Still Becoming One
Brad & Kate Aldrich
We longed for a marriage where two people truly connect as “one flesh,” but we had no roadmap. After years of missteps, hard seasons, and questions about when real closeness would begin, we discovered that building a thriving marriage takes time, intention, and guidance. Now, more than 26 years later, our marriage is stronger than ever. Brad is a licensed counselor, and Kate is a relationship coach, and together we help couples and individuals explore what it means to build a deep connection, uncovering the stories and patterns that keep them stuck. Join us as we continue the journey of growth, healing, and intimacy. We are still becoming one, and we want to walk this path with you.
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Jun 14, 2023 • 33min
Fighting Fair: Mastering Conflict in Marriage
Explore conflict resolution in marriage as hosts share insights from their 24-year journey. Discover conflict styles influenced by family backgrounds, dynamics of avoider and pursuer styles, staying on topic, setting boundaries, and avoiding 'highlighter moments'. Learn to understand your partner's perspective and foster a stronger, more understanding relationship.
Jun 7, 2023 • 32min
From Marriage Events to Lasting Growth: 5 Steps to Make It Stick
Exploring challenges of implementing lessons from a marriage event, emphasizing patience and self-awareness. Discussing pitfalls of using relationship advice as weapons and promoting self-reflection for personal growth. Encouraging open conversations and engagement with marriage events for continuous development.
May 31, 2023 • 35min
Sexual Harm and Betrayal
Send us a textWhen sexual harm or betrayal enters your marriage, couples often struggle to find a way to move toward healing. It is essential to not ignore these important issues, but these difficult realities of broken sexual intimacy does not mean that your marriage is doomed to fail. Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries
May 24, 2023 • 36min
What's Ok In Sex? With Julie from Intimacy In Marriage
Julie, an expert in sexual intimacy within Christian marriages, discusses setting boundaries for healthy sexual intimacy, emphasizing the freedom these boundaries can bring. They explore the importance of prioritizing pleasure in marriage, navigating life stages, and understanding differing desires within relationships.
May 17, 2023 • 35min
We Haven't Had Sex In A Year!
Delving into the disappearance of sexual intimacy, this podcast discusses the impact of purity culture, myths surrounding libido, and how negative messaging affects teenagers' views on sexuality. It emphasizes the importance of open communication, vulnerability, and seeking therapy to navigate challenges and nurture healthier relationships.
May 10, 2023 • 38min
Pursue Your Desires: with J from Hot Holy Humorous
J Parker, the renowned blogger behind Hot Holy Humorous, shares insights on pursuing desire in marriage. She emphasizes genuine intimacy, communication, and navigating shifts in sexual desire. The episode also explores upcoming events, reviving marriage, finding joy in retro TV shows, and community in line dancing classes.
May 3, 2023 • 30min
The 10 Day Sex Challenge
Send us a textFor years we ran a 10-day challenge on our blog, One Flesh Marriage. There were tremendous positives and, yes, even a few negatives of this crazy challenge. Join us as we walk down memory lane and share how you might join in the fun too! Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries
Apr 26, 2023 • 40min
Heaven Made Marriage
Send us a textEvery couple desires a deeper connection. Join our conversation with Scott & Jenny Means, our dear friends from Heaven Made Marriage. We discuss how you find a path towards oneness in marriage and how to avoid the onramps toward greater separation. Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries
Apr 17, 2023 • 30min
Friends In Your Marriage
Send us a textWe need friends, and yet they can either build to tare down your marriage. How do you strike a good balance? Diving into the challenge and blessing of friendships in the 3rd installment of our relationship seriesStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries
Apr 12, 2023 • 32min
Kids In Your Marriage
Send us a textPart 2 of our relationship series, this time, we talk about what you can do to continue to grow your marriage and your kids! All too often, once kids arrive, your marriage shifts to place their needs first. Some of that is natural, but there are things you can do to maintain the priority of your marriage. Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries
