The Powerful Man Show

Join Erin Holt, a relationship coach specializing in women's issues, as she and her husband, Doug, explore how to transform marriages from roommate status back to connected partners. They tackle the nuances of vulnerability, open communication, and the little moments that strengthen bonds. Discover why embracing masculine and feminine energies enhances intimacy and how thriving individually can lead to passionate partnerships. With actionable advice, this discussion provides the tools you need to reignite your relationship and foster deeper connections.

In this engaging discussion, Andy Torr, an expert on emotional intelligence and men's well-being, sheds light on the often-overlooked importance of emotional awareness. He explains how suppressing feelings limits happiness and argues that vulnerability, far from being a weakness, is a vital strength. The conversation navigates complex emotions and emphasizes creating emotional safety for stronger relationships. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their full emotional spectrum and use anger constructively for personal growth.

Do you hesitate to express your needs in a relationship? You're not alone. This conversation reveals how to communicate confidently and avoid the ‘nice guy’ trap. Learn why your hesitation may lead to testing from your partner and how strong requests can enhance intimacy. Discover the difference between grounded masculinity and needy behavior, and the energetic shifts that make you more attractive. Master the art of open communication to foster trust and connection, transforming your relationship for the better.

Many men find themselves stuck in unfulfilling relationships, fearing change more than mediocrity. The discussion exposes how avoiding tough conversations and the fear of rejection can hinder genuine connections. Listeners learn about the hidden costs of playing it safe and the significance of intimacy from both emotional and physical perspectives. The podcast also emphasizes practical steps to reclaim confidence, foster personal growth, and break free from stagnation—encouraging a pivot towards deeper connections and authentic relationships.

Episode #938 Feeling stuck? Lost motivation? You’re not alone. That’s why we’re bringing back one of our most powerful episodes to help you break free and regain your momentum. In this Revisit Episode of The TPM Show, Doug and Tim share practical strategies to get back on track when life knocks you down. Whether it’s in your health, relationships, or business, they reveal how to shift from inaction to progress—without waiting for motivation to magically appear. You'll rediscover: Why waiting for motivation is a losing game—and what to do instead The small, imperfect actions that create massive change How to reconnect with your "why" and sustain your drive The mindset shifts that turn setbacks into comebacks If you've been feeling off your game, this episode is your wake-up call. Listen now and take the first step toward reigniting your passion. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #937 Many successful men secretly struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they don’t truly deserve their success or fearing they’ll be “found out.” This internal battle can rob them of happiness, even when they’ve achieved everything they thought would make them feel fulfilled. In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim dive deep into why imposter syndrome shows up, how it keeps men stuck, and what can be done to break free. They share insights on shifting mindset, building real confidence through simple daily habits, and why having the right group of men around can make all the difference. If self-doubt has ever held you back, this conversation will help reframe your perspective and show you how to step into your full potential. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #936 Ever feel like you're stuck in limbo, not sure which way to go? What if I told you that staying on the fence is actually a decision—and usually not a good one? In this episode, Coach Chris joins me to talk about why taking action is the key to getting unstuck in your relationships, business, and life. We break down the Five Territories—Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business—and how to figure out where you need to focus first. Plus, we dive into why indecision is one of the biggest killers of attraction in a marriage (yes, even when it’s just picking a place for dinner). In this episode, we cover: Why “not making a choice” is actually a choice The power of decisiveness in your marriage and life How to evaluate and balance the Five Territories The simple habit that can keep you on track Why men who take action see the biggest results If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to step up, this is your wake-up call. Tune in now and start making choices that actually move you forward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #935 This powerful episode struck a chord with so many of you, so we’re bringing it back for another listen. How long does it take for someone to truly believe you’ve changed? In this revisited episode, Doug unpacks the story of a man determined to rebuild his marriage after years of emotional distance. Despite his efforts, his wife remains cautious—why is trust so hard to regain, and how do you earn it back? Doug revisits the critical lessons about consistency, vulnerability, and showing up as your authentic self. Discover why even small missteps can trigger old fears, and learn how calling out your own imperfections can pave the way to deeper connection and trust. Whether you’re rebuilding a relationship or striving to be the best version of yourself, this timeless episode is packed with actionable advice to help you lead with confidence and authenticity. 🎧 Tune in for a second look at this game-changing conversation. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #934 We’re revisiting an episode that hit home for so many listeners: what happens when your marriage starts feeling off balance because one partner seems more focused on the kids than the relationship? Doug and Erin Holt tackle this all-too-common dynamic with fresh insights and timeless advice. They explore why this happens—unmet emotional needs, the identity shifts of parenthood, and societal pressures—and, more importantly, how to fix it. If your relationship feels strained, this episode will remind you why protecting your marriage is vital—not just for you and your partner, but for your kids too. Rediscover actionable strategies, from creating intentional time together to setting healthy boundaries, and learn how to reconnect in ways that strengthen your bond and set a powerful example for your family. Let this episode inspire you to prioritize what truly matters. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #933 Have you ever considered how much your environment impacts your growth? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of surrounding yourself with the right people and how it influences your relationships, career, and personal growth. Doug and Coach Chris discuss why men often prioritize material purchases over investing in themselves and their relationships—and the hidden cost of that mindset. You’ll hear about: Why your environment shapes your habits and future. How to audit your time, money, and energy for maximum ROI. The key to building emotional safety in your marriage. A game-changing perspective on self-investment and growth. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your personal life or marriage, this episode will give you the clarity to break free and take action. Listen now to discover how the people around you and the choices you make today can shape your future. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.