuring techniques like breathwork to ground yourself during heated moments. Emphasizing self-reflection and communication, the hosts reveal how reframing past hurts can strengthen relationships. They introduce the "Clean Slate" method—an innovative approach to let go of old wounds and foster growth. Through shared stories, they highlight the power of laughter and vulnerability in nurturing connections, urging listeners to take charge of their emotions.

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Feb 18, 2025 • 23min
Unlocking Intimacy: Practical Steps for A Thriving Relationship
Join Erin Holt, a relationship coach specializing in women's issues, as she and her husband, Doug, explore how to transform marriages from roommate status back to connected partners. They tackle the nuances of vulnerability, open communication, and the little moments that strengthen bonds. Discover why embracing masculine and feminine energies enhances intimacy and how thriving individually can lead to passionate partnerships. With actionable advice, this discussion provides the tools you need to reignite your relationship and foster deeper connections.

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Feb 15, 2025 • 20min
Revisit: Emotional Savvy: Unlocking Your Inner Potential
In this engaging discussion, Andy Torr, an expert on emotional intelligence and men's well-being, sheds light on the often-overlooked importance of emotional awareness. He explains how suppressing feelings limits happiness and argues that vulnerability, far from being a weakness, is a vital strength. The conversation navigates complex emotions and emphasizes creating emotional safety for stronger relationships. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their full emotional spectrum and use anger constructively for personal growth.

Feb 13, 2025 • 13min
From Hesitation to Confidence: Mastering Relationship Dynamics
Do you hesitate to express your needs in a relationship? You're not alone. This conversation reveals how to communicate confidently and avoid the ‘nice guy’ trap. Learn why your hesitation may lead to testing from your partner and how strong requests can enhance intimacy. Discover the difference between grounded masculinity and needy behavior, and the energetic shifts that make you more attractive. Master the art of open communication to foster trust and connection, transforming your relationship for the better.

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Feb 11, 2025 • 33min
Unveiling Truth in Relationships: Stepping Out of Comfort Zones
Many men find themselves stuck in unfulfilling relationships, fearing change more than mediocrity. The discussion exposes how avoiding tough conversations and the fear of rejection can hinder genuine connections. Listeners learn about the hidden costs of playing it safe and the significance of intimacy from both emotional and physical perspectives. The podcast also emphasizes practical steps to reclaim confidence, foster personal growth, and break free from stagnation—encouraging a pivot towards deeper connections and authentic relationships.

Feb 8, 2025 • 25min
Revisit: Back on Track: Reigniting Your Drive After Life's Setbacks
Episode #938 Feeling stuck? Lost motivation? You’re not alone. That’s why we’re bringing back one of our most powerful episodes to help you break free and regain your momentum. In this Revisit Episode of The TPM Show, Doug and Tim share practical strategies to get back on track when life knocks you down. Whether it’s in your health, relationships, or business, they reveal how to shift from inaction to progress—without waiting for motivation to magically appear. You'll rediscover: Why waiting for motivation is a losing game—and what to do instead The small, imperfect actions that create massive change How to reconnect with your "why" and sustain your drive The mindset shifts that turn setbacks into comebacks If you've been feeling off your game, this episode is your wake-up call. Listen now and take the first step toward reigniting your passion. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 6, 2025 • 29min
Revisit: Mask Off: Defeating Imposter Syndrome and Embracing Your True Potential
Episode #937 Many successful men secretly struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they don’t truly deserve their success or fearing they’ll be “found out.” This internal battle can rob them of happiness, even when they’ve achieved everything they thought would make them feel fulfilled. In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim dive deep into why imposter syndrome shows up, how it keeps men stuck, and what can be done to break free. They share insights on shifting mindset, building real confidence through simple daily habits, and why having the right group of men around can make all the difference. If self-doubt has ever held you back, this conversation will help reframe your perspective and show you how to step into your full potential. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 4, 2025 • 30min
Making Choices That Matter: The Power of Action in Relationships
Episode #936 Ever feel like you're stuck in limbo, not sure which way to go? What if I told you that staying on the fence is actually a decision—and usually not a good one? In this episode, Coach Chris joins me to talk about why taking action is the key to getting unstuck in your relationships, business, and life. We break down the Five Territories—Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business—and how to figure out where you need to focus first. Plus, we dive into why indecision is one of the biggest killers of attraction in a marriage (yes, even when it’s just picking a place for dinner). In this episode, we cover: Why “not making a choice” is actually a choice The power of decisiveness in your marriage and life How to evaluate and balance the Five Territories The simple habit that can keep you on track Why men who take action see the biggest results If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to step up, this is your wake-up call. Tune in now and start making choices that actually move you forward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.