The Powerful Man Show

Episode #925 What if the key to a stronger, more passionate relationship isn't found in fixing your partner, but in working on yourself? In this episode, Doug sits down with Gary and Heather to explore how personal growth impacts your relationship dynamic. They share insights on how stepping into your own power—without making your partner responsible for your emotional or physical well-being—can reignite intimacy, respect, and connection. You’ll learn why women often find it incredibly attractive when their man takes ownership of his life, follows through on his commitments, and shows up with intention. The conversation covers practical ways to stop being a liability in your relationship and start becoming a true partner. Whether you're feeling stuck in your relationship or just looking to deepen your connection, this episode will show you how growth within yourself creates lasting change at home. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #924 What if the secret to deeper intimacy is something most men avoid—vulnerability? In this episode, Doug sits down with Gary, a long-time member of The Powerful Man, and his partner Heather, for a raw and honest conversation about what it really takes to create lasting trust and connection in a relationship. They dive into the challenges men face in expressing their true needs and desires, the importance of emotional safety for both partners, and how honesty—starting with yourself—can transform your relationship. Heather shares how feeling emotionally "held" by a grounded partner changed her understanding of trust, while Gary opens up about shedding the "nice guy" persona to become a man who's both strong and open-hearted. From practical tools like the Yes/No/Maybe intimacy list to exploring why many men hide their feelings out of fear of rejection, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you build a relationship where both partners feel seen, heard, and loved. Whether you're struggling to communicate your needs or simply want to take your relationship to the next level, this episode offers real-world advice to help you show up more authentically in your life and partnership. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #923 Have you ever wondered if your jokes are truly landing—or if they’re causing more harm than good? In this revisit episode, we’re taking another look at how playful teasing and joking with your wife can backfire and damage your connection. Discover why timing, intent, and the emotional "room" are crucial when it comes to humor in your relationship. We’ll revisit key takeaways, including: How to gauge your relationship’s “love tank” before joking. Why some jokes can feel like criticism, even when that’s not your intent. Steps to ensure your humor builds connection instead of conflict. This conversation is just as relevant today as ever—tune in to see how small changes can make a big difference in your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #922 Are you still falling into the trap of being the "nice guy" in your relationship? Let’s revisit what this means and how to move beyond it. In this episode, Doug and Andy take another look at the behaviors that keep men stuck in people-pleasing patterns—and the consequences it has on their marriages. We explore why covert contracts (those unspoken expectations) lead to resentment, and what happens when men swing too far in the opposite direction, becoming overly detached or aggressive. You’ll learn how to check your motives, avoid transactional behaviors, and handle feedback from your partner without shutting down or overreacting. With clear examples and actionable insights, this discussion will help you show up as a confident and caring husband without slipping back into old habits. If you’re ready to reevaluate and refine how you’re showing up in your marriage, this episode is for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #921 Are you supporting your wife in ways that truly help her thrive? In this revisit episode, Erin and I explore the timeless topic of how men can better understand and support the women in their lives. We’re diving back into the conversation about the gender differences in how we "fill our cups" and why recognizing these differences is essential for deeper connection. You’ll revisit insights on: The role of stress, sleep, and movement in restoring feminine energy. Why alone time, being truly heard, and feeling desired by her man are key for women. Simple ways to create space for your wife’s femininity—even with a packed schedule. How understanding these principles can transform your relationship and family life. If you missed this before or need a reminder, this episode is packed with practical steps to bring out the best in your partner and create a stronger, more balanced relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #920 What truly draws women to a man? Spoiler: it’s not about the car or abs—it’s all about the energy he brings to the table. In this revisited episode, Doug Holt is joined again by his wife, Erin, as they dive deeper into what makes a man irresistible from a woman’s perspective. Drawing on her experience as a coach, Erin shares how grounded confidence, emotional maturity, and genuine presence create an undeniable spark. They also unpack why neediness is a major turn-off and how small, intentional changes can completely transform your connection with your wife. Revisit this conversation to rediscover: How to cultivate calm confidence that women love. Why being fully present is the ultimate attraction hack. Simple shifts to become the man your partner craves. Ways to bring fun, playfulness, and passion back into your relationship. Missed it the first time? Take this chance to refresh your approach and turn insights into action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #919 Has your wife ever criticized you in front of your kids or tried to rally them against you? It’s a tough spot to be in, and it can take a toll on your family. In this revisit episode, we dive back into an important topic: understanding why this happens and how to handle it effectively. You’ll discover how to set boundaries, uncover the deeper issues driving this behavior, and protect your kids from being dragged into the conflict. Take a firm yet loving approach to restore respect and harmony in your home. Tune in and revisit these essential strategies. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #918 Are you tired of doing the same thing for every anniversary? It’s time to shake things up. In this revisited episode, we dive into practical strategies to transform your milestone into a celebration worth remembering. Learn how to plan ahead, incorporate your wife’s love language, and avoid the last-minute panic that so many guys face. You’ll hear about: Why planning in advance is key to a stress-free celebration. Creative ideas to make your anniversary stand out. How to craft an experience that both you and your wife will love. Let’s turn your next anniversary into something unforgettable. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #917 What happens when your libidos don’t match? Maybe you want sex more than your wife—or she wants it more than you. It’s a common challenge, but one you can tackle together with the right tools. In this revisit episode, we’re bringing back one of our most impactful conversations on navigating mismatched desires in the bedroom. We explore practical strategies for improving intimacy, from scheduling "sex dates" to understanding the emotional and hormonal dynamics at play. You'll learn how connection fuels desire, why open communication about sex matters, and steps to reignite passion—even when life feels too busy. If your relationship feels stuck or needs a boost, this timeless advice will help you create the passionate, connected marriage you both deserve. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #916 Are you paying more taxes than you should? In this episode, Doug chats with Brian, a lawyer and tax strategist who’s passionate about helping business owners and investors keep more of their hard-earned money. Brian shares practical tips on tax-efficient business structuring, real estate investments, and why your CPA, bookkeeper, and tax lawyer should work together as a team. You'll discover actionable strategies like how to maximize deductions, the benefits of holding companies, and the power of real estate professional status. Brian also dives into creative ways to leverage tools like whole life insurance and infinite banking, making complex topics approachable and clear. If you’ve ever wondered how to save on taxes ethically while protecting your assets and growing your wealth, this episode is packed with valuable insights you can use right now. Connect with Brian Boyd: Email: bboyd@thompsonburton.com Book: A Lawyer's Guide to Finding, Funding, and Managing Real Estate Investments  Facebook: www.facebook.com/ThompsonBurton/ Twitter: x.com/thompsonburton LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/boydlegal/ __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.