The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Sep 6, 2025 • 11min

Revisit: Why Marriage Is More Important Than The Wedding Day

Episode #1028 Most couples spend months planning the perfect wedding but how much time have you spent planning your actual marriage? In this episode, Doug challenges you to think beyond the big day and start treating your relationship with the same intention and energy you bring to your business. He walks through why your marriage needs a clear vision, shared values, and regular check-ins just like any successful company. Whether you've been married a year or a decade, this episode is a call to stop coasting and start building the kind of partnership you both really want. Doug breaks it down in a way that’s real, practical, and doable so you can lead with clarity and purpose in your relationship, not just your work. If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading in your marriage, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's designed for busy men like you who want more out of their relationship and are ready to do something about it.
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Sep 4, 2025 • 31min

Finding Your Frequency: Aligning Love and Personal Growth

Episode #1027 In this episode, we sit down with two TPM men to talk about what it really looks like to start a new relationship after doing the work on yourself. We unpack what changes when you show up with clarity, confidence, and your own life already in alignment. They share honest stories about how their relationships shifted—not because they followed some script or played games, but because they focused on being real, doing their inner work, and raising their own standards. Whether you're newly single, dating again after a divorce, or trying to figure out what a healthy relationship even looks like, this one will help you get grounded. We talk about red flags, energy, attraction, long-distance dynamics, and how being present (with your partner, your kids, and yourself) changes everything. This isn’t about chasing “the one.” It’s about becoming someone who doesn’t need a relationship to feel whole—but is open to one that adds to the life you've already built. Want to go deeper? Get the free training on how to reset your relationship, rebuild trust, and become the man your partner is naturally drawn to again. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
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Sep 2, 2025 • 36min

Beyond Beers and Golf: The Real Conversations

Dive into the importance of authentic male friendships that go beyond surface-level conversations. Discover how vulnerability and shared struggles can create transformative connections. The speakers share personal stories of building brotherhood through genuine support and community. Addressing loneliness among men, they discuss the significance of open dialogue and proactive steps to foster meaningful relationships, even in a digital age. It's all about taking small risks to connect and cultivate deeper bonds.
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Aug 30, 2025 • 16min

Revisit: The Importance of Investing In Your Team

Episode #1025  What happens when you don’t give your team the space to grow? They either leave for somewhere that will or they stay and go stagnant—and that’s even worse. In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim break down why investing in your people isn’t just a nice idea, it’s essential if you want long-term success. They share stories from recent team retreats, the lessons learned from bringing people together from around the world, and why real connection goes deeper than cheesy team-building exercises. You’ll hear how culture, clarity, and genuine bonding moments make a huge difference in keeping top players engaged and motivated. If you’ve ever wondered how to build a team that’s aligned, loyal, and excited about the mission, this conversation will give you practical takeaways you can use right now. Want clarity in your own relationship the way you want clarity in your business? Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It shows you exactly what’s broken and gives you a step-by-step way to fix it so you can bring back the respect, love, and connection that’s been missing.
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Aug 28, 2025 • 50min

Navigating Transformation: The Role of Camaraderie in Personal Growth

Episode #1024  Ever feel like you're doing life on your own, even when you're surrounded by people? In this episode, Doug sits down with two TPM legends, Mike and Justin, to talk straight about what real camaraderie looks like, why it matters, and how it changes everything from your business to your relationships. They get into the power of being around like-minded men, how vulnerability actually builds trust (not weakness), and what happens when you stop comparing and start connecting. It's not about fake hype or locker room bravado. This is about having people in your corner who hold you to a higher standard and won’t let you fall behind. You’ll also hear how these guys built lasting brotherhood through shared struggles, open conversations, and calling each other out with love. If you’ve ever felt like something’s missing in your circle or you’re ready to stop lone-wolfing your growth, this episode is for you. Want to stop guessing and actually fix what’s broken in your relationship? Grab your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It breaks down exactly what’s not working and gives you a clear plan to get your wife looking at you the way she used to. No fluff, just results.
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Aug 26, 2025 • 38min

From Version 1.0 to Legends: The Journey of Consistent Growth

Episode #1023 If you’ve ever apologized to your wife and felt like it didn’t land or made things more tense, this episode is for you. We talk about why “sorry” often falls flat, what your wife is really looking for, and how to approach conflict in a way that actually builds trust instead of just trying to smooth things over. We also break down the importance of knowing your deeper why, not just for your marriage but for yourself. Because if you’re not clear on what you’re really fighting for, you’re just spinning your wheels. This one’s about getting honest, showing up with purpose, and learning how to lead with more than just words. If you're tired of trying to fix things with quick apologies and you're ready to actually shift how you show up in your marriage, grab the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It’s a great place to start getting real change.
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Aug 23, 2025 • 17min

Revisit: Dual Perspectives: Feminine and Masculine Feedback Decoded

Episode #1022 In this revisit, Doug and Erin break down a common disconnect between men and women in relationships. What it really means when she's giving you feedback and how to hear it without getting defensive or shutting down. They explore how masculine and feminine energy play into communication and why so many guys misread what their partner is actually trying to say. Erin brings the female lens to the table, explaining the deeper message behind what can sometimes come off as criticism. Doug shares the patterns he sees in men who feel lost or disconnected and why this moment, when you're feeling stuck, is exactly the time to start leading again. If you’ve been feeling like something’s off but you can’t put your finger on it, this one will land. This episode is a real-world look at how small shifts in understanding can open up major changes in your relationship, your energy, and your direction. If you're ready to stop spinning your wheels and start getting real clarity, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It walks you through where things went sideways and shows you how to start getting your power and your marriage back on track.
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Aug 21, 2025 • 18min

Stagnation to Transformation: A Guide for Lost Men

Episode #1021 In this episode, Doug sits down with Erin to talk about what really happens in a relationship when a man feels stuck. Like he’s going through the motions, checked all the boxes, but still feels like something’s missing. Erin shares a raw and honest look from the woman's perspective. What it feels like to be partnered with a man who’s lost his drive, passion, or sense of purpose. They dig into how that affects the marriage, the energy at home, and why it often pushes her into a role she doesn’t want to play. This isn’t about blame. It’s about seeing what’s really going on and choosing to change it. Doug also breaks down how to shift out of that fog and start building real momentum again, in life and in your relationship. If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, “I was meant for more than this,” this one’s worth a listen. If you're ready to stop settling and start leading again, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You'll get a clear breakdown of where things went off track and how to get your power and marriage back on solid ground.
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Aug 19, 2025 • 17min

Beyond Counseling: Discovering the Triad of Connection

Episode #1020 If you’ve been grinding to fix your marriage, doing the therapy, the books, the talking but nothing’s changing… you’re not alone. In this episode, we unpack why traditional counseling often leaves men feeling stuck, and what actually creates real connection at home. Doug and Chris share a real story of a man who spent 20 years trying to fix his marriage the “right” way, only to find out he was missing a system built for men like him. We break down the Triad of Connection, a simple, proven framework that helps you rebuild trust, intimacy, and admiration in your relationship. If you want your wife to feel safe, seen, and desired again (without feeling like you're dragging her through another exhausting “talk”), this episode is a must-listen. Take the next step! Get your free training now. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales You’ll get tools you can use right away to start shifting things at home without waiting for her to change first.
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Aug 16, 2025 • 28min

Revisit: Softening A Strong Woman: Unlocking True Connection

Episode #1019 Ever feel like your wife has built a wall between you? Maybe she’s more critical, distant, or just not as open as she used to be. In this episode, we unpack why some women “harden” over time, what signs to look for before it gets that far, and most importantly how you can help shift the dynamic. We’ll break down the common mistakes men make (often without realizing it), how carrying the mental load impacts your relationship, and why simply suggesting solutions isn’t enough you need to lead with action. You’ll hear practical ways to create emotional safety, take pressure off her plate, and rebuild trust so she can soften and open up again. Whether your marriage feels stuck or you just want to keep it strong, this conversation is about real, actionable steps you can start using today. If you want to go deeper and learn exactly how to turn things around in your marriage without endless talks or counseling, get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

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