The Powerful Man Show

Episode #1037 We’re revisiting an important conversation that continues to hit home for so many men. What happens when the marriage is technically over, but you sense there’s still a chance to reconnect? In this episode, Doug answers a listener’s question about when and how to approach reconciliation after separation or divorce. He breaks down why chasing your ex or falling back into old habits pushes her further away, and what it looks like to show up with real confidence instead of neediness. You’ll hear practical strategies for getting grounded, filling your own cup, avoiding the “deer” response, and practicing engaged indifference so you can create attraction again rather than giving your ex all the power. This isn’t about replaying the past it’s about becoming the man you know you can be and approaching the relationship in a healthier way. If you’ve ever wondered whether dating your ex is possible, this revisit will give you perspective and tools you can use right now. If your marriage feels stuck or distant, don’t wait until it’s too late. Get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It shows you exactly what’s going wrong and how to start rebuilding the connection today.

Episode #1036 Are you truly living, or just getting through the day? In this episode, Doug and Coach Steve have an honest conversation about purpose, aging, marriage, and the kind of legacy most men never stop to think about. Not legacy in the financial sense, but how you show up as a man, how you lead at home, and what you're quietly passing on to your kids. They share stories of mentors, tough transitions, and the moments that force you to ask, "Is this really the life I want to be living?" From broken trust to burnout, to feeling stuck in the same daily routine, this is a conversation about what it really looks like to turn things around. You’ll hear what happens when men stop waiting and start making bold, uncomfortable moves toward growth. And why living with intention today might be the most important gift you leave behind. If you've been playing it safe or telling yourself it’s not that bad, this episode might be the wake-up call you need. If your relationship feels stuck and you’re not sure how to fix it, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It breaks down exactly what’s going wrong and gives you a clear, proven path to rebuild connection and trust without dragging your wife into another hard conversation.

Episode #1035 What really changes when a man stops pretending he’s fine and finally asks for support? In this honest conversation, Doug sits down with a couple from the UK to talk about what it actually looks like to grow as a man, a husband and a father. They cover the shift from feeling isolated and emotionally shut down to building real friendships, taking the lead at home and showing up more fully in marriage and parenting. You’ll hear what it’s like to go from carrying everything alone to feeling part of a community. You’ll also hear the wife's perspective on how the change impacted her, their relationship and their kids. This episode is for any man who feels stuck, disconnected or just tired of trying to figure it all out on his own. If you want to understand what’s really broken in your marriage and get a clear path to fix it, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It walks you through what’s going wrong and how to turn things around without guesswork.

Episode #1034 In this throwback episode, we’re revisiting a core conversation that’s just as relevant now as when it first aired. If you’ve ever felt like you're doing all the right things but your wife still pulls away, this one’s for you. Doug breaks down what really happens when men fall into the trap of chasing their wife. Whether it’s constant texts, over-checking in, or trying too hard to fix the relationship, that energy often creates more distance instead of connection. You’ll hear why chasing is a form of needy energy, how it kills polarity, and what to do instead. Doug walks through simple shifts that help men lead from a grounded place instead of needing approval. He also explains the triad of connection and why your wife’s reaction is not the measure of your success. This revisit is a reminder that your power comes from within. When you stop chasing and start leading, everything changes.

Episode #1033 Most men want to be better at communicating with their wife but don’t always know how. Especially when it comes to listening without turning it into a checklist or interrogation. In this episode, Doug and Chris break down what it looks like to build real connection through everyday conversations — even when things feel distant or tense. They talk about the “collecting berries” concept and how it helps men understand the way women process emotions and daily life. You’ll learn why your curiosity matters more than your words, how to ask better questions, and what to do when your wife doesn’t open up right away. This isn’t about scripts or techniques. It’s about showing up with genuine presence, creating safety, and knowing when to lean in and when to back off. Doug also shares how simple questions, small moments, and being consistent can rebuild trust and intimacy over time. They also dive into why so many men feel isolated, how to build real friendships as a husband and father, and the role community plays in helping you stay on track as a leader at home. If your marriage feels off and you’re not sure what to do next, go watch the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It breaks down exactly what’s missing and shows you how to fix it. No fluff. Just a clear path forward.

