

The KYLO Show
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Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!
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Feb 10, 2025 • 20min
Keeping the Flame Alive: How to Build a Lasting Marriage
What does it take to keep the flame alive in marriage? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney dive into the key ingredients for maintaining connection, intimacy, and joy in your relationship. They explore the small habits that prevent disconnection from creeping in, the importance of prioritizing your spouse, and how to navigate the inevitable challenges that come with different seasons of marriage. If you want a thriving, passionate, and enduring relationship, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical tools to help you cultivate love that lasts.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why connection—not just romance—is the foundation of a thriving marriage.
The small habits that prevent distance and disconnection from growing.
How prioritizing your spouse impacts the long-term health of your marriage.
The role of communication, forgiveness, and self-awareness in maintaining intimacy.
Why enjoying your spouse is just as important as pursuing them.
Key Takeaways:
Small disconnections grow into major issues: Addressing small moments of disconnection early prevents resentment and distance.
Marriage evolves through seasons: Each phase of life brings new needs and adjustments—healthy couples adapt and grow together.
Enjoyment is key: Thriving marriages are built on intentional connection, playfulness, and mutual appreciation.
Communication is the lifeline: Learning to tell the truth, listen well, and respond with humility keeps your relationship strong.
Join the Conversation:
We’d love to hear your thoughts! What are your favorite ways to stay connected in marriage? Share your insights with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you!
Stay Connected:
Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell
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Jan 21, 2025 • 21min
Boundaries: Protecting What Matters Most
Boundaries are one of the most challenging, yet essential, tools in relationships. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney explore the concept of boundaries and how they protect what is valuable in our lives. From setting boundaries with strangers to navigating difficult situations in close relationships, they share practical wisdom and personal stories that illustrate why boundaries are vital for connection, growth, and thriving. If you’ve ever asked, “What do I do with mean people?”—this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why boundaries are essential for creating a thriving life and relationships.
How to handle situations with difficult or mean people using boundaries.
Real-life examples of setting boundaries with strangers, family, and spouses.
The role of repentance in rebuilding trust and restoring connection.
Practical tips for maintaining boundaries while keeping hope for reconciliation.
Key Takeaways:
Boundaries protect what’s valuable: They safeguard your energy, time, and relationships.
It’s about hope, not punishment: Boundaries should aim to restore and reconnect, not reject or punish.
Repentance is crucial: Without repentance, moving forward in relationships is nearly impossible.
Different relationships, different boundaries: Boundaries look different with strangers, coworkers, spouses, and children.
Join the Conversation:
We’d love to hear your thoughts! Share how this episode resonated with you, and let us know your biggest boundary-related questions. Leave a review or connect with us on social media to keep the conversation going.
Stay Connected:
Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell
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Jan 6, 2025 • 21min
The KYLO Show is Back: A New Chapter Begins!
Episode Overview
The KYLO Show is back! In this highly anticipated relaunch episode, Danny and Brittney Silk share the story behind their recent break, offering a candid look at the reflections, lessons, and renewed energy that have fueled their return. Together, they dive into what’s next for the show, their commitment to strengthening connections, and how this fresh start aligns with their mission to cultivate thriving families and communities.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why Danny and Brittney decided to take a hiatus and what they discovered during that time.
The vision behind this new chapter of The KYLO Show.
How they plan to provide even more impactful tools and insights for building powerful relationships.
A sneak peek at the exciting topics and content coming your way in future episodes.
Key Takeaways:
Breaks can lead to breakthroughs: Hear how stepping back helped Danny and Brittney refocus on what truly matters.
Connection remains at the core: The KYLO Show continues to prioritize fostering strong, healthy relationships.
Get inspired for the journey ahead: Learn how the show’s fresh direction can empower you in your own relationships and leadership.
Episode Highlights:
[00:12] Introduction: "We’re back, and here’s why we stepped away."
[02:30] Behind the scenes: Reevaluating priorities and finding clarity.
[08:45] The mission moving forward: Tools and insights to build thriving communities.
[15:00] A glimpse into upcoming episodes and exciting plans.
Resources Mentioned:
The KYLO Show Tour - Join us on tour!
Keep Your Love On: Connection, Communication, and Boundaries – A foundational resource by Danny Silk.
Loving on Purpose YouTube Channel – Subscribe for video episodes and additional content.
Join the Conversation:
We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode and what you’re most excited about for The KYLO Show. Connect with us on social media or leave a review on your favorite podcast platform to help others discover the show.
Stay Connected:
Website: Loving on Purpose
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose @brittneyserpell
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Aug 27, 2024 • 37min
Navigating Power Struggles and Family Dynamics
In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into practical ways to handle power struggles with children and discuss the fine line between discipline and punishment. We answer a listener's question about managing expectations and responsibilities in the home, offering insights on empowering kids to make better choices without resorting to control. Later, we tackle the challenges of maintaining healthy connections in the face of family conflicts. Learn how to keep your love on, protect your peace, and foster genuine relationships even when navigating tough family dynamics.
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Aug 20, 2024 • 41min
The Power of Testimony: Sharing Your Journey with Your Family
In this episode of The KYLO Show, we address a listener's concern about guiding her 11-year-old grandson who struggles with expressing empathy and connection. We dive into practical advice on how to instill respect and self-control in children, particularly when dealing with challenging behaviors. Later, we explore the delicate process of sharing personal testimonies, such as overcoming addiction or infidelity, with your children before taking those stories public. Tune in for insightful discussions on fostering healthy communication within your family and the transformative power of sharing your story.
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Aug 13, 2024 • 38min
Building a Strong Team Culture: Embracing Change and Maintaining Momentum
How do you keep a team connected and engaged, especially when new members bring different experiences and expectations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into the challenges of maintaining a powerful team culture. Drawing on real-life examples and practical insights, we discuss strategies for ensuring every team member feels valued and connected while upholding the core principles that make your team strong. Whether you're leading a team or simply part of one, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you navigate the complexities of team dynamics and keep the momentum going.
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Aug 6, 2024 • 36min
Cultivating Faith and Self-Esteem in Pre-Teens
In this episode of The Kylo Show, we delve into the unique challenges of nurturing faith and self-esteem in pre-teens. Learn how to navigate the complexities of raising children in a mixed-belief household, foster genuine connections, and provide the emotional support they need. Join us for practical advice on building empathy, asking the right questions, and creating a loving environment that helps your pre-teens thrive. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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Jul 30, 2024 • 40min
The Power of Listening: Uncovering Emotions Behind Words and Learning to Ask Great Questions
Are you truly hearing what's being said in your conversations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney delve into the art of "listening beyond words," teaching you how to tune into the emotions and needs behind the words spoken and ask really great questions to get to the need. Learn how to better understand and connect with others by recognizing the underlying feelings in your interactions. Join us for practical tips on enhancing your communication skills and building deeper, more empathetic relationships. Like, Subscribe, and download this podcast to hear more each week on how whole, healthy families are saving the world!
This episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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Jul 23, 2024 • 39min
Overcoming Defensiveness and Rebuilding Communication in Challenging Relationships
Dive into the art of breaking down defensive walls to enhance communication in tough relationships. Discover practical strategies for fostering empathy and understanding, even during difficult conversations. Learn how to navigate co-parenting after separation while focusing on healing and growth. The discussion also tackles the challenges of toxic relationships, emphasizing the importance of community support and personal well-being. Tune in for insights that can reshape family dynamics and transform connections!

Jul 16, 2024 • 47min
Navigating Church Leadership Challenges and Parenting Determined Kids
Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions on navigating church leadership and parenting determined children.
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