The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast Tuesday Talks: When Your Partner Loses Interest in the Lifestyle
Oct 21, 2025
This week, a listener seeks advice on rekindling his wife's interest in swinging before an upcoming trip. The hosts explore how life changes, stress, and hormones can impact desire. They emphasize the importance of open communication without judgment and suggest ways to start those difficult conversations. Additionally, they discuss the pressures of vacation settings and the value of setting gentle expectations. Ultimately, they remind listeners that enjoying the vacation together matters more than the number of encounters.
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In A Funk But Still Have Fun
- Lacy describes being in a 'valley' of the lifestyle with moments of fun despite an overall funk.
- She notes trips like Hedo and Secrets still produced enjoyable experiences even during low-interest periods.
Desire Changes With Life Seasons
- Desire for the lifestyle naturally ebbs and flows over time due to life events and seasons.
- Lacy links changes to grief, age, hormones, and increased public visibility affecting enjoyment.
When Passion Becomes Performance
- Public visibility and turning a passion into work can reduce spontaneous enjoyment of the lifestyle.
- Lacy says hosting and being 'on' makes it harder to relax into play.