The KYLO Show

The Rescuer or the Good Guy is typically one of two types of people--a recruit or a volunteer. They are often well-meaning and empathetic, but they end up becoming codependent with the Victim and working harder on the Victim’s problem than the Victim is. In both cases, the Rescuer/Good Guy is the one who gets handed the “hot potato” of responsibility by the Victim and Bad Guy. In the next podcast, we’ll look at how Rescuers can shift toward responsibility.--Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the relationships and family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of The KYLO Show Danny & Brittney continue their conversation on the Irresponsibility Cycle and talk about how the Victim and the Rescuer can shift in responsibility toward the Bad Guy and what it looks like to deal with the people in our lives who are scary and hurtful.--Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the relationships and family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week Danny and Brittney are talking about the next person in the Irresponsibility Cycle, the Bad Guy. They answer questions like, "What do you do when someone is blaming and accusing you of something you didn’t do?" and "What do you do when you actually are guilty of an offense against someone else?" Buckle up because you’re about to find out in this week's episode of The KYLO Show.--Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the relationships and family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Triangulation or “the irresponsibility cycle” has three people; a) the Victim, b) the Bad Guy, and c) the Rescuer. The Victim blames the Bad Guy and recruits the Rescuer. The Victim is the one driving the whole cycle because they’re passing responsibility onto someone else. So, what happens when this irresponsibility cycle starts to shape families, organizations, and society? Danny and Brittney answer this question and more on this week’s episode of The KYLO Show.--Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the relationships and family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney are teaching on the topic of abusive relationships. For those that are in an abusive relationship, it is very real and very scary but fortunately, there is a way out. The KYLO Principles are the antidote to abusive relationships and you’ll learn how it all works in this week’s episode.--Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the relationships and family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Of all the KYLO Principles the most misunderstood is Principle #5… Healthy Boundaries. To have healthy boundaries you need to know what they are and what they are not… As well as how to set and keep them. You’ll get the answers to these questions and more in this week’s episode of The KYLO Show.--Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the relationships and family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Do your kids ever act disrespectfully? If so, you may be wondering where they even learned to act that way. Danny and Brittney have the answer in this week’s episode of The KYLO Show. (Hint: It might not come from where you think) You'll also learn about the "Big Red Button", helpful communication techniques, and how to attain high levels of respect and responsibility in your home. --Do you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In all relationships we are pursuing one of two goals. One goal leads to deep covenant relationships and the other creates chaos and power struggles. On this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney explain what both of these goals are and how to choose the one that leads to thriving relationships.--Do you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships.Stop living in chaos and start building the family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When we talk about choosing love over fear in parenting, we’re talking about what is motivating our behavior toward our kids––and the motives we want to foster in them. We are actively trying to get them to manage themselves to make choices and behave in ways that promote and protect healthy connection. A reminder that as we look at parenting, these truths not only apply to listeners who have children, but also help us understand our relationships with our parents, with authority, and with God himself.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all of our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ now!--Referenced Resources:Coffee, Kids, & Crazy PodcastApple Podcasts- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coffee-kids-and-crazy/id1437672748Spotify- https://open.spotify.com/show/5CZGLpDSK5Lhcl7suEPmOG YouTube- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkhlpzDb67iC4eJUPlfmQB7qXF3xy9gFf Loving Our Kids On Purpose (Book) https://lovingonpurpose.com/shop/loving-our-kids-on-purpose/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

For the next five episodes, we’re going to dive into how to apply the 5 KYLO Principles in parenting. If you’re not a parent don’t tune out because this is still going to be helpful for you! These episodes are about parenting, but it is ultimately rooted in our relationship with God and how He parents us. One of the greatest classrooms for your relationship with God is being a parent. Today we’re going to zone in on #1: Be powerful.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ now!--Referenced Resources:Life Academy Kidshttp://www.lifeacademykids.com Family Coaching by Loving On Purposehttps://lovingonpurpose.com/familycoaching/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.