The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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May 6, 2025 • 27min

Living on the Edge: A Guide to Personal Transformation

Episode #975 What if the reason your life feels flat isn’t your job, your relationship, or your body—but the fact that you’ve stopped living on your edge? In this episode, we dive into what it really means to live to your edge—not just physically, but emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and mentally. Tim and Arthur break down why so many men slowly drift into mediocrity without even realizing it, and how that shows up in a distant marriage, a dull business, or just waking up every day feeling a little... gray. This isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what actually lights you up—about reconnecting with the part of you that once felt unstoppable, confident, and clear. You’ll hear practical ways men are challenging themselves daily inside The Powerful Man movement—from cold plunges and fasting to having real conversations and owning their truth in the bedroom and beyond. In this episode, you’ll learn what’s really on the other side of discomfort—and why leaning into your edge might just be the fastest way to become the man your wife, your kids, and you remember and respect. Because the guy you used to be? He’s not gone. He’s just waiting for you at the edge. Feel like your wife barely sees you anymore? Chances are, you’ve pulled back from your edge—and it’s costing you your marriage. That’s why I want to send you a free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. No fluff. Just real tools that actually work. I’ll buy the book. You cover shipping. Grab your copy now—link’s in the show notes.   If this episode hit home, it’s time to stop guessing and start leading. 👉 Watch the free training at thepowerfulman.com/scales You’ll discover exactly where things went off track in your relationship—and the proven steps to reignite the love, respect, and attraction you’ve been missing. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 3, 2025 • 13min

Revisit: When Words Wound: Dealing With Spousal Criticism in Front of the Kids

Episode #974 What do you do when your wife criticizes you in front of your kids? Worse—what if she starts pulling them onto “her team” against you? In this revisit episode, we’re bringing back a powerful conversation that struck a chord with a lot of men. It’s all about what to do when your wife starts undermining you in front of your children—something that’s not only painful but can seriously impact your family dynamic if left unchecked. We’ll get into why this might be happening, the damage it causes, and what to do when your instinct is to either shut down or fire back. You'll hear how to calmly take the lead, have the hard conversations, set boundaries that stick, and uncover the real reason this is happening in the first place. If you’ve been in this situation—or want to be prepared in case it ever happens—this episode is worth another listen. Because how you respond in these moments matters… a lot. Let’s revisit the playbook and make sure you’re ready. Ready to stop walking on eggshells and start leading at home again? Take the free Hidden Triggers in Your Marriage Assessment and find out what’s really throwing off the balance between you and your wife. 👉 thepowerfulman.com/scales It only takes a few minutes—and it could change everything. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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May 1, 2025 • 15min

Revisit: Calculating Your Losses: What Inaction Really Costs

Episode #973 Ever wonder what staying stuck is actually costing you—not just financially, but emotionally and mentally? We’re bringing back this episode because it struck a nerve with so many men. It’s one of those conversations that hits differently the second time around—especially if you’ve been feeling that quiet pull to make a change but haven’t moved yet. In this episode, we revisit a powerful concept that came out of a conversation with a high-level business consultant who uses a dead-simple method to get results: calculate the real cost of doing nothing. Not hypothetically—actually write it down. And not just for business, but for your marriage, your health, and your sense of purpose. You’ll hear real-world examples of what men lose by hesitating—relationships, time with their kids, even businesses. And you’ll get a straight-up challenge: write down the five core areas of your life and ask yourself, “What is inaction costing me here?” This isn’t about guilt. It’s about clarity—and then making moves that matter. If you’re in a season where you're waiting for the “right time,” this revisit might be exactly what you need to hear today. 👉 Not sure where you're losing the most? Take 2 minutes to get clear on where inaction is silently draining your marriage, energy, and focus. Start here: thepowerfulman.com/scales __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 29, 2025 • 21min

