

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Aug 22, 2024 • 44min
SMV 2.0: Advanced Strategies to Maximize Your Sexual Market Value
Episode #865 Ever wondered how to elevate your Sexual Market Value (SMV) and become the best version of yourself, whether you're single or in a committed relationship? In this episode, we dive deep into advanced strategies that go beyond the basics. Doug Holt and Tim Matthews discuss how to avoid falling into the routine traps that can lower your SMV and how to leverage your appearance, confidence, and social status to become magnetic. You'll learn actionable steps to refine your grooming, enhance your physical fitness, and build a strong social network. Plus, discover how your mission and purpose play a crucial role in boosting your SMV and, ultimately, your relationship. Tune in to learn how small changes can make a big difference in how you show up in the world and in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 20, 2024 • 17min
Dual Perspectives: Feminine and Masculine Feedback Decoded
Episode #864 In this episode, we dive deep into the dynamics of male and female communication, particularly how feedback is received and delivered differently between genders. Ever found yourself puzzled by your partner's reaction, feeling like it’s way out of proportion to the situation? You're not alone. Join Tim Matthews, Mark Hainsworth, and Mo Parks as they explore the nuances of how men and women interact when emotions are high and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. We discuss why women might deliver feedback with a bite and how men can respond in a way that fosters understanding and respect rather than conflict. Whether it's the unintentional harshness in a woman’s words or a man's need for appreciation and acknowledgment, this episode offers insights into how these differences play out in relationships—and what you can do to ensure they don’t drive you apart. Perfect for married male business owners who are struggling with communication in their relationships, this episode provides actionable advice on how to manage these situations better. Listen in to learn how to navigate these tricky dynamics and bring more harmony into your marriage. Tune in and discover how to transform these challenging moments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 17, 2024 • 44min
The Burden of Masculinity: Understanding Men’s Struggles
Episode #863 Ever feel like the world is bearing down on you, and it’s all on you to carry the load? You’re definitely not alone in that. Today’s society heaps a ton of expectations on men—be the breadwinner, the protector, stay in shape, be emotionally available—the list goes on. But what happens when it all gets too heavy to carry? In this episode, we’re digging into the challenges men face right now. We’ll be discussing a powerful story about a woman who lived as a man for a year, only to find the experience so crushing that it ended tragically. This story serves as a stark reminder of the immense pressure men face, and we’re also going to talk about how these rising expectations in relationships, work, and society are leading to increased stress, anxiety, and even suicide among men. We’re bringing in some real heavy-hitters to help us break this down—Mo Parks and Mark Hainsworth. Together, we’ll dive into how men can navigate these modern demands, redefine their roles, and find the support they need in a world that too often expects them to be invincible. So, tune in. You’ll learn practical steps to redefine what it means to be a man today and how to tackle these challenges without losing who you are in the process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 15, 2024 • 27min
Woman's POV: Why Don't Women Apologize?
Episode #862 Have you ever wondered why it seems so hard for women to apologize, even when it's clear that something went wrong? In this episode, we take a closer look at the reasons behind this common relationship issue. Through a candid conversation, we explore the deep-seated psychological and societal factors that often prevent women from saying those simple yet powerful words, "I'm sorry." We’ll discuss how upbringing, cultural norms, and emotional dynamics play a significant role in shaping how women approach conflict resolution. But it doesn’t stop there—we also provide actionable advice for men who find themselves frustrated by the lack of apologies in their relationships. Discover how to create a safe space that encourages open communication and mutual understanding, ultimately leading to a stronger, more connected partnership. Whether you’re dealing with ongoing tensions in your marriage or you’re just curious about the intricacies of male-female communication, this episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate the complex world of relationships. Don't miss out on this deep dive into one of the most puzzling aspects of male-female dynamics. Listen now and start transforming the way you interact with your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 13, 2024 • 21min
Becoming Your Own Best Friend: The Path to Self-Compassion and Personal Growth PT. 2
Episode #861 In this episode, we dive deeper into the journey of self-compassion and personal growth. If you've ever felt like your worst critic or struggled with negative self-talk, this episode is for you. We continue our conversation on how to become your own best friend, exploring practical steps to shift your mindset and embrace self-kindness. Through relatable stories and actionable insights, you'll learn how to foster a healthier relationship with yourself, which in turn, can transform your personal and professional life. Tune in to discover how self-compassion is not just a buzzword but a powerful tool that can lead to profound changes in your life. Whether you're navigating challenges in your marriage, business, or personal life, this episode offers the guidance you need to move forward with confidence and compassion. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 10, 2024 • 24min
Becoming Your Own Best Friend: The Path to Self-Compassion and Personal Growth PT. 1
Episode #860 Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be your own best friend? In this episode, we explore the transformative power of treating yourself with the same kindness and compassion you offer others. Discover how to shift from being your harshest critic to your biggest supporter. Tim Matthews and Mo Parks delve into the practical steps of self-compassion, from practicing positive self-talk to setting healthy boundaries. Learn how these small changes can lead to improved relationships, greater resilience, and enhanced personal growth. In this episode, you will learn: The importance of treating yourself with kindness and understanding. How to practice positive self-talk and self-respect. The impact of self-compassion on personal growth and happiness. Practical tips to become your own best friend. Tune in to start your journey towards self-compassion and personal growth! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 8, 2024 • 28min
Softening A Strong Woman: Unlocking True Connection
Episode #859 Do you ever feel like your wife has built a wall around herself, making it hard for you to connect? Are you struggling to understand why she seems critical or distant, despite your efforts? In this episode, we explore the dynamics of how women can become "hard" and how this impacts marriages. Our guest, Mo Parks, shares her insights on the subtle and not-so-subtle ways women develop protective barriers and how men can help soften these defenses to rebuild intimacy and trust. In this episode, you'll learn: The signs of a "hard" woman and the underlying reasons behind her behavior. How men may unintentionally contribute to their wives' emotional walls. Practical strategies for husbands to take the lead in softening their wives and fostering a more emotionally safe environment. The importance of consistency and owning past mistakes in breaking down barriers. Join us for an insightful discussion on creating deeper, more meaningful connections in your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 6, 2024 • 20min
The Unhappy Entrepreneur: Breaking the Chains of Success
In this engaging discussion, Stu opens up about his journey from feeling empty despite his successful business and loving family. He reveals the hidden struggles entrepreneurs face, like emotional turmoil and the pressure of societal expectations. Stu shares breakthrough moments that helped him confront his unhappiness and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and community support. He provides practical steps to break free from the invisible chains of external validation, guiding listeners toward genuine fulfillment and joy.

Aug 3, 2024 • 29min
Overcoming Guilt: Empowering Men to Prioritize Self-Care and Personal Fulfillment
Guilt often overwhelms men trying to juggle family and work, impacting their mental health and personal growth. The hosts explore how self-care is not selfish but essential. They delve into real-life stories that highlight the emotional struggles men face, especially in entrepreneurial roles. Understanding covert contracts and their effects on relationships is crucial. Listeners gain practical strategies for setting boundaries, prioritizing personal needs, and fostering better connections with loved ones. Embracing self-care leads to a more fulfilling life.

Aug 1, 2024 • 36min
Keeping Connections: The Importance of Maintaining Friendships as You Get Older
The podcast highlights the crucial role of friendships in maintaining mental and physical health as we age. It discusses the dangers of relying solely on romantic relationships for emotional support and the benefits of strong social connections, particularly in Blue Zones. Listeners hear about the emotional comfort male friendships provide during tough times like separation or divorce. The conversation emphasizes actionable steps for nurturing these bonds and overcoming societal pressures, reminding us that community and connection are vital for a fulfilling life.