The Powerful Man Show

Episode #951 When was the last time you got truly curious about your wife? Not just about what she’s doing, but who she’s becoming? In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM advisor Chris tackle a common challenge: emotional distance in marriage. Many men unknowingly stop seeing their wives as evolving individuals, leading to stagnation in communication and intimacy. We answer real questions from TPM listeners, including: How to give your wife space without triggering her fear of abandonment Simple ways to break through emotional walls and spark meaningful conversations The importance of reinforcing emotional safety (hint: you need to say it more than once) Easy, actionable strategies to keep curiosity alive in your marriage If your relationship feels a little off, this episode is for you. Tune in and start reconnecting today. 👉 Listen now and take action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #950 We’re revisiting one of the most important topics for married businessmen—how to lead in your marriage without slipping into controlling behavior. Many men struggle with finding the balance between taking charge and being overbearing. In this episode, Doug Holt breaks down: The key difference between leadership and control How to be the “lighthouse” in your marriage and inspire your wife to follow your lead Why controlling behavior often comes from fear—and how to shift out of it Practical ways to take charge without pushing your wife away If you want to step up as a leader in your marriage without micromanaging or dictating, this is an episode worth revisiting. Tune in now! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #949 We're bringing back this powerful episode because it’s one of the most important conversations we’ve had about marriage. Ever felt like you and your wife are growing apart? Maybe she’s pulling away, and you’re wondering if you even care anymore. You might even be asking yourself, Did I marry the wrong woman? In this revisit, we break down a common pattern that leads men to disconnect emotionally—and how to shift it. We’ll explore: Why uncertainty in your marriage creates distance and what to do about it How your energy impacts her response (and why she might be pulling away) The 30-day challenge that can transform your marriage The key mindset shift that separates men who lead from those who drift This isn’t about waiting for her to change. It’s about you stepping up, consistently. If your marriage feels stuck, this episode is your wake-up call. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #948 We're revisiting one of the most powerful mindset shifts that can completely change your marriage, your relationships, and even your business. Ever find yourself in a pointless argument with your wife, wondering how a simple comment turned into a full-blown standoff? What if the key to avoiding these conflicts—and building deeper connection—was easier than you thought? In this throwback episode, I break down a simple but game-changing perspective shift that helped one of my clients go from constant tension to a thriving marriage and stronger family bonds. And the best part? It also transformed his success in business. Here’s what you’ll get from this episode: - A practical mindset shift that eliminates unnecessary conflict - How assuming positive intent can instantly improve your marriage - Why this small change creates massive impact in all areas of life If you missed this episode the first time, or just need a reminder, this is your chance to revisit a key insight that can take your relationships to the next level. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #947 If you’ve ever felt stuck in your relationship—repeating the same arguments, feeling disconnected, or struggling to understand why you react the way you do—this episode is for you. We’re revisiting a powerful conversation with men’s coach Casey DeCharneux, diving deep into the impact of early attachment on your adult relationships. Your patterns didn’t just appear overnight; they were shaped from a young age. The good news? Once you understand them, you can start rewriting the script. Doug and Casey break down why attachment issues show up in marriage, how unconscious patterns drive your reactions, and what to do when rejection triggers you. They also explore why many men turn to sedation—whether it’s work, alcohol, or distraction—and how to break free from cycles that aren’t serving you. If you’re ready to stop repeating the past and start creating a relationship built on real connection and trust, this is an episode worth hearing again. Listen now and take the next step toward deeper connection. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

In this engaging discussion, Erin Holt, a conscious parenting expert and Doug Holt's wife, shares transformative insights on raising confident children. She emphasizes the power of positive language and mirror affirmations. They dive into modeling healthy habits like journaling and self-care to foster resilience. Erin also highlights the importance of emotional transparency, encouraging parents to be vulnerable. Discover actionable strategies for intentional parenting that nurture your child's self-worth and strengthen family bonds.

Episode #945 What do you do when you’re committed to personal growth, but your partner isn’t? How can you encourage them without making them feel judged or pressured? In this episode, Doug and Chris break down a common struggle for men—wanting their wife to invest in herself but not knowing how to support her in a way that actually works. They reveal why pushing too hard can backfire, why leading by example is the most powerful strategy, and how to create a space where growth happens naturally. They discuss the difference between sharing your journey with excitement versus telling your wife what she “should” do. Doug opens up about his own experiences, the lessons he’s learned, and how he’s seen transformation happen in relationships when men focus on becoming the best version of themselves first. If you’ve ever felt frustrated watching your partner stay stuck while you evolve, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools to lead in a way that inspires—not pressures. Listen now and start leading by example. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

In this engaging discussion, Erin Holt, a group coaching expert and Doug Holt’s wife, sheds light on the female perspective in marriage. They explore why many women initiate divorce and the common disconnect between partners. Erin emphasizes the importance of proactive communication, vulnerability, and self-care for men. The conversation highlights the necessity of trust and leadership in relationships, urging listeners to take initiative and embrace personal growth to strengthen their bonds. Tune in for practical advice on deepening marital connections!

Ever reacted in anger and regretted it later? This discussion dives into mastering emotional control, featuring techniques like breathwork to ground yourself during heated moments. Emphasizing self-reflection and communication, the hosts reveal how reframing past hurts can strengthen relationships. They introduce the "Clean Slate" method—an innovative approach to let go of old wounds and foster growth. Through shared stories, they highlight the power of laughter and vulnerability in nurturing connections, urging listeners to take charge of their emotions.

Join Erin Holt, a relationship coach specializing in women's issues, as she and her husband, Doug, explore how to transform marriages from roommate status back to connected partners. They tackle the nuances of vulnerability, open communication, and the little moments that strengthen bonds. Discover why embracing masculine and feminine energies enhances intimacy and how thriving individually can lead to passionate partnerships. With actionable advice, this discussion provides the tools you need to reignite your relationship and foster deeper connections.