Episode #1032 What do you do when you’re fighting with your wife and it feels like you didn’t do anything wrong? How do you handle conflict without making things worse? In this episode, Doug and Chris talk through the real challenges men face when arguments come up out of nowhere. They break down what’s actually going on under the surface, how to lead with calm confidence, and how to respond in a way that builds connection instead of more distance. They also share personal stories about how they’ve worked through conflict in their own marriages. You’ll learn how to create safety, shift your energy, and set clear boundaries without backing down or giving in. This episode also covers how to turn everyday moments like cooking or cleaning into chances to build intimacy and connection. It’s not about doing more. It’s about showing up with intention, even in the middle of a busy life. You’ll walk away with tools you can use right now to reset the tone in your home and start leading your relationship forward. If your marriage feels off and you’re not sure where to start, go watch the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It shows you exactly what’s broken and how to fix it. No guesswork, just a clear plan that works.

Episode #1031 Feeling stuck trying to figure out your purpose or what's next? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive into the real-life tension that comes when your work no longer feels aligned, but walking away from it all doesn’t feel right either. Doug sits down with Austin and Alan at the TPM Ranch to talk about the difference between obsessive and harmonious passion, why so many men chase identity through career, and what it really looks like to find purpose that fits the life you want. You’ll hear how both men wrestled with their own questions around passion, family, and fulfillment and how small mindset shifts helped them see what they were missing. It’s a reminder that you don’t need to blow everything up to build a life that feels meaningful. Sometimes, it’s about reconnecting to what actually matters to you and getting honest about what’s in the way. They also share stories, practical tools, and real conversations on how to reconnect with what brings you joy. Whether you need a full career shift or just a spark in your current role, this conversation will help you stop spinning your wheels and start getting clear. If your marriage feels off and you don’t know where to start, watch the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You’ll get a clear breakdown of what’s missing and how to fix it. No guesswork. Just a step-by-step process that works.

Episode #1030 In this episode, Doug sits down with two longtime TPM members at the end of an unforgettable event at the TPM Ranch. They unpack something a lot of high-performing men wrestle with what self-love really means, how we unknowingly block it, and why most guys don’t realize they’re missing real male connection until they finally experience it. They talk about the weight of leadership, why so many men feel alone at the top, and how being part of a strong, honest brotherhood changes everything. You’ll hear firsthand how these men broke through years of internal resistance through laughter, hard conversations, and yes, even tears and finally gave themselves permission to slow down, reconnect, and show up better for everyone around them. If you're constantly pouring into everyone else and leaving yourself last, this one's for you. Want to take the next step toward showing up better in your marriage and life? Get free access to a training that’s helped thousands of men get back their power, clarity, and connection without dragging their wife into another hard conversation. Grab the training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1028 Most couples spend months planning the perfect wedding but how much time have you spent planning your actual marriage? In this episode, Doug challenges you to think beyond the big day and start treating your relationship with the same intention and energy you bring to your business. He walks through why your marriage needs a clear vision, shared values, and regular check-ins just like any successful company. Whether you've been married a year or a decade, this episode is a call to stop coasting and start building the kind of partnership you both really want. Doug breaks it down in a way that’s real, practical, and doable so you can lead with clarity and purpose in your relationship, not just your work. If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading in your marriage, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's designed for busy men like you who want more out of their relationship and are ready to do something about it.

Episode #1027 In this episode, we sit down with two TPM men to talk about what it really looks like to start a new relationship after doing the work on yourself. We unpack what changes when you show up with clarity, confidence, and your own life already in alignment. They share honest stories about how their relationships shifted—not because they followed some script or played games, but because they focused on being real, doing their inner work, and raising their own standards. Whether you're newly single, dating again after a divorce, or trying to figure out what a healthy relationship even looks like, this one will help you get grounded. We talk about red flags, energy, attraction, long-distance dynamics, and how being present (with your partner, your kids, and yourself) changes everything. This isn’t about chasing “the one.” It’s about becoming someone who doesn’t need a relationship to feel whole—but is open to one that adds to the life you've already built. Want to go deeper? Get the free training on how to reset your relationship, rebuild trust, and become the man your partner is naturally drawn to again. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales