
Lust is Boring
Lust is Boring is hosted by Jason Evert, a bestselling author of more than fifteen books, including The Dating Blueprint and How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul. Listen as Jason interviews special guests and delivers straight answers to tough questions submitted by the listeners on dating, singleness, marriage, and sexuality.
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Nov 16, 2023 • 59min
96. Master Temptations Like a MONK! w/ Bishop Erik Varden
Bishop Erik Varden discusses the true meaning of chastity, debunking misconceptions and emphasizing the importance of honesty and humility in navigating desires. The podcast explores embracing temptations with grace, transforming them into acts of love, and achieving clarity of vision in human interactions. It also touches on identity, vulnerability in sexuality, and offers a prayer for clarity.

Nov 10, 2023 • 52min
95. Texting Your Ex & Other Dating Difficulties, w/ Fr. Agustino Torres
Join us in this exciting episode as Jason sits down with Father Agustino Torres. They'll be discussing their highly anticipated pilgrimage to the heart of Italy, and diving into a profound discussion on the intricacies of dating, the journey towards marriage, navigating the complexities of heartbreak, and much more. Together they'll talk about: What should someone do when a toxic ex finally leaves, but you're heartbroken? - I want to talk to my "ex" (because I miss our friendship). Is it a bad idea? - How far is too far? Come with us to Italy! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Check out Franciscan Friars' website here: https://www.franciscanfriars.com/ Follow Franciscan Friars on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cfr_franciscans/ Follow Fr. Agustino Torres on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oralecp/ Follow Jason On: https://www.instagram.com/jasonevert/ https://twitter.com/jasonevert https://www.facebook.com/JasonandCrystalinaEvert Check Out the Chastity Project's Website For Resources: https://chastity.com/

Sep 25, 2023 • 1h 7min
94. Can Men and Women Be Friends? w/Sarah and Dr. Andrew Swafford.
In today's episode, Jason interviews Sarah and Dr. Andrew Swafford on their latest book, Gift & Grit, about developing meaningful and joy-