The Powerful Man Show

Episode #1019 Ever feel like your wife has built a wall between you? Maybe she’s more critical, distant, or just not as open as she used to be. In this episode, we unpack why some women “harden” over time, what signs to look for before it gets that far, and most importantly how you can help shift the dynamic. We’ll break down the common mistakes men make (often without realizing it), how carrying the mental load impacts your relationship, and why simply suggesting solutions isn’t enough you need to lead with action. You’ll hear practical ways to create emotional safety, take pressure off her plate, and rebuild trust so she can soften and open up again. Whether your marriage feels stuck or you just want to keep it strong, this conversation is about real, actionable steps you can start using today. If you want to go deeper and learn exactly how to turn things around in your marriage without endless talks or counseling, get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1018 Most men think their wife isn’t interested in sex anymore. But what if that’s not actually true? In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife Erin for an honest conversation about what women really want in the bedroom and outside of it. Erin shares insights from her own coaching and real conversations with other wives, explaining why emotional safety, shared responsibility, and everyday connection are just as important as physical intimacy. They talk about the things most men miss when it comes to creating lasting attraction, why women shut down, and how small changes in how you show up can reignite the spark in your relationship. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a disconnected or sexless season, this episode gives you a clear path forward. It’s direct, real, and focused on helping you create a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your partner. If things feel off in your relationship and you're not sure where to start, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You’ll get clarity on what’s going wrong and what you can do right now to fix it.

Episode #1017 If you're ready to grow but not sure where to start, this episode will help you figure it out. Doug sits down with TPM advisor Christopher to break down the key things to look for when you're choosing a personal development program. Whether it's for your marriage, your business, or your own mindset, not all coaching is created equal and the wrong choice can set you back more than you think. Doug shares his checklist for spotting programs that actually deliver, including what questions to ask, what red flags to watch for, and how to avoid wasting time on quick fixes or hype. They also talk about why so many men hesitate to invest in themselves and what it really costs when they don’t. This is a no-fluff, straight-talking guide for any man who’s serious about growth and wants to make smart moves with his time, energy, and money. If your relationship isn’t where you want it to be, start by getting clarity. Go to https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and get the free training. It’ll show you exactly what’s off and what to do next.

Episode #1016 We’re bringing this conversation back because it still hits home for so many men. On the outside, Stu had everything. Successful business. Healthy kids. Good marriage. But behind closed doors, he was quietly falling apart. No one could tell, and he didn’t know why. He just wasn’t happy. In this episode, Stu sits down with Tim to revisit what life looked like before joining The Activation Method, the hidden cost of having it all, and the slow unraveling that almost broke everything. He shares what finally helped him pull out of that place and how he rebuilt his connection with himself and his family. It all started with one simple decision. If you're a business owner, high performer, or just a guy who feels like he's quietly losing the spark, this one is worth a listen. It's a reminder that you're not broken. You're just stuck. And there’s a way forward. If your relationship feels off but you can't quite put your finger on it, this free training will help you figure out what's missing and how to fix it. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales 

Episode #1015 A lot of guys feel stuck in their relationships but don’t know where to start. They wait, overthink, or say things like, “I need to check with my wife first.” Sound familiar? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt sit down to talk about what really makes a man attractive to his partner and it's not about being perfect or waiting for permission. They get honest about what women actually want from their men, why leading yourself first is key, and how personal growth (done the right way) can totally shift your marriage. Whether your relationship feels like it's hanging by a thread or you just know there’s more potential waiting, this is a real conversation that gives you clarity and a path forward. You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of what leadership looks like in a relationship, how to break out of a rut, and why taking action, even small steps, can make all the difference. Want to know exactly what's off in your relationship and how to fix it without guessing? Get access to a free training that breaks it all down. Go to https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and start turning things around today.

