The Masculine Dilemma: Abdication of Power in Relationships

Episode #1084

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Ever feel like you've lost your edge at home or like you're walking on eggshells, waiting for your wife to tell you you're doing it right? In this episode, Doug and Chris dig into one of the most common (but rarely talked about) patterns they see in men: the quiet, often unconscious habit of giving up power in relationships.

They unpack how this shows up in everyday life from needing permission to make decisions, to becoming another "child" in the household dynamic. Doug shares how even well-meaning guys slip into people-pleasing, indecision, and needing external validation from their partner, all while slowly eroding their leadership.

You'll learn why being decisive (even if you're wrong) beats being passive, how routines can help you rebuild internal trust, and what it really takes to stop outsourcing your self-worth. This episode is a wake-up call for any man who's lost touch with his power and a practical guide to getting it back.

If you're ready to stop giving your power away and want to lead with confidence again, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's a no-fluff, step-by-step approach to getting clarity, respect, and connection back in your marriage.