

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Feb 24, 2024 • 45min
A Woman's Take: Let's Talk About Sex
Episode #788 Are you struggling to navigate the complexities of maintaining a fulfilling relationship while juggling various responsibilities? Do you find yourself feeling disconnected from your partner, unsure of how to reignite intimacy and understanding? In this insightful conversation, Doug and Erin delve into the challenges faced by couples, particularly focusing on the emotional well-being and fulfillment of women within relationships. As couples strive to balance the demands of daily life, including parenting, household responsibilities, and career pursuits, it's common for individuals to feel overwhelmed and disconnected from their sense of identity. In this episode, you'll learn how to navigate the complexities of modern relationships with empathy and understanding, fostering deeper emotional connections and reigniting intimacy. Explore practical strategies for supporting your partner's personal growth and fulfillment while strengthening your bond as a couple. Join us as we delve into the dynamics of relationships and discover how to create lasting love and connection in your own lives. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 22, 2024 • 23min
A Woman's Take: Getting Her To See The Man You Are Today
Episode #787 How can individuals foster genuine change within their relationships? What role does consistency and authenticity play in personal growth and transformation? In this episode of the TPM show, host Doug welcomes his wife Erin back to the podcast to explore these questions and offer invaluable insights into navigating the complexities of romantic partnerships. As they delve into the dynamics of fostering positive change, Doug and Erin emphasize the importance of internal validation and modeling consistent behavior. Through their discussion, listeners gain practical advice on cultivating fulfilling relationships grounded in authenticity and mutual growth. In this episode, you'll learn about the transformative power of focusing on personal growth and authenticity within relationships. Doug and Erin delve into the significance of internal validation and making changes for oneself rather than seeking external validation from a partner. By highlighting the role of consistency and authenticity in nurturing healthy partnerships, they provide listeners with actionable strategies for fostering deeper connections and personal fulfillment in their relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 20, 2024 • 22min
Reframing The Term "Shit Test"
Episode #786 Are you tired of feeling like your partner is constantly testing you? Do you struggle to understand the underlying message behind their complaints? In this enlightening conversation from the TPM show, hosts Doug Holt and master coach Mark Hainsworth delve into the transformative power of reframing "Shit Tests" as "Safety Tests" within relationships. By shifting the perspective from perceived challenges to opportunities for connection, Mark shares valuable insights on how to recognize and respond to these emotional cues effectively. In this episode, you'll learn how to navigate moments of tension and conflict with grace and understanding. By recognizing "Safety Tests" as a cry for connection and security, you'll discover how to create a safe space for vulnerability and intimacy in your relationships. Doug and Mark offer practical strategies for responding to these tests with empathy and compassion, fostering deeper connections and stronger bonds with your loved ones. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 17, 2024 • 1h 10min
An Open Conversation About Trauma, Shame And Narcissism
Episode #785 What lies at the heart of behaviors labeled as narcissistic? How do deep-seated fears and insecurities influence decision-making and relationship dynamics? In this engaging conversation, Doug Holt and Mark Hainsworth delve into various psychological and relational dynamics, raising thought-provoking questions about personal growth and behavior. They explore the concept of narcissism, dissecting its origins and manifestations, while also examining the role of fear in decision-making and relationship dynamics. With a focus on self-awareness and taking proactive steps, the speakers challenge listeners to confront their fears and embrace change in order to lead more fulfilling lives. In this episode, you'll learn about the underlying fears and insecurities that can contribute to behaviors labeled as narcissistic. The conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness in understanding and addressing these patterns, as well as the significance of taking action to break free from stagnant or harmful cycles. Through exploring the depths of human psychology, listeners are encouraged to embark on a journey of personal growth and transformation. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 15, 2024 • 24min
The Difference Between Boundaries And Agreements
Episode #784 How can boundaries and agreements contribute to the strength and stability of relationships? What are some practical examples of boundaries and agreements that couples can implement to enhance communication and emotional safety? In this episode, you'll learn about the distinction between boundaries and agreements and how they contribute to relationship dynamics. Doug and Andy discuss the importance of setting boundaries around respectful communication and honesty, while also emphasizing the collaborative nature of agreements. Through their engaging dialogue, listeners gain valuable insights into creating a healthy framework for navigating challenges and fostering deeper connections with their partners. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 13, 2024 • 26min
Privacy VS. Secrecy