Episode #1014 In this episode, Doug sits down with Scott to unpack what it really means to emotionally connect with your partner. And no, it’s not about talking more or trying harder. It’s about presence, vulnerability, and learning how to show up fully as a man. They talk openly about midlife struggle, emotional safety in relationships, and how most guys are chasing sex when what they’re actually craving is connection. You’ll hear personal stories from Scott’s transformation, going from emotionally reactive to grounded and intentional, and how that shift brought his wife closer than ever. If you’ve ever felt like something’s “off” in your marriage but couldn’t quite name it, this one’s worth your time. You’ll walk away with real insights on what it means to truly penetrate your woman, not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. If you’re ready to rebuild connection and leadership in your marriage, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. No fluff—just real, actionable tools to help you step up and lead from the front.

Episode #1013 Ever find yourself wondering why you're always the one apologizing in your relationship? You’re not alone. In this episode, Doug and Tim dig into a question that comes up all the time in coaching sessions: why is it so rare for women to apologize—and what does it really mean? They break down the emotional weight behind apologies, how gender differences shape communication, and why “I’m sorry” might not come as easily for your partner as it does for you. More importantly, they walk you through what you can do about it. You’ll get practical ways to create more understanding, reduce resentment, and open up honest conversations in a way that builds connection instead of conflict. If you've ever felt frustrated or confused by this dynamic, this episode gives you insight and next steps you can actually use. Want more clarity in your relationship? Get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales You’ll learn exactly what’s been missing and how to fix it—without guessing, overthinking, or waiting for your partner to go first.

Episode #1012 In this episode, Doug and Coach Neil break down what it really means to “eat your own cooking”—doing the work you expect others to do. It’s not about having all the answers or reading the next book. It’s about actually getting in the arena and being willing to trip, fall, and course correct. If you’re tired of analyzing your life but still feeling stuck, this conversation is for you. Doug and Neil get honest about the fears that hold men back—especially husbands, fathers, and business leaders—and they lay out a no-fluff path to real progress. Whether it’s your marriage, your health, or your mindset, they challenge you to stop waiting and start moving. Vision, accountability, action. That’s the path. You don’t need more motivation. You need to take the first step. Ready to get out of your head and back into action? Get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It’ll show you exactly what’s not working in your relationship and what to do about it—step by step. No fluff. No theory. Just tools that work.

Episode #1011 Doug and Coach Neil get into a real, grounded conversation about what it looks like to lead at home when things are shifting—whether it’s your kid pulling away for the first time or your marriage feeling a little off. They talk through the quiet stuff most men don’t say out loud: feeling alone, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you're really showing up the way you want to. This isn’t about fixing your wife or your kid. It’s about you. Are you actually leading, or are you hoping things sort themselves out? Doug shares a moment that stopped him in his tracks, and Neil opens up about what his son—and his ex—are still teaching him about how to show up as a man with purpose and presence. If you’ve been coasting or caught in blame, this episode’s a chance to reset. You don’t need to be perfect. But you do need to be honest. That’s where change actually starts. If your marriage feels off and you're tired of guessing what to do, grab the free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It’s direct, clear, and gives you a real starting point without needing to bring your wife into it right away. Just you, leading from the front.

Episode #1010 Most guys don’t realize they’re wearing a mask. Maybe it’s the “successful one,” the “nice guy,” or the “always-in-control” version of you. These masks usually start out as protection—but eventually, they just make life heavier, less real, and more exhausting. In this episode, Tim, Grant, Arthur, and Jared get honest about the masks they've worn, how those masks formed, and what it takes to actually let go of them. If you've ever caught yourself saying “Why did I just react like that?” or “Why does this keep happening to me?”—there’s probably a deeper layer at play. This isn't about perfection. It’s about awareness, small steps, and being surrounded by people who will tell you the truth—especially when you’re slipping back into old patterns. 🎙️ You’ll walk away with practical ways to recognize when you're showing up as someone you're not—and what to do about it. 👉 If you're realizing you've been showing up with a mask—and it’s costing you connection, trust, or respect in your relationship—it's time to make a shift. Check out this free training: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It walks you through exactly how to rebuild trust, lead with authenticity, and start showing up as the man you actually want to be—without losing yourself in the process. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.