

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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May 11, 2024 • 25min
Back on Track: Reigniting Your Drive After Life's Setbacks
Episode #821 Are you feeling stuck, like you've hit a roadblock that's drained your motivation? Discover how to reignite your drive and bounce back stronger in our latest episode of the TPM show! In this episode, we explore the common challenges of losing motivation and the powerful strategies to overcome them. Whether you're grappling with personal setbacks or professional obstacles, this conversation is packed with real-world insights and actionable tips. Doug and Tim delve into the importance of taking small steps, the role of reflection and asking for help, and how to reconnect with your core motivations. From personal anecdotes to practical advice, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to restore their enthusiasm and drive towards their dreams. Tune in to learn how to transform your approach and spark that fire in your belly once again! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 9, 2024 • 14min
No More Mr. Nice Guy: Mastering the Art of Saying No
Episode #820 Are you tired of saying "yes" to everything and feeling like you're constantly being walked over? In this episode, Doug shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to establish firm boundaries without becoming overbearing. From managing relationships with your spouse to interactions with your children, learn why setting fewer but firmer boundaries is more effective than having a multitude of weak ones. Discover the common pitfalls men face when they first start to enforce boundaries and how you can avoid them. Doug also explains the importance of consequences when boundaries are crossed and provides actionable steps to help you define and maintain your own personal boundaries. Whether it's in your marriage, with your kids, or in the workplace, learn how to command respect and maintain your dignity by effectively communicating and enforcing your standards. Tune in to gain valuable insights and strategies that will empower you to stop being the "nice guy" and start respecting yourself enough to demand the same from others. This is a must-listen for any man ready to take control of his life and relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 7, 2024 • 29min
Mask Off: Defeating Imposter Syndrome and Embracing Your True Potential
Episode #819 Do you ever feel like a fraud, secretly fearing others will discover you're not as competent or capable as they think? You're not alone. In this episode of the TPM show, I'm joined by Tim Matthews to unravel the complex feelings of impostor syndrome that many of us face. We delve into why this phenomenon is particularly prevalent among successful individuals and how it can manifest in both personal and professional areas of life. In this episode, we explore: The Nature of Impostor Syndrome: Understanding its roots and why even the most successful people can feel like phonies. Personal Reflections: Tim and I share our personal encounters with impostor syndrome, including the challenges and breakthrough moments. Overcoming Self-Doubt: Practical strategies and tips for recognizing, confronting, and ultimately overcoming the crippling self-doubt that impostor syndrome brings. Building a Supportive Community: The importance of sharing and connecting with others who understand what you’re going through. Join us as we discuss how to recognize the signs of impostor syndrome, dismantle its power, and step into a more confident and empowered version of yourself. Whether you're struggling silently or just curious about this common hidden issue, this episode is a beacon for anyone looking to conquer their inner critic. Tune in to discover why acknowledging and sharing your feelings of inadequacy might just be the key to overcoming them. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 4, 2024 • 22min
Revisit: Swinging The Pendulum Too Far When Fixing “Nice Guy Mode”
Episode #818 Have you ever felt like your efforts to be a "nice guy" in relationships aren't yielding the desired results? Do you find yourself swinging between extremes, from being overly accommodating to becoming assertive in an attempt to correct past behaviors? In this engaging discussion, Doug Holt delves into the common pitfalls many men face in relationships, shedding light on the journey of self-discovery, the struggle to find a balance, and the quest for authenticity. He explores the impact of seeking external validation and emphasizes the importance of finding a middle ground—a space where authenticity, respect, and self-love coexist. In this episode, you'll learn about the challenges faced by men who oscillate between being the accommodating "nice guy" and an overly assertive version of themselves. Gain insights into the pitfalls of overcorrecting behaviors and discover the keys to becoming a powerful, grounded man in both relationships and personal development. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 2, 2024 • 49min
Revisit: Men's Health Optimization: Expert Tips From Dr. Marie Agnew
Episode #817 Have you ever wondered about the subtle health signals your body may be sending, and how they could be impacting your overall well-being? In this insightful episode, Functional Medicine Practitioner, Marie Agnew, DNP, explores the often overlooked factors affecting men's health, prompting us to reflect on the signs of imbalance within our bodies. How can we optimize our health by paying attention to these signals and implementing proactive measures? As we delve into this enlightening conversation, Dr. Agnew addresses the tendency for men to neglect key health indicators, emphasizing the profound influence of factors such as gut health, inflammation, and dietary choices. What transformative potential lies in an elimination diet, and how can men unlock their best selves by understanding the intricate relationship between diet, gut health, and overall well-being? In this episode, you'll learn how to navigate the intricate relationship between diet, gut health, and overall well-being. Dr. Agnew introduces the effectiveness of an elimination food plan as a gold standard for identifying food-related inflammation. Emphasizing the significance of biofeedback over diagnostic testing, she shares insights into the power of dietary changes and personalized approaches in addressing issues like bacterial overgrowth. The conversation extends to the realm of hormonal balance, offering practical advice for men supporting their partners through perimenopausal and menopausal transitions. Overall, this episode provides valuable guidance for men seeking proactive and holistic approaches to enhance their health and vitality. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 30, 2024 • 49min
