

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Nov 11, 2023 • 33min
Why Men Struggle To Receive Love and Compliments
Episode #743 How often do we, as men, find ourselves deflecting compliments, downplaying our achievements, or feeling uncomfortable when the spotlight turns toward us? In this episode of "The Powerful Man Show," Doug and Arthur engage in a candid discussion about a common challenge many of us face – the difficulty of accepting attention and praise. They shed light on the tendencies of men to be generous givers, readily offering support and assistance to others, yet struggling when it comes to receiving acknowledgment themselves. This conversation explores the roots of this behavior, unveiling societal conditioning and personal fears that hinder us from embracing our true selves. In this episode, discover how embracing vulnerability and authentically receiving compliments can lead to deeper connections and empowerment for men. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 9, 2023 • 23min
How To Build Trust In Your Marketplace
Episode #742 Are you struggling to build trust and loyalty in your business? Do you find it challenging to establish genuine connections with your customers? In this episode of the Powerful Man Show, Tim, Doug, and Arthur delve into the key elements that contribute to building trust in the marketplace. They emphasize the importance of authenticity, exceeding expectations, and clearly articulating what you stand for and against. Drawing from personal experiences and anecdotes, they highlight the significance of making meaningful deposits in the relational bank accounts of your customers. They discuss the impact of taking responsibility for mistakes, validating customer experiences, and offering exceptional service consistently. Tim, Doug, and Arthur stress the value of building a brand that aligns with your values and beliefs, emphasizing the importance of creating a deeper purpose or meaning within your product or service. In this episode, you'll learn the vital components of fostering trust and loyalty within your business, from the importance of authenticity to the power of exceeding expectations Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 7, 2023 • 25min
Are You Making Your Net Worth Your Self-Worth?
Episode #741 Have you ever found yourself constantly equating your self-worth with your net worth? Do you often feel trapped in the cycle of comparing your financial status to others, never quite feeling like you have enough? In this episode of the Powerful Man Show, Doug, Arthur, and Tim delved deep into the psychology of money mindset, specifically focusing on how men often fall into the trap of tying their sense of value to their financial status. They emphasized the detrimental impact of this mindset, highlighting the never-ending cycle of comparison and perpetual dissatisfaction that it can foster, regardless of the actual wealth accumulated. In this episode, you'll learn how to take proactive steps toward rewriting your money stories and fostering a healthier relationship with wealth and self-value. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 4, 2023 • 20min
Marriage Myth: Happy Wife, Happy Life
Episode #740 Have you ever found yourself compromising your own happiness and identity to ensure your partner's contentment? Do you believe that the notion of "happy wife, happy life" holds true in modern relationships, or does it lead to an imbalance of power and a loss of authenticity between partners? You see, it's essential to maintain your own happiness and sense of self while also nurturing your relationship. When we give too much of ourselves to please someone else, we can end up losing sight of who we are and what truly makes us happy. It's crucial to strike a balance between meeting your partner's needs and fulfilling your own desires. So, how do you navigate this delicate balance? How do you ensure that both you and your partner are content and fulfilled in the relationship? In this episode, you'll learn about the prevalent myth of prioritizing your partner's happiness above your own and the subsequent implications it can have on the dynamics of a relationship. We'll uncover practical strategies to prioritize your own happiness while fostering a deep and meaningful connection with your partner. We will also learn the keys to building a strong and fulfilling relationship based on authenticity, mutual understanding, and shared respect. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 2, 2023 • 26min
Why You're Crushing It In Business, But Completely Unhappy
Episode #739 Ever wondered what it truly means to be successful in your professional life while also feeling truly happy and fulfilled? What really drives your pursuit of success, and how does it align with your inner happiness? Finding happiness while striving for business excellence is a huge challenge for a lot of businessmen. Delving into the pitfalls of living a life solely driven by the need to prove oneself, Tim and Arthur unravel the transformative power of authentic self-connection and introspection. In this episode, you'll learn valuable strategies for achieving a harmonious integration of professional success and personal contentment. You'll also learn the importance of self-awareness, the dangers of living to prove oneself, the significance of finding peace and fulfillment, and the idea of aligning oneself internally before seeking external validation. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 31, 2023 • 23min
Planning 2024 Before It's Too Late
Episode #738 Planning for the upcoming year, 2024, is crucial for achieving your goals across different areas of your life. What steps are you considering to ensure a well-balanced approach to your personal growth, health, financial stability, relationships, and business endeavors? Navigating the planning process for the year ahead often comes with its own set of challenges, including the dilemma of aligning your personal goals with the expectations and priorities of your partner. In this episode, you'll learn some insightful strategies to help you reflect on the past, set achievable goals, and actively involve your partner in the planning process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 28, 2023 • 30min
How Self-Care Fuels Success
Episode #737 How does self-care contribute to sustained high performance? What are some common misconceptions about self-care, and how do they affect individuals' well-being and success? This episode revolves around the challenge of neglecting self-care while striving for high performance. Tim and Arthur discuss how men often perceive self-care as a secondary priority, leading to a focus solely on work and external responsibilities. This neglect ultimately results in depleted energy levels, a lack of fulfillment, and strained relationships, posing a significant obstacle to achieving sustainable success and a balanced life. In this episode, you'll learn about the critical importance of prioritizing self-care as an act of self-love and its direct correlation to sustained high performance. Tim and Arthur emphasize the significance of identifying and addressing energy drains while incorporating activities that fill one's emotional, mental, and physical buckets. Moreover, they highlight the necessity of maintaining a rhythm of self-care, ensuring that individuals have ample capacity to navigate the demands of their personal and professional lives effectively. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 26, 2023 • 18min
Trading Your Suit for a Tent: Why Adventure Can Save Your Marriage
Episode #736 How can adventure reinvigorate relationships and create lasting bonds? What role do spontaneity and risk-taking play in fostering intimacy and connection within partnerships? In this lively episode of The Powerful Man Show, Doug, Tim, and Arthur, explore the transformative power of shared experiences and the great outdoors. They delve into the significance of embracing challenges, balancing routine with adventure, and leveraging the elements of nature to reignite passion and excitement within relationships. Highlighting the importance of creating shared memories and overcoming hurdles together, the trio provides valuable insights into cultivating deeper connections and maintaining thriving relationships. In this episode, you'll learn how to infuse spontaneity into your relationship, embrace adventure as a tool for growth, and create lasting memories that strengthen the bond with your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 24, 2023 • 16min
Marriage Myth: Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater
Episode #735 Do you believe in the old saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater?" What circumstances can prompt individuals to transform despite challenging situations? While trust can be rebuilt after infidelity, it necessitates a genuine commitment to change and a mutual understanding of boundaries. Providing practical advice for individuals navigating through the aftermath of betrayal, this episode encourages listeners to prioritize self-reflection and assert healthy boundaries in their relationships, fostering a foundation of trust and respect. In this episode, you'll learn that individuals can indeed undergo transformative changes, but with crucial catalysts that drive the process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 21, 2023 • 47min
Did You Marry The Wrong Woman?
Episode #734 Did you marry the wrong woman? Or did she marry the wrong man? Are you stepping up to your potential? In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss the common dilemma faced by men, questioning whether their dissatisfaction stems from their choice of partner or their own lack of personal growth and development. Drawing from personal experiences and client interactions, they shed light on the complexities of relationships, underscoring the significance of self-reflection and individual responsibility. As you grapple with the daunting question of whether you married the wrong woman, it's crucial to first reflect on the reasons that led you to make this commitment in the first place. Consider the initial qualities and values that attracted you to your partner and led to your decision to share your life with her. Evaluating the evolution of your relationship and identifying the factors contributing to your current uncertainties can provide a clearer perspective on your emotional state and the potential issues at hand. In this episode, you'll learn how to navigate the complexities of marital doubts and uncertainties, especially when faced with the daunting question of whether you married the wrong person. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.