

Now That We're A Family
Elisha and Katie Voetberg
Culture has reduced the modern family to a joke -- informing parents they are only capable of shuttling their children from expert to expert who experiment with untested agendas. Katie and Elisha lean on their experience growing up in large families of 10 and 11 kids, to encourage parents to take back control, stop listening to popular relationship advice, and embrace their God-given role as their children's primary authority.
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Oct 9, 2025 • 50min
434: Starting A Church Small Group
Voetberg Music Academy 2025 Fall Competition Tue, Oct. 21, 2025 12:00 PM - Wed, Oct. 22, 2025 3:30 PMJoin us this fall for a music competition that includes: Guitar | Fiddle | Piano | Mandolin | Ukulele Entry to the fall competition is free for VMA students. If you are not enrolled Voetberg Music Academy then we would love to have you! You can either sign up for one of our signature courses or pay a one-time $20 entry fee.Learn more information here - https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/2025-fall-competition-Send us your questions for future podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission

Oct 7, 2025 • 47min
433: Best Parenting Books 2025
Send us your questions for future podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission-Books mentioned during podcast: - “What He Must Be: ...If He Wants to Marry My Daughter” by Voddie Baucham Jr. - https://amzn.to/42jXkTZ - “Family Driven Faith” by Voddie Baucham Jr. - https://amzn.to/4nvpt2J - “How to Lead Your Family” by Joel Beeke - https://amzn.to/4o0jgf0 - “Teach Them to Work” by Mary Beeke - https://amzn.to/4nsimZ0 - “The Sanctity of Home” by Islay Burns - https://amzn.to/46S8tgk - “Future Men” by Douglas Wilson - https://amzn.to/46PKj61 - “Reforming Marriage” by Douglas Wilson - https://amzn.to/48N2Jqx - “Federal Husband” by Douglas Wilson - https://amzn.to/4gZOgKa - “8 Errors Parents Make and How to Avoid Them” by Michael Brock - https://amzn.to/4pTshIB- “Understanding Marriage and Family” by O Praem Sebastian Walshe Fr - https://amzn.to/4mTKZNH Past Podcasts: - Rated R Movies, Sending Teens To College, and Family Loyalty // Douglas Wilson | Ep. 288 - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2148616918 - 8 Errors Parents Make (And How To Avoid Them) | Ep. 308 - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2148754096 - How To Lead Your Family With Dr. Joel Beeke | Ep. 407 - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2149055486

Oct 2, 2025 • 47min
432: Family Vision: Beyond Daily Routines
Voetberg Music Academy 2025 Fall Competition Tue, Oct. 21, 2025 12:00 PM - Wed, Oct. 22, 2025 3:30 PMJoin us this fall for a music competition that includes: Guitar | Fiddle | Piano | Mandolin | Ukulele Entry to the fall competition is free for VMA students. If you are not enrolled Voetberg Music Academy then we would love to have you! You can either sign up for one of our signature courses or pay a one-time $20 entry fee.Learn more information here - https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/2025-fall-competition-Mentioned during podcast: - Surprised by Joy: The Shape of My Early Life by C.S. Lewis - https://amzn.to/3IDcUU4

Sep 30, 2025 • 42min
431: The Proverbs 31 Man
Voetberg Music Academy 2025 Fall Competition Tue, Oct. 21, 2025 12:00 PM - Wed, Oct. 22, 2025 3:30 PMJoin us this fall for a music competition that includes: Guitar | Fiddle | Piano | Mandolin | Ukulele Entry to the fall competition is free for VMA students. If you are not enrolled Voetberg Music Academy then we would love to have you! You can either sign up for one of our signature courses or pay a one-time $20 entry fee.Learn more information here - https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/2025-fall-competition

Sep 25, 2025 • 37min
430: How To Start A Book Club
Join us on Substack - https://substack.com/@elishaandkatievoetbergThis is a newsletter and deeply personal space for us to share family life, homeschooling, and music with you all. We have been writing on Instagram and email for years, but ever since leaving social media behind with our smart phones a few years ago, we have been looking for another space to connect in a meaningful way. -Get it All Done Club: Stop drowning in motherhood and start thriving! https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/get-it-all-done-clubIs your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Learn how to create a peacefully productive home in one week. Check out Katie's Free Home Management Masterclass: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/peacefully-productive-home-masterclass-Katie's book club books: - “My Dear Hemlock - A Christian Living Book for Women, Guard Against Vices, Grow in Virtue, Christian Book for Women” by Tilly Dillehay - https://amzn.to/46jPoV8 - “In Order to Live: A North Korean Girl's Journey to Freedom” by Yeonmi Park - https://amzn.to/3IEveMm - “Silas Marner” by George Eliot - https://amzn.to/4gFC5BL - “Surprised by Joy: The Shape of My Early Life” by C.S. Lewis - https://amzn.to/429nRmU

Sep 23, 2025 • 47min
429: Torn Between My Friends and My Spouse
Voetberg Music Academy 2025 Fall Competition Tue, Oct. 21, 2025 12:00 PM - Wed, Oct. 22, 2025 3:30 PMJoin us this fall for a music competition that includes: Guitar | Fiddle | Piano | Mandolin | Ukulele Entry to the fall competition is free for VMA students. If you are not enrolled Voetberg Music Academy then we would love to have you! You can either sign up for one of our signature courses or pay a one-time $20 entry fee.Learn more information here - https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/2025-fall-competition

Sep 18, 2025 • 52min
428: Orthodox Marriage: Civilization's Last Hope with Fr. Josiah Trenham
Voetberg Music Academy 2025 Fall Competition Tue, Oct. 21, 2025 12:00 PM - Wed, Oct. 22, 2025 3:30 PMJoin us this fall for a music competition that includes: Guitar | Fiddle | Piano | Mandolin | Ukulele Entry to the fall competition is free for VMA students. If you are not enrolled Voetberg Music Academy then we would love to have you! You can either sign up for one of our signature courses or pay a one-time $20 entry fee.Learn more information here - https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/2025-fall-competition-Father Josiah Trenham is a native Southern Californian. He was ordained to the Holy Priesthood in 1993, and was awarded the Ph.D. in Theology from the University of Durham, England, in 2004. He has served as pastor of St. Andrew Orthodox Church in Riverside, Ca. since 1998. Father Josiah was married in 1988, and has ten children and five grandchildren. Website - https://patristicnectar.org/ Marriage Conference - https://www.themarriageconference.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/patristicnectar/App - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/patristic-nectar/id6502949324

Sep 16, 2025 • 38min
427: Should We Elevate People Like Charlie Kirk?
The speakers reflect on Charlie Kirk's impact and the importance of inspiring role models for children. They discuss the emotional challenges of loss and prioritize family and community when facing difficulties. Clarity of purpose is highlighted as vital for personal effectiveness, alongside a conscious approach to life choices. The conversation emphasizes the need for thoughtful admiration of role models, balancing their admirable qualities with their human flaws, all while urging the next generation to engage with faith and purpose.

Sep 11, 2025 • 41min
426: Indoor Activities For Kids, Navigating Relationships With Parents, & Farm Animals
Voetberg Music Academy 2025 Fall Competition Tue, Oct. 21, 2025 12:00 PM - Wed, Oct. 22, 2025 3:30 PMJoin us this fall for a music competition that includes: Guitar | Fiddle | Piano | Mandolin | Ukulele Entry to the fall competition is free for VMA students. If you are not enrolled Voetberg Music Academy then we would love to have you! You can either sign up for one of our signature courses or pay a one-time $20 entry fee.Learn more information here - https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/2025-fall-competition-Send us your questions for future podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission

Sep 9, 2025 • 52min
425: *NEW* Fall Family Routines
Get it All Done Club: Stop drowning in motherhood and start thriving! https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/get-it-all-done-clubIs your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Learn how to create a peacefully productive home in one week. Check out Katie's Free Home Management Masterclass: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/peacefully-productive-home-masterclass-Mentioned during podcast: - “Atomic Habits” by James Clear - https://amzn.to/3V5gxET - “When Your Child is 6 to 12” by John Drescher - https://amzn.to/4m3NrRl