Episode #783 Are you struggling with the fine line between privacy and secrecy in your relationships? Do you find yourself wondering how to rebuild trust after a breach? In this episode, Doug and Andy dive into the complexities of secrecy, privacy, trust and transparency in relationships. Explore the difference between privacy, which is healthy and necessary, and secrecy, which can erode trust and connection. Gain insights into practical strategies for fostering open communication and rebuilding trust in your relationships. In this episode, you'll learn how to navigate the delicate balance between privacy and secrecy while cultivating transparency and trust in your relationships. Discover the importance of making and keeping agreements, both with yourself and your partner, as a foundation for building trust. Explore the role of vulnerability and accountability in repairing trust after a breach, and gain actionable tips for creating a culture of honesty and openness in your relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 10, 2024 • 38min
3 Tips To Grow Your Relationship
Episode #782 Are you looking to deepen the connection in your relationship? Do you want to foster a sense of safety and intimacy with your partner? In this insightful conversation between Doug and Andy, you'll discover practical strategies for maintaining a healthy and thriving relationship. Andy shares the importance of regular check-ins, ranging from daily interactions to quarterly retreats, as essential components of relationship maintenance. By creating intentional spaces for communication and connection, couples can navigate change and evolve together. From incorporating morning and evening check-ins to planning adventurous getaways, Andy emphasizes the significance of prioritizing and investing in your relationship. In this episode, you'll learn how to establish a rhythm of connection with your partner, incorporating daily rituals and periodic retreats to strengthen your bond. By embracing change and approaching relationship maintenance with intentionality, you can cultivate a fulfilling partnership that stands the test of time. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 8, 2024 • 39min
How To Truly Lead Your Family By Taking The First Step
Episode #781 Are you struggling in your marriage and feeling disconnected from your partner? Do you find yourself searching for answers but unsure where to turn? Join Doug Holt and Ryan Peach as they dive deep into the challenges many men face in their relationships and the path to reclaiming leadership in their homes. Through heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, Doug and Ryan explore the journey of rediscovering oneself and reigniting the spark in a marriage. With insights drawn from their own experiences and the stories of countless men they've helped, they offer practical advice and actionable steps for men to take charge of their lives and relationships. In this episode, you'll learn valuable strategies for regaining leadership in your home, including prioritizing self-care, holding space for your partner, and seeking help when needed. Discover how taking decisive action and investing in personal growth can transform not only your marriage but also your sense of purpose and fulfillment. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 6, 2024 • 49min
Why Doing The Inner Work Will Lead Your Wife Back To You
Episode #780 Why is it worthwhile to invest time and effort in nurturing relationships, even when tangible results may not be immediate? In this thought-provoking episode, Doug and Ryan dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, prompting introspection with questions like, "Why plant seeds in February when you won't see results until May?" and "Do you take the same approach with your relationship as you do with your business?" Through candid dialogue and personal anecdotes, they underscore the significance of consistency and effort in nurturing relationships, drawing parallels to the patient process of farming. In this episode, you'll learn about the transformative power of consistent effort in relationships, as illustrated through the analogy of farming. Doug and Ryan emphasize the need to plant metaphorical seeds, nourish them with care, and patiently wait for the eventual harvest. The conversation explores the misconception that one can simply wait for results without putting in the daily work. Listeners gain insights into the importance of vulnerability, seeking guidance, and taking intentional actions to create positive shifts in their relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 3, 2024 • 39min
Understanding Challenges & Opportunities In Dealing With Menopause With Dr. Marie Agnew
Episode #779 Are you prepared to navigate the challenges of menopause alongside your partner? In this engaging conversation with Dr. Maria Agnew, DNP, a Functional Medicine practitioner, explore the intricacies of menopause and its impact on women's emotional well-being. Wondering about the role of nutrition in this phase? Uncover the surprising links between processed foods, hidden sugars, and hormonal changes, and learn practical steps to transform your family's pantry for optimal health. How can you proactively support your partner during menopause? Dr. Maria Agnew, DNP, provides insights into fostering open communication and understanding the emotional shifts women often experience. Discover the importance of addressing identity changes and learn actionable steps to cultivate a positive self-narrative for both you and your partner. In this episode, gain valuable knowledge about finding a practitioner focused on root cause healing, optimizing nutrition, and promoting overall well-being during the transformative phase of menopause. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.


