
Lust is Boring
Lust is Boring is hosted by Jason Evert, a bestselling author of more than fifteen books, including The Dating Blueprint and How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul. Listen as Jason interviews special guests and delivers straight answers to tough questions submitted by the listeners on dating, singleness, marriage, and sexuality.
Latest episodes

Mar 10, 2023 • 29min
86. Living Joy
In the midst of struggles within marriages, families, singleness, and dating relationships, how can you find joy? Today, Jason interviews Chris Stefanick, and the two discuss: · Is joy a decision or the result of an outcome? · What’s one thing that can destroy even healthy relationships? · Why is joy so essential in battling temptation? · And more Come with us to World Youth Day! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Get Living Joy: Text “JOY to 44144 or visit https://reallifecatholic.com/shop/ Have a great Lent: LentforMen.com/Jason Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Feb 26, 2023 • 45min
85. Why is dating so difficult?
Is it just you, or has dating become overly complicated? On today’s episode of Lust is Boring, Jason interviews Dr. Mario Sacasa. Together, the two discuss: • Should you break up or hope for the best? • What impact does trauma, anxiety, and mental health have on relationships? • How can you know if a relationship is healthy? • What’s the healthy way to view dating? Dr. Mario Sacasa: faithandmarriage.org Their Socials Facebook, Instagram, or LinkedIn. Podcast: Always Hope Podcast Dating Well Course Want to learn more about dating? Check out Dating Well: Dating Well Course Get the most out of Lent: LentforMen.com/Jason Try Canopy for free for 30 days! canopy.us/jason Use promo code 15OFF

Jan 27, 2023 • 1h 14min
84. Margaret Sanger meets John Paul II
What would a conversation have sounded like between Saint John Paul II and the founder of Planned Parenthood, Margaret Sanger? In today’s podcast, Jason invites Dr. Sarah Denny, professor of ethics at Loyola University, to share insights from her doctoral dissertation on this subject. Together, they discuss: · The real reason why Margaret Sanger wanted to create the pill · Why Saint John Paul II thought marital “tenderness” was essential for men to learn · Why “Comprehensive” Sex Ed and Abstinence “Only” both aren’t enough · Why unmarried women should learn NFP before they’re engaged · And more Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Try Canopy for FREE: https://canopy.us/jason

Jan 12, 2023 • 25min
83. Pro Life is Pro Love w/ Sister Maris Stella
Being Pro-Life is more than being anti-abortion. In this episode of Lust is Boring, Jason talks with Sister Maris Stella, who shares her journey from serving in the United States Navy to religious life with the Sisters of Life. Sisters of Life: https://sistersoflife.org Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Try Canopy for FREE: https://canopy.us/jason

Dec 22, 2022 • 58min
82. What?! Women Get Tempted?
In this week’s episode of Lust is Boring, Jason interviews Breanne Demarco about the reality of porn addiction for women, and what to do when victory seems out of reach. Together they discuss: • How to break the cycle of shame and addiction • How to overcome despair when freedom seems impossible • Why uncovering unhealed wounds isn’t enough • What parents can do to keep their kids safe online Breanne’s email: victorybreanne@gmail.com Try Canopy for free: http://canopy.us/15off Get Jason’s new book on Gender: https://chastity.com/products/male-female-other/ Support us on Patreon for a FREE book: https://patreon.com/jasonevert

Dec 8, 2022 • 53min
81. Cold Showers & Chastity?
Cold showers? Fasting? Penance? Is asceticism helpful or even healthy when it comes to living out chastity? In today’s episode, Jason interviews James Baxter, the founder of Exodus 90. Together, they discuss: • What should a Christian’s daily plan of life look like? • What’s the point of fasting? • Can asceticism improve my capacity to love? • And more… Sign up for Exodus 90! Exodus90.com/jason Get Jason’s new book on Gender: https://chastity.com/products/male-fe... Support us on Patreon for a FREE book: https://patreon.com/jasonevert “Let those, then, who are singularly active, who think they can win the world with their preaching and exterior works, observe here that they would profit the Church and please God much more, not to mention the good example they would give, were they to spend at least half of this time with God in prayer… They would then certainly accomplish more, and with less labor, by one work than they otherwise would by a thousand. For through their prayer they would merit this result, and themselves be spiritually strengthened. Without prayer they would do a great deal of hammering but accomplish little, and sometimes nothing, and even at times cause harm.” –St. John of the Cross

Nov 10, 2022 • 38min
80. From Hinduism to Hedonism to Holiness
On today’s episode of Lust is Boring, Jason Evert is joined by tech entrepreneur Kailash Duraiswami. Listen, as Kailash shares his riveting story of conversion from a life of atheism and partying in Las Vegas with Silicon Valley billionaires to practicing chastity and preparing for his Catholic wedding next month! In this episode, you'll hear his story and also: · How the 2016 US presidential election caused him to question everything. · How success, pleasure and money left him unhappy and empty. · The reason behind the failure of his romantic relationships and businesses. · How his trust in God led him to his beautiful soon-to-be bride and authentic happiness. · And more! Learn more about Fidei: https://fidei.email/ Last chance to come with us to Mexico! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Please support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Oct 28, 2022 • 50min
79. Q & A with Fr. Agustino & Jason
Listen, as Jason and Fr. Agustino Torres, C.F.R. reply to questions submitted by you! In today’s show, you’ll find out: · What to do if a guy ghosts you because of your standards · How to know your vocation · What to do when you’re stuck in the “friend zone” · What to do if your sibling identifies as trans · How to deal with bad images stuck in your mind · And more! Come with us to Mexico! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Please support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Sep 30, 2022 • 34min
78. Porn Free
Countless men and women already know that porn is a bad habit, but still feel trapped by its allure. In today’s episode, Jason interviews Steve Pokorny from Freedom Coaching and the two discuss how men and women can break free from porn. Get one FREE coaching session: use promo code chastityfreedom https://freedom-coaching.net/application Come with us to Mexico! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Please support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Sep 1, 2022 • 44min
77. Can a Child be Trans?
“Trans” has become far more than a description of a person’s internal sense of gender. It has developed into a diagnosis and an identity. In today’s episode, Jason interviews pediatrician Dr. Michelle Cretella and the two discuss: • Do Intersex conditions prove there are more than two sexes? • Are puberty blockers just a “pause button”? • Is it true that a teen is more likely to commit suicide without gender “affirmative” care? • How can parents protect their kids from developing transgender beliefs? And more... Try Covenant Eyes FREE: http://www.covenanteyes.com/?promocode=chastity Come with us to Mexico! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Please support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Educational Resources for Parents by Family Policy Alliance: Gender Resource Guide: https://genderresourceguide.com Back to School for Parents: https://familypolicyalliance.com/back-to-school-for-parents/ Resources for your children, family, school and/or church: Advocates Protecting Children: https://www.advocatesprotectingchildren.org American College of Pediatricians Transgender page: https://acpeds.org/topics/sexuality-issues-of-youth/gender-confusion-and-transgender-identity American College of Pediatricians Find Help: https://acpeds.org/find-a-therapist American College of Pediatricians Brochure: https://acpeds.org/assets/Transgender-Pamphlet.pdf