

Now That We're A Family
Elisha and Katie Voetberg
Culture has reduced the modern family to a joke -- informing parents they are only capable of shuttling their children from expert to expert who experiment with untested agendas. Katie and Elisha lean on their experience growing up in large families of 10 and 11 kids, to encourage parents to take back control, stop listening to popular relationship advice, and embrace their God-given role as their children's primary authority.
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Nov 29, 2022 • 51min
186: Running Our Family Like A Business
Families are high above businesses and other outside ministries, but we can learn so much from how we apply ourselves to business and hopefully get convicted and come back to our home and want to put the structure and intentionality into our home and family.
However, we don’t want to cheapen what marriage or family is by comparing it to a business. Obviously the covenant of marriage is something God ordained. There is a spiritual and holy element to it that a business will never be able to recreate. We’re doing this from the perspective that family and marriage are in a league of its own when it comes to importance and significance for what God has said about it.
Each family, as a culture, will tend to value what the parents value. We’re training our kids with what we do with our time. Companies that run for generations often have had a generational view in mind when they started and the kids were able to take and make it even better, which is the prayer for our family.
Podcast Episode Referenced: 137: Why The Christian Family is Broken // Interview With Jeremy Pryor of Family Teams - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2147645080 Looking for more Now That We're A Family resources? We got 'em! Website: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nowthatwereafamily/OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Check out Katie's: https://getitalldoneclub.com

Nov 22, 2022 • 54min
185: Things We've Changed Our Minds On: Birth-Control, Alcohol, Eschatology . . .
When a listener asked us, "What is something you've changed your mind about?," it got us thinking that we've changed our mind on a handful of issues and some were pretty big. Changing your mind is a part of growing, especially if the Lord is leading you a different way. The Lord has changed our hearts on a couple things: alcohol, birth control, Christmas, justification and eschatology. We were challenged through the years to go to Scripture, listen to others opinions and determine what we believe, as well as what we think is best for our family.
Looking for more Now That We're A Family resources? We got 'em!
Podcast Episodes Referenced:
Episode 106: Young Christian Couple's Convictions on Family Planning and Birth Control: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2147567944
Episode 136: Why We Are Celebrating Christmas For The First Time: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2147640442
Website: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nowthatwereafamily/
OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com
Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Check out Katie's: https://getitalldoneclub.com

Nov 15, 2022 • 1h 9min
184: Mother of 9, Angie Tolpin on Raising Countercultural Kids and Courageous Parenting
Check out everything Angie and her husband, Isaac, have going on with Be Courageous Ministry here: https://www.becourageousministry.org/
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Follow Angie On Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/courageous.mom/
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Listen To The Courageous Parenting Podcast Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/courageous-parenting/id1447714806
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Check Out The Courageous Parenting Mentor Program Here: https://courageousparenting.com/

Nov 8, 2022 • 1h 2min
183: Starting A Christian School // Building A Life Your Children Want To Continue // Interview With Father of 9, Joe Stout
Joe Stout and his wife, Elizabeth, have nine children ages 13 years to eight months old. They live on a farm with 500 goats and run a 90-year-old company that makes health supplements from goat milk. Joe received a Master’s of Science in Clinical Human Nutrition from the University of Bridgeport and a Bachelor’s of Science in Human Nutrition and Food Science from Washington State University. Along with running the farm, He has engaged in graduate studies of Sustainable Food Systems at Green Mountain College and is certified in Permaculture Design.
Joe's Personal Website: https://joestout.org/
Mt Capra Website: https://mtcapra.com/
Listen To Joe's Music Here: https://joestout.bandcamp.com/
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Nov 1, 2022 • 49min
182: Homesteading and Homeschooling with a Working Mother of 7 // Interview With Lisa From Farmhouse On Boone
Lisa lives in a 1860s farmhouse with her husband and seven children. Welcome to Farmhouse on Boone! A place where Lisa passionately shares her scratch recipes, handmade projects, farmhouse restoration and her family’s simple life.
Visit Lisa's Website Here: https://www.farmhouseonboone.com/
Listen To Lisa's Podcast Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/simple-farmhouse-life/id1494284839
Check Out Here Awesome YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/FarmhouseonBoone
Follow Her On Instagram Here: https://www.instagram.com/farmhouseonboone/

Oct 25, 2022 • 51min
181: Asking Katie My Favorite Questions
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Here is the link to Katie's health website: https://www.nowthatimamotherhealth.com/
Here is a link to the IG Stories about Picky Toddlers: https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/18129910954139293/
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Oct 18, 2022 • 44min
180: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?
Against all odds we've made it through 4 years of doing the podcast without talking about Halloween. But we cracked. We caved. We succumbed. Succame? . . .The pressure got to us and we could not resist taking advantage of this seasonal opportunity to share our personal opinions and convictions on a polarizing holiday. Neither Katie or I grew up celebrating Halloween so we never needed to have a sit down conversation to go over the pros and cons and come to our own decision about Halloween. It was just never going to be a part of our home. But as our children have grown and become more curious about this autumn holiday, Katie and I have needed to crystallize then articulate our thoughts on the topic. We recon that if we can tell Leon, Lucy, Louis, and Lawrence our perspective on Halloween then we should be able to tell you guys on the podcast.
If you want to watch Katie's FREE WEBINAR then you can do that very thing here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/peacefully-productive-home-masterclass
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Oct 11, 2022 • 50min
179: Setting Boundaries With In-laws And Family
A book titled "How To Leave And Cleave" would certainly get my attention and the author, my money. Or the publisher would get the money . . .who pays the agent? Idk. All I know is that starting a life and a home together as a married couple seems to go a little deeper than bank accounts and tax benefits. No, we are not going to break down the mystery of how "two becoming one" works. But we are going to share our experience in both leaving families that have strong, distinct, and in some ways polarizing cultures and creating our own home and culture. We have the great fortune of coming from godly families with countless admirable traits. There is SO MUCH we want to emulate from our experiences growing up in big families. But more often than not, newly weds and young parents would prefer if their new family looked nothing like what they experienced growing up. In either situation, the call to "leave and cleave" and form our own home remains. And I am still waiting to be convinced otherwise that a unified home with a clear mission is more powerful than any organization or individual or the death star.
The Bible Passage Katie was trying to remember: 1st Kings 12:8 "But he forsook the counsel of the old men, which they had given him, and consulted with the young men that were grown up with him, and which stood before him"
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Oct 4, 2022 • 54min
178: Q&A // Talking Sex and Gender With Our Kids, Tyrannical Husbands, How to Start Taking A Sabbath
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Looking for more Now That We're A Family resources? We got 'em! Website: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nowthatwereafamily/
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OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com
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Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Check out Katie's: https://getitalldoneclub.com

Sep 27, 2022 • 57min
177: Why Moralism Won't Save You
Scripture References
Our Inability To Save ourselves: 1 Cor. 2:14, Rom. 5:12, 2 Cor. 1:9, Eph. 2:1-3, Eph. 2:12, Jer. 13:23, Ps. 51:5, John 3:3, Rom. 3:10-12
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We are saved by grace through faith in Christ alone: Is. 53:4-5, Is. 53:11-12, 2 Cor. 5:21, 1 Peter 2:24, 1 Peter 3:18, Rom. 3:20-28, Rom. 5:18-19, Phil. 3:8-9, Rom. 6:14, Rom. 11:6, Eph. 2:8-9, 1 Cor. 15
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On The Gospel: American Gospel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?


