The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Jun 12, 2021 • 26min

What's The ONE Thing Your Wife Would Change About You?

Episode #365 If your wife could change ONE thing about you, what do you think it would be? What does it mean to be a man of your words? A lot of guys make commitments and promises to their wife, to their family, and to themselves - then constantly break them or fail to follow through. Your identity to her will become a man she cannot trust. When you lose these "micro-commitments" and someone can't trust you, it's like the emotional bank account is bankrupt. Recognize the pattern you're in, stop trying to do more to be better, and realize that you're on the right path with The Activation Method. In this episode - how to have better communication, how to be the man of your words, how to make your wife feel taken, the power of the Triad of Connection during The Activation Method, and the 3 key action steps to take today. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jun 10, 2021 • 27min

Stephen Fleming's Journey

Episode #364 Where was Stephen Fleming before The Powerful Man? Before The Powerful Man, he was running in circles. He was lost - quite simply, he didn't know his purpose. While going through the program, he felt excited, engaged, and activated. He took action. He decided to be honest - and from that honesty, he was able to make the decisions that suited his needs best. After The Activation Method, he realized that his relationship with his wife had also shifted, they became more connected. In this episode, we are going to talk about Stephen Fleming's Journey, the idea of being deactivated, who he was, and who he became after The Activation Method. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jun 8, 2021 • 16min

Are You Ready When Things Open Back Up?

Episode #363 What are your plans for each of the territories as things start opening up in the world? You know things are going to open but most of the guys are not thinking about their plans when things started to open back up. Life is going to be different and there is a lot of things that are going to happen. Plan for a change. You are the leader of your household so think of how are you going to lead your family. There are situations you are going to be in that are going to be different. You need to be ready for that. In this episode, we are going to talk about safety, boundaries, and things you need to plan for each of the territories as things start opening up in the world. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jun 5, 2021 • 24min

Why Winners Celebrate Their Wins

Episode #362 Do you celebrate your wins, no matter how big or small? Instead of focusing on whatever bad things have happened, celebrate your wins. Write them down, look at the things that make you happy, and make that the lens through which you see the world. If you focus on the negative, you're going to get more of the same. If you are focusing on things that are going well, on your wins, those are going to keep coming your way as well. Look at life through the lens of your wins. Program your subconscious and your conscious mind to look for wins and victories. Do not be a guy who thinks about negative things. Be the happy one that everybody wants to be around. It's not that you are 'faking' it - you are changing what you are focusing on. In this episode, we are going to talk about why winners celebrate wins, what happens when you allow yourself to count the small wins, how to change what you focus on, how to make wins easy for yourself...and win more. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jun 3, 2021 • 17min

Why Are You Sticking Around In A Failed Marriage

Episode #361 Why are you sticking around in a failed marriage? What is keeping you from getting a divorce? Many men stick around in a failed relationship because they feel like they're not good enough on some level. If you are working on your marriage because you want to, that's a good thing! But if you're in a marriage that is failing and you're not working for it, why are you sticking around and making excuses? You have to know why you are sticking around. Ask yourself why you're allowing yourself to be the victim and why you're putting yourself in that position. Then begin looking for alternatives. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of not being enough, the reasons why men stick around in a failed marriage, why men make excuses, and how the Triad of Connection can work to save your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jun 1, 2021 • 26min

The Greatest Way To Leverage Your Brain To Stop Self-Sabotage

Episode #360 How can you break the barriers that have been holding you back? How often do we take the time to work on our unconscious brain? There are things that we are unconsciously committed to that we're not even aware of - yet it's why certain patterns keep replaying in your life. This is the "emergency brake" that keeps you from achieving your goals, dreams, and desires. Figure out what it is that you are complaining about. Pick one of the Five Territories and choose a scenario you complain about the most. All that complaining is a symptom - it means you are unconsciously committed to the results that you are getting. Stop complaining about it and figure out why you are unconsciously committed to it. Remember: Energy flows where attention goes. In this episode, we are going to talk about ways to leverage your brain to stop self-sabotage, how the conscious and unconscious brain works, how to break barriers that have been holding you back, and how to work on your subconscious brain. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 29, 2021 • 32min

Austin Maginnis' Journey

Episode #359 Are you living the kind of life most men do - chasing the dollars and putting yourself last? Are you in a relationship where your wife becomes more of the alpha? Well, that's the kind of life Austin Maginnis had before joining The Brotherhood. Like most men, he was stuck in a life that was stagnant, routine, and stressful. Being married to a woman with a strong personality made it harder to be the alpha in the relationship at all times. But when he decided to make the change and join The Brotherhood, Austin went all out and never looked back. Going through the process, he noticed a lot of positive changes in his self, his relationship, and his business. Making that leap to change your life is a very difficult decision. But when you've become sick and tired of experiencing the same stressful life day after day, when you are truly fed up with it, you can't help but decide to make that change. In this episode, you will learn how Austin Maginnis found his answers by joining The Brotherhood. Learn how his past life relates to what you are experiencing right now and decide to make the step that will make your life better. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 27, 2021 • 16min

The #1 Thing People Get Wrong About The Alpha Male

Episode #358 What do you think of when you hear the words "Alpha Male"? Do you think of the bro who is always at the gym repping out his bench press and beating his chest? The dude at the bar that hits on every woman and picks fights with every guy? Is he riding around on a motorcycle, soaked in whiskey and cloaked in a haze of smoke? Do you think of a man who is a complete jerk - the total asshole? When people hear the term "Alpha Male" they often see some version of the above. But when we talk about The Alpha Male, we're talking about something much different - not some performance of masculinity, but something truly Powerful. In this episode, we talk about what defines a true Alpha - and the #1 misconception about what it means to be an Alpha Male. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 25, 2021 • 22min

One Man's Question On How To Save His Marriage

Episode #357 He's in a relationship for 9 years, and they have 2 boys together. Since having children, their relationship has suffered - to the point that they are essentially together for the convenience of their lives as parents. He's suffered many breakdowns without seeking professional help. He thinks it's just a phase of their relationship and that they'll be fine...until she drops a bombshell: She thinks she wants to leave. The scales are tipped away from you. You needed to tip the scales back in your favor. The best thing you can do is to get into The Activation Method. Use the Triad of Connection and utilize the system. You can get individual coaching for your particular situation. The breakdowns were a symptom of something else happening inside of you, and you need to start there. Do it for yourself first - not just to win her back. Begin that shift for you and your kids. Be a hundred percent committed to fixing your marriage and your relationship by taking care of yourself first. Do whatever it takes. Go all in. Do everything in your power to salvage your relationship. In this episode, it's one man's question about how to save his marriage. Learn what you can do to give it a chance to work, how the Triad of Connection can help you tip the scales in your favor, and how that leads to positive feelings and experiences. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 22, 2021 • 22min

The Death of Needing Your Wife's Permission

Episode #356 How did you get into a position where you have to ask your wife's permission for everything? And how can you regain leadership in your relationship? Being in a position where you have to ask your wife's permission is a major red flag. Men often think they are doing the right thing. They think they are asking their wife for permission as a show of respect. They are terrified because maybe the marriage isn't going too well or the connection isn't there or there are "warning shots" of separation. Stop asking for permission to live your life. Stop asking permission to lead your family. Stop asking for permission to be you. If you know that your decision is right for you and your family, just step into it. In this episode, we are going to talk about how you may have gotten into this position where you have to ask your wife's permission - and how to regain leadership in your relationship, take control, and prove yourself in your decisions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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