

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Dec 5, 2023 • 55min
What To Do When You've Let Your Body Go Physically, And How To Get It Back On Track Today
Episode #753 Have you ever wondered why your fitness goals seem elusive despite your efforts? Are you aware of the often underestimated impact of calories in everyday items, such as drinks and coffee creamer, on your overall health? In a dynamic conversation, Doug Holt and guest, Scott Johnson, a fitness professional, explore the intricacies of nutrition, exercise, and rehabilitation, offering valuable insights and debunking common misconceptions. In this episode, you'll learn not only about the significance of calories but also about the need to focus on the basics for sustainable fitness results. Steer clear of overcomplicating your fitness journeys and instead concentrate on foundational elements like strength training, nutrition, and stress management. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 2, 2023 • 22min
Divorce Day And How To Avoid It
Episode #752 Ever wondered about the high divorce rates or the shocking fact that 70% of divorces are initiated by women, soaring to 90% if the wife has a college degree? Join Doug, Arthur, and Tim in this episode of The Powerful Man Show as they explore these startling statistics and delve into the serious subject of divorce day. Discover the importance of recognizing these warning signs and taking proactive steps to salvage relationships before it's too late. In this episode, you'll learn the warning signs that often go unnoticed, leading up to the critical day known as divorce day. Don't wait until divorce day looms – take the necessary steps to strengthen your relationship now. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 30, 2023 • 29min
How To Stay In The Masculine Frame When Unexpected Sh*t Tests Come Up
Episode #751 How can you maintain your masculine energy when faced with challenging "shit tests" in a relationship? What are the foundational steps to ensure a strong and resilient connection with your partner? In this enlightening episode of The Powerful Man Show, Doug and Mark dive deep into addressing these questions and providing practical insights for men navigating the complexities of relationships. They define what a "shit test" is, how to handle it skillfully, and why it's crucial to stay consistent in your responses. Discover the power of engaged indifference, the role of engaged masculinity, and the transformative impact of filling both your and your partner's cups to foster a stronger, more connected relationship. In this episode, you'll learn practical strategies for remaining authentic, grounded, and decisive, ensuring that you not only weather the storm but emerge as the unwavering lighthouse in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 28, 2023 • 27min
What To Do When Your Wife Is Not Willing To Work On Herself
Episode #750 Are you struggling with the challenge of personal growth while your partner seems resistant to change? Wondering how to bridge the gap and inspire your spouse to join you on the journey of self-improvement? In this episode of The Powerful Man Show, Doug and Mark delve into this common dilemma faced by many individuals committed to personal development. They'll share practical advice, emphasizing the importance of open communication, curiosity, and creating a shared vision for the future. Discover effective strategies to foster collaboration and mutual growth within your relationship, fostering a space where both partners can thrive on their individual journeys toward becoming the best versions of themselves. In this episode, you'll learn valuable insights on navigating a relationship where your partner seems hesitant to embrace positive change. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 25, 2023 • 24min
Stuck In A Rut? Here's Your Ladder Out!
Episode #749 Are you feeling stuck and unsure of your next steps in life? How can you break free from this mindset and not just survive but thrive? In this latest podcast episode, Tim, Doug and Arthur, delve into the common challenges men encounter when feeling stuck in life and offer practical insights to navigate through these situations. If you've ever felt uncertain about your next steps in life, grappled with the challenge of being on the fence, and struggled to make decisive decisions, then this episode is tailored for you. Explore the power of self-reflection, the impact of seeking external perspectives, and discover potential growth within perceived ruts. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 23, 2023 • 38min
Navigating Family Holiday Stress Within The 5 Territories
Episode #748 Are you ready to navigate the holiday season with grace and intention? Wondering how to balance the 5 Territories - self, health, wealth, relationships, and business amidst the festivities? Dive into this insightful episode where Doug and Arthur share tips and strategies to empower men during the holidays. Most men, if not all, struggle in balancing various aspects of their lives during the holiday season. Managing self, health, wealth, relationships, and business simultaneously poses a significant dilemma. The need for intentional planning, effective communication, and flexibility becomes apparent as men navigate through family dynamics, expectations, and work commitments during this festive period. In this episode, you'll learn valuable insights on enhancing your well-being by doubling down on gratitude and reflection. Discover how embracing flexibility and managing expectations can lead to a more joyful holiday experience. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 21, 2023 • 23min
How To Stop Feeling Like A Stranger In Your Own Home
Episode #747 Do you feel like a stranger in your own home? You're doing your best, but it seems like your wife and kids are on a different wavelength. What steps can you take to shift from feeling disconnected to being the king of your home this holiday season and moving forward? Doug, Tim, and Arthur dive into the challenges many guys face during this time, like dealing with rejection, retreating, or turning to sedation. In this episode, you'll learn actionable strategies to transition from feeling like a stranger at home to becoming the king of your castle during the holiday season and moving forward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 18, 2023 • 27min
What To Do When Your Wife Is Checked Out
Episode #746 Have you ever wondered what to do when your wife starts checking out emotionally? Do you find yourself grappling with the complexities of reconnecting when things seem a bit off in your relationship? This episode revolves around the challenge of emotional disconnection in relationships. Tim and Arthur discuss the scenario where a wife has emotionally checked out, leading to a range of issues. The root cause often involves a breakdown in communication, understanding, and a lack of authenticity. They emphasize the significance of self-reflection, consistently positive actions, and addressing one's own behavior to reconnect with a disengaged partner. The overarching theme is the need for genuine transformation and understanding in order to rebuild and strengthen relationships that have encountered turbulence. In this episode, you'll learn about the power of consistent positive actions and authenticity in reigniting the spark in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 16, 2023 • 36min
The Business of Parenting: Navigating Roles as a Father and Businessman
Episode #745 Ever find yourself caught between the demands of your successful business and the desire to be fully present for your kids? Doug, Tim, and Arthur tackle the complexities of managing guilt when work responsibilities clash with family time, sharing personal experiences and practical strategies. They emphasize the importance of defining what it means to be present at home, highlighting the value of quality time over quantity. They also discuss their approaches to handling guilt, offering insights into making amends and giving oneself grace. In this episode, you'll learn valuable perspectives and actionable strategies for navigating the delicate balance of entrepreneurship and fatherhood. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Nov 14, 2023 • 28min
Profits and Passion: Boosting Both Your Bottom Line and Bedroom Life
Episode #744 Are you ready to uncover the surprising connections between success in the boardroom and passion in the bedroom? A lot of men often find themselves in a common struggle—excelling in the boardroom but facing challenges in the bedroom. Many tend to overlook the importance of proactive communication and creative expression in their personal relationships, creating a disparity between their business success and the state of their intimate lives. In this episode, you'll learn about the parallels between effective leadership in business and creating a passionate, fulfilling relationship. You'll gain insights into the common patterns that hinder men from achieving holistic success and learn practical steps to bridge the gap between the boardroom and the bedroom for a more harmonious life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.