

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Mar 4, 2025 • 15min
Revisit: Transform Your Relationships: The One Simple Change That Makes All the Difference
Episode #948 We're revisiting one of the most powerful mindset shifts that can completely change your marriage, your relationships, and even your business. Ever find yourself in a pointless argument with your wife, wondering how a simple comment turned into a full-blown standoff? What if the key to avoiding these conflicts—and building deeper connection—was easier than you thought? In this throwback episode, I break down a simple but game-changing perspective shift that helped one of my clients go from constant tension to a thriving marriage and stronger family bonds. And the best part? It also transformed his success in business. Here's what you'll get from this episode: - A practical mindset shift that eliminates unnecessary conflict - How assuming positive intent can instantly improve your marriage - Why this small change creates massive impact in all areas of life If you missed this episode the first time, or just need a reminder, this is your chance to revisit a key insight that can take your relationships to the next level. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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Mar 1, 2025 • 55min
Revisit: You Can't Move Forward Until You Understand Attachment
Episode #947 If you've ever felt stuck in your relationship—repeating the same arguments, feeling disconnected, or struggling to understand why you react the way you do—this episode is for you. We're revisiting a powerful conversation with men's coach Casey DeCharneux, diving deep into the impact of early attachment on your adult relationships. Your patterns didn't just appear overnight; they were shaped from a young age. The good news? Once you understand them, you can start rewriting the script. Doug and Casey break down why attachment issues show up in marriage, how unconscious patterns drive your reactions, and what to do when rejection triggers you. They also explore why many men turn to sedation—whether it's work, alcohol, or distraction—and how to break free from cycles that aren't serving you. If you're ready to stop repeating the past and start creating a relationship built on real connection and trust, this is an episode worth hearing again. Listen now and take the next step toward deeper connection. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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Feb 27, 2025 • 22min
Conscious Parenting: Fostering Self-Worth and Resilience in Children
In this engaging discussion, Erin Holt, a conscious parenting expert and Doug Holt's wife, shares transformative insights on raising confident children. She emphasizes the power of positive language and mirror affirmations. They dive into modeling healthy habits like journaling and self-care to foster resilience. Erin also highlights the importance of emotional transparency, encouraging parents to be vulnerable. Discover actionable strategies for intentional parenting that nurture your child's self-worth and strengthen family bonds.

Feb 25, 2025 • 16min
Nurturing Growth: Encouraging Your Partner
Episode #945 What do you do when you're committed to personal growth, but your partner isn't? How can you encourage them without making them feel judged or pressured? In this episode, Doug and Chris break down a common struggle for men—wanting their wife to invest in herself but not knowing how to support her in a way that actually works. They reveal why pushing too hard can backfire, why leading by example is the most powerful strategy, and how to create a space where growth happens naturally. They discuss the difference between sharing your journey with excitement versus telling your wife what she "should" do. Doug opens up about his own experiences, the lessons he's learned, and how he's seen transformation happen in relationships when men focus on becoming the best version of themselves first. If you've ever felt frustrated watching your partner stay stuck while you evolve, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools to lead in a way that inspires—not pressures. Listen now and start leading by example. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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Feb 22, 2025 • 30min
Navigating Marriage: When to Step In and Be Your Best Self
In this engaging discussion, Erin Holt, a group coaching expert and Doug Holt’s wife, sheds light on the female perspective in marriage. They explore why many women initiate divorce and the common disconnect between partners. Erin emphasizes the importance of proactive communication, vulnerability, and self-care for men. The conversation highlights the necessity of trust and leadership in relationships, urging listeners to take initiative and embrace personal growth to strengthen their bonds. Tune in for practical advice on deepening marital connections!

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Feb 20, 2025 • 23min
Breathe Deep: A Guide to Managing Anger and Strengthening Relationships
Ever reacted in anger and regretted it later? This discussion dives into mastering emotional control, featuring techniques like breathwork to ground yourself during heated moments. Emphasizing self-reflection and communication, the hosts reveal how reframing past hurts can strengthen relationships. They introduce the "Clean Slate" method—an innovative approach to let go of old wounds and foster growth. Through shared stories, they highlight the power of laughter and vulnerability in nurturing connections, urging listeners to take charge of their emotions.

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Feb 18, 2025 • 23min
Unlocking Intimacy: Practical Steps for A Thriving Relationship
Join Erin Holt, a relationship coach specializing in women's issues, as she and her husband, Doug, explore how to transform marriages from roommate status back to connected partners. They tackle the nuances of vulnerability, open communication, and the little moments that strengthen bonds. Discover why embracing masculine and feminine energies enhances intimacy and how thriving individually can lead to passionate partnerships. With actionable advice, this discussion provides the tools you need to reignite your relationship and foster deeper connections.

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Feb 15, 2025 • 20min
Revisit: Emotional Savvy: Unlocking Your Inner Potential
In this engaging discussion, Andy Torr, an expert on emotional intelligence and men's well-being, sheds light on the often-overlooked importance of emotional awareness. He explains how suppressing feelings limits happiness and argues that vulnerability, far from being a weakness, is a vital strength. The conversation navigates complex emotions and emphasizes creating emotional safety for stronger relationships. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their full emotional spectrum and use anger constructively for personal growth.

Feb 13, 2025 • 13min
From Hesitation to Confidence: Mastering Relationship Dynamics
Do you hesitate to express your needs in a relationship? You're not alone. This conversation reveals how to communicate confidently and avoid the ‘nice guy’ trap. Learn why your hesitation may lead to testing from your partner and how strong requests can enhance intimacy. Discover the difference between grounded masculinity and needy behavior, and the energetic shifts that make you more attractive. Master the art of open communication to foster trust and connection, transforming your relationship for the better.

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Feb 11, 2025 • 33min
Unveiling Truth in Relationships: Stepping Out of Comfort Zones
Many men find themselves stuck in unfulfilling relationships, fearing change more than mediocrity. The discussion exposes how avoiding tough conversations and the fear of rejection can hinder genuine connections. Listeners learn about the hidden costs of playing it safe and the significance of intimacy from both emotional and physical perspectives. The podcast also emphasizes practical steps to reclaim confidence, foster personal growth, and break free from stagnation—encouraging a pivot towards deeper connections and authentic relationships.