Revisit: Why Doing The Inner Work Will Lead Your Wife Back To You
Episode #816 Why is it worthwhile to invest time and effort in nurturing relationships, even when tangible results may not be immediate? In this thought-provoking episode, Doug and Ryan dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, prompting introspection with questions like, "Why plant seeds in February when you won't see results until May?" and "Do you take the same approach with your relationship as you do with your business?" Through candid dialogue and personal anecdotes, they underscore the significance of consistency and effort in nurturing relationships, drawing parallels to the patient process of farming. In this episode, you'll learn about the transformative power of consistent effort in relationships, as illustrated through the analogy of farming. Doug and Ryan emphasize the need to plant metaphorical seeds, nourish them with care, and patiently wait for the eventual harvest. The conversation explores the misconception that one can simply wait for results without putting in the daily work. Listeners gain insights into the importance of vulnerability, seeking guidance, and taking intentional actions to create positive shifts in their relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 27, 2024 • 13min
When Words Wound: Dealing With Spousal Criticism in Front of the Kids
Episode #815 Have you ever found yourself baffled by your spouse's critical comments in front of your children? Wondering how to restore peace and assert your role in the family without escalating tensions? In this episode, we delve into the challenging dynamic of spousal criticism witnessed by children. We explores the painful realities behind these hurtful exchanges and offers actionable strategies for men to reclaim respect and harmony in their homes. Discover how to address the underlying issues, set clear boundaries, and foster a healthier family environment. Listen now to understand why these conflicts arise and learn effective ways to flip the script, ensuring you can confidently "re-sit on your throne" at home. This episode is not just about conflict resolution—it's about building a legacy of love and respect in your family. Tune in for a heartfelt and transformative discussion! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 25, 2024 • 15min
Calculating Your Losses: What Inaction Really Costs
Episode #814 Are you tired of watching opportunities pass you by? Ever wondered what inaction is truly costing you, not just in business but in life? In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the concept of the "cost of inaction." Using compelling anecdotes and expert insights, he examines how failing to act can detrimentally impact various aspects of your life—from your relationships to your business ventures. Doug discusses how hesitation can be the biggest threat to progress and offers practical advice on how to evaluate and confront the costs associated with inaction. Whether it's the potential loss of business, the emotional toll of a failing marriage, or missed personal growth opportunities, this episode will make you reconsider the true price of staying in your comfort zone. Learn how to take decisive action and avoid the pitfalls of stagnation, ensuring you're not the one left with regrets. Join us for a candid discussion on making proactive choices that lead to a more fulfilled and successful life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 23, 2024 • 21min
No Laughing Matter: When Your Jokes Hurt More Than They Heal
Episode #813 Ever wonder if your playful jabs at your partner are truly all in good fun, or if they might be causing more harm than good? In this episode, Doug Holt explores a critical aspect of relationships that many overlook—the impact of our jokes and teasing on our spouses. Whether it's a light-hearted comment about the dishes or a sarcastic remark in a social setting, the words we choose and the energy behind them can profoundly affect the emotional climate of our relationships. Doug shares personal anecdotes and insights from years of coaching, revealing how what's meant as bonding humor can sometimes alienate the ones we love most. He delves into the nuances of "reading the room," understanding the energy behind our words, and recognizing how these interactions can influence our spouse's feelings of safety and love. Listeners will come away with strategies to ensure their humor fosters connection rather than discord, emphasizing the importance of emotional awareness and the power of well-timed levity in building a loving and supportive marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 20, 2024 • 30min
Woman's POV: Choosing Sides-Navigating the Parent-Child Bond in Marriage
Episode #812 Are you navigating the complex dynamics of marriage and parenthood? In this episode of "The TPM Show," we're joined by special guest Erin, as we dive into the intricate relationship between spouses and their roles as parents. The discussion centers around a common issue many couples face—when one spouse feels sidelined in favor of the children. In this episode, Doug and Erin explore the biological and emotional changes that occur when becoming a parent, especially from a woman's perspective. They discuss how these shifts can lead to a spouse inadvertently seeking emotional fulfillment from their children, creating potential strains in the marriage. Listeners will gain insights into maintaining a healthy balance between their roles as partners and parents. They'll learn strategies for engaging in meaningful conversations that strengthen their marriage and set a positive example for their children. Tune in to understand how to navigate the parental roles in your marriage and protect the integrity of your relationship while fostering a nurturing environment for your children. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.