Revisit: No Laughing Matter: When Your Jokes Hurt More Than They Heal

Episode #972 Ever made a joke that didn’t land—but didn’t realize until later how deep it cut? We originally released this episode a while back, but it hit home for so many men that we knew it was worth revisiting. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I’m just joking—what’s the big deal?” this might be the perspective shift you didn’t know you needed. In this conversation, we get real about the difference between light-hearted teasing and the kind of humor that slowly chips away at trust. We share how even a small joke can come across as criticism, especially when the emotional “bank account” in your relationship is running low. You’ll hear why your wife might not find your teasing funny, how to read the energy behind your jokes, and what to do when your humor starts creating distance instead of connection. If laughter really is the best medicine, we need to make sure we’re not using it as a weapon. 🎯 Not sure if your emotional bank account is full or dangerously low? Take our free Marriage Scale Assessment to find out where things really stand between you and your wife—before another joke pushes things too far. thepowerfulman.com/scales __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 26, 2025 • 29min

Finding Fulfillment: Beyond the Pursuit of Happiness

Episode #971 What if the very thing driving your success is keeping you from feeling fulfilled? A lot of high-performing men are caught in the loop of "once I get this... then I’ll finally be happy." Sound familiar? Maybe it's sex, money, business goals, or even just recognition from your wife. But here's the thing: that finish line keeps moving. In this episode, Tim and Arthur unpack a hard truth—chasing happiness through external validation never ends well. They share real stories from men inside the movement (including one powerful breakthrough around intimacy and fulfillment) and dig into why so many of us resist feeling content, even when we say that’s all we want. You'll hear how being grateful doesn't mean giving up your edge, why internal validation is a more powerful driver than any goal, and how to make the shift from "pushed by pain" to "pulled by pleasure." If you're tired of hustling without feeling like you’ve arrived anywhere, this one's for you. Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?  Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scales You’ll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 24, 2025 • 29min

Finding Your Way: The Journey to Self-Discovery

Episode #970 Ever looked around at your life—good income, solid marriage, maybe even some investment wins—and still felt totally disconnected? You're not alone. A lot of high-performing men find themselves here. On paper, life checks all the boxes... but something feels off. That quiet frustration grows, and before long, you’re stuck in your head, spinning your wheels, and silently wondering, “Is this it?” In this episode, Arthur Magoulianiti shares his raw and real journey from engineer to successful property investor to personal growth junkie—only to find himself lost and lacking purpose. He opens up about the internal struggle he faced, the toll it took on his marriage, and the powerful transformation that finally pulled him out of the fog. You’ll hear: What “being lost” really feels like (and why logic alone won’t fix it) Why consuming more books, podcasts, and motivation might be making it worse The surprising moment Arthur realized how much he had been judging himself How men unknowingly carry emotional weight that drains them What actually works when you're ready to reconnect with purpose, power, and passion In this episode, you’ll learn how the feeling of being "stuck" isn’t a personal flaw—it’s a sign that you’ve outgrown where you are. Arthur’s story and lessons provide a roadmap for any man ready to shift from confusion to clarity, from burnout to energized purpose. Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. I’m buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage. Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?  Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scales You’ll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 22, 2025 • 31min

Authenticity Unleashed: A Journey through the Alpha Reset Process

Episode #969 Why do high-achieving men so often feel stuck, numb, or just... off? They've got the job, the house, the family—and yet inside, it’s like something’s broken. That’s exactly what we unpack in this episode. In this episode, Tim Matthews and Arthur Magulianiti pull back the curtain on the Alpha Reset—a powerful in-person experience that’s helped thousands of men stop spinning in their heads and start leading from a place of strength and authenticity. You’ll hear what really happens behind closed doors during the Reset, and why men say it’s the first time they’ve truly felt alive in years. We talk masks, emotional suppression, suicidal thoughts, the burden men silently carry, and what it means to stop proving and start leading—from the heart, not just the head. From emotional breakthroughs to the quiet confidence that returns when a man drops the BS and owns who he is—this is a raw, unfiltered look at the journey so many guys are craving but rarely talk about. Want That Look From Your Wife Again? Watch this free training to find out exactly what’s missing—and how to fix it. No fluff. Just a clear path to bring back the love, respect, and intimacy. 👉 Go to thepowerfulman.com/scales and hit play. Start leading again __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 19, 2025 • 32min

Unlocking Potential Through Sound: The Art of Personalized Music Therapy

Episode #968 Ever have a song take you back to a moment in your life—instantly? That’s not just nostalgia. It’s your nervous system responding to sound. In this episode, I sit down with Levi Goins, the man we call the “ranch wizard” at TPM—but today, we’re tapping into one of his true gifts: the healing power of personalized music. Levi’s been quietly changing lives behind the scenes using custom music therapy tracks. We’re talking about music that’s actually designed to anchor you into the man you want to be—whether that’s the calm leader walking through your front door or the powerful father fully present with his kids. We get into how sound affects your emotional state, how to create music that becomes a personal trigger for peace, presence, or energy—and why even guys with zero musical talent (like me) can do this. This isn’t about learning an instrument. It’s about creating something that sticks with you, wherever you go, and gets you back to your best. You don’t need a playlist. You need a personal soundtrack. Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. I’m buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage. Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?  Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scales You’ll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back. 🎧 Want to connect with Levi? 📧 Email him directly at: goins87@gmail.com __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 17, 2025 • 33min

The Power of Recovery: Fitness Tips for Every Man

Episode #967 Ever feel like your body just doesn’t bounce back like it used to? You’re not alone—and it’s not just about getting older. In this episode, I’m joined once again by Dr. Phil Batterson, PhD in exercise physiology, to talk about something most guys overlook: recovery. We dive into why your body might feel stiff, tired, or inflamed… even when you’re “doing all the right things.” The truth? Most men are overtraining and under-recovering. And that’s exactly why their results suck. We break down how to build a fitness routine that actually fits your life, how stress is crushing your gains, and why things like sleep, breathwork, and protein matter way more than your fancy supplements or ice baths. In this episode, you'll learn what an effective weekly plan looks like for the average high-performing man, why three days a week might be all you need, and how to structure recovery to actually feel better, not worse. This one’s for the guy who’s grinding in business, trying to be there for his family—and still wants to feel like an athlete without burning out. You don’t need to do more. You just need to do it smarter. 👉 Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. I’m buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage. Want That Look From Your Wife Again? Watch this free training to find out exactly what’s missing—and how to fix it. No fluff. Just a clear path to bring back the love, respect, and intimacy. 👉 Go to thepowerfulman.com/scales and hit play. Start leading again. Want to connect with Dr. Phil Batterson? 📧 Email: batterson.phil@gmail.com 📱 Instagram: @drphilbatterson 🎙️ Podcast: Critical Oxygen – for those of you who like a deep dive into performance and physiology. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 15, 2025 • 44min

Transform Yourself: Unlocking Cardiovascular Health for a Better Life

Episode #966 What if the biggest threat to your health isn’t your diet or your workout routine—but the shape of your cardiovascular system? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Phil Batterson, a VO₂ Max and cardio health expert, who also happens to be the guy that recently tortured me with a fitness test. And by tortured, I mean he showed me where I was really at. We dig into what VO₂ Max actually means in plain English—and why it's one of the most powerful predictors of how long you'll live. Seriously. This isn’t about becoming an elite athlete. It's about being able to chase your kids around the yard, keep up with your wife in bed, and not get winded during pickup basketball. Dr. Phil shares why most guys are training wrong for their goals, how you can get way better results in way less time, and why individualized testing beats generic workout plans every single time. In this episode, you'll hear how I got tested, what surprised me most, and what every man should be doing right now to take back control of their health. You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to know where you are—and start. 👉 Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. I’m buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage. If you're tired of wondering where the spark went...  This is your first step to getting it back. Watch the free video here: thepowerfulman.com/scales You owe it to yourself to at least see what’s possible. Want to reach out to Dr. Phil directly? 📧 Email him at batterson.phil@gmail.com 📱 Or connect with him on Instagram: @drphilbatterson __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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