

The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast
Northern guy and Southern Girl
The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!
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Nov 6, 2025 • 1h 11min
EDM, Orgies & Shaq? Our Breakaway Festival Adventure
Send us a textEDM, Orgies & Shaq? Our Breakaway Festival Adventure | Episode 217In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you along for their unforgettable weekend in Alabama at the Breakaway Music Festival — where the beats were heavy, the vibes were electric, and the lifestyle fun flowed just as hard as the music.Joined by a group of lifestyle friends, they spent the weekend riding EDM highs, creating spicy content, and even sneaking in a daytime orgy session before heading back for more festival madness. And if that wasn’t wild enough, not only did they catch Shaq’s epic set as DJ Diesel — they also got the chance to dance right next to him during a different DJ’s performance. Talk about up-close energy!From music-filled days to sexy nights (and afternoons 😉), this episode is all about good friends, great beats, and the kind of unforgettable adventures only the lifestyle can deliver. Tune in for the fun, the heat, and the ultimate festival-meets-swinger weekend recap. 🔥🎶💋- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn StarUse Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFFShameless Care: ED MedicationUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -

Nov 4, 2025 • 17min
Tuesday Talks: Organize Your Outfits Like a Lifestyle Pro
Send us a textTuesday Talks: Organize Your Outfits Like a Lifestyle Pro | Episode 81In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — and this one is all about STYLE and organization in the lifestyle.This week, an anonymous listener writes in wanting to know: how does Lacy keep all of her outfits, lingerie, shoes, jewelry, and accessories organized — both at home and while traveling to lifestyle events? With parties, theme nights, photoshoots, and sexy surprises always on the calendar, staying organized is a full-time strategy… and Lacy is spilling her secrets.Dan and Lacy share practical packing tips, outfit-planning tricks, favorite travel tools, and smart systems for keeping everything sexy, sorted, and stress-free — so you can spend less time rummaging through bags and more time enjoying the fun. Whether you’re a glam queen, a costume-lover, or a newbie hoping to level up your presentation at events, this episode is packed with real-life hacks and playful inspo to keep your lifestyle wardrobe running like a well-oiled (and well-dressed) machine.- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyoneUse Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sling it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -

Oct 30, 2025 • 1h 19min
Kink 101: From Spanking to Water Sports with Dr. Stoehr
Send us a textKink 101: From Spanking to Water Sports with Dr. Stoehr | Episode 216In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are joined once again by the always insightful Dr. Stoehr — and this time, things get a little kinky.Together, they explore a wide range of popular kinks, from sensation play and impact play to even the more taboo territory of water sports. Dr. Stoehr helps break down what these kinks are, why they turn people on, and how to explore them safely — both physically and medically.Whether you’re curious about diving deeper into your desires or just love learning more about the many shades of pleasure, this episode is packed with education, open-minded conversation, and just the right amount of spice.Connect with Dr. Stoehrhttps://thestoehrcenter.com/https://www.swingingsafe.com/- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn StarUse Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFFShameless Care: ED MedicationUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -

Oct 28, 2025 • 19min
Tuesday Talks: The Secret Formula to Flirting Like a Lifestyle Pro
Send us a textTuesday Talks: The Secret Formula to Flirting Like a Lifestyle Pro | Episode 80In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question that anyone who’s been out of the game for a while can relate to.This week, a listener calls in to share her story about heading back to her local swinger spot after taking a long break. When a woman approaches her to flirt, she completely panics and shuts down—despite being interested! Now, she wants Dan and Lacy’s advice on how to flirt, show interest, and reengage socially without feeling awkward or overwhelmed.Dan and Lacy break down the art of flirting in the lifestyle—from reading signals and using body language to building confidence and letting your natural charm shine through. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or just finding your groove again, this episode is packed with encouragement, laughter, and practical advice for rediscovering your sexy side.- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyoneUse Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sling it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -

Oct 23, 2025 • 1h 20min
Splash Fort Lauderdale: Pool Games, Party Nights & Playroom Blunders
Send us a textSplash Fort Lauderdale: Pool Games, Party Nights & Playroom Blunders | Episode 215In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their steamy trip to Fort Lauderdale for a Splash Hotel Takeover event.Fresh off a family vacation, our duo heads from the cold north to the sunny beaches of South Florida for one of the country’s premier couples’ parties. Dan takes the mic as MC, keeping the energy high with clothing-optional pool games and wild giveaways—even a little rain can’t slow down the fun.A fancy dinner with friends sets the stage for an unforgettable night when DJ DTF (aka Dan himself) jumps behind the decks for a surprise set that sends the crowd into a frenzy. But the night doesn’t end there—Lacy’s overindulgence leads to one of her most embarrassing (and hilarious) playroom moments ever. You won’t want to miss this wild, sun-soaked weekend recap from Splash Fort Lauderdale!- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn StarUse Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFFShameless Care: ED MedicationUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -

Oct 21, 2025 • 21min
Tuesday Talks: When Your Partner Loses Interest in the Lifestyle
This week, a listener seeks advice on rekindling his wife's interest in swinging before an upcoming trip. The hosts explore how life changes, stress, and hormones can impact desire. They emphasize the importance of open communication without judgment and suggest ways to start those difficult conversations. Additionally, they discuss the pressures of vacation settings and the value of setting gentle expectations. Ultimately, they remind listeners that enjoying the vacation together matters more than the number of encounters.

Oct 16, 2025 • 1h 4min
The Secrets to Getting Your Sex Drive Back: With My Libido Doc
Dr. Diane Mueller, a Naturopathic doctor and board-certified sexologist, shares her journey through sexual health and the world of non-monogamy. She discusses how chronic pain fueled her passion for understanding libido and desire. Delving into emotional dynamics, she reveals key factors affecting sexual fulfillment in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships. Dr. Mueller offers practical advice for reigniting intimacy, addressing low libido, and improving sexual communication, emphasizing that restoring desire is achievable and not an uncommon struggle.

Oct 14, 2025 • 27min
Tuesday Talks: The Truth About OnlyFans in the Lifestyle
Explore the intriguing journey of content creation on OnlyFans, with insights on starting out and the evolution of a successful page. Discover the impact of viral exposure, including privacy challenges and emotional tolls. Hear about the realities of income generation, the hard work needed to sustain success, and the risks of content leaks. The discussion also weighs the longevity of creators in the lifestyle, the misconceptions of quick riches, and the benefits of financial independence. Tune in for a candid look at navigating the adult content landscape!

Oct 9, 2025 • 1h 25min
Can You Be a Christian and a Swinger? A Former Pastor Speaks Out
Send us a textCan You Be a Christian and a Swinger? A Former Pastor Speaks Out | Episode 213In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break all the rules to talk about one of the most taboo topics in the lifestyle—religion.They sit down with a guest they’re calling “Kade,” a former pastor who spent over 17 years leading a church, to explore where non-monogamy and faith collide. Together, they dive deep into questions many are afraid to ask: Can you be a swinger and still be a follower of Jesus? Is non-monogamy truly outside of Christian teachings—or is there more nuance than we’ve been told?Kade’s insights might surprise you, challenge your assumptions, and completely shift the way you view the relationship between faith, sexuality, and freedom. This is an episode you won’t want to miss.- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn StarUse Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFFShameless Care: ED MedicationUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -

Oct 7, 2025 • 23min
Tuesday Talks: How to Find a Partner in the Lifestyle
Send us a textTuesday Talks: How to Find a Partner in the Lifestyle | Episode 77In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks segment, where they answer listener questions straight from the community.This week, Barry from New England calls in with a question that many single males in the lifestyle can relate to. After seven years of enjoying the lifestyle solo, he’s ready to find a partner to share the experience with—but he’s struggling to meet women who are open to the idea. Barry wants to know what steps he can take to connect with someone who shares his passion for the lifestyle.Dan and Lacy share their advice on how to attract the right kind of partner, where to look for meaningful connections, and how to build authentic relationships that can thrive both inside and outside the playroom. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with insight on navigating the lifestyle with purpose and connection.- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy’s Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyoneUse Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sing it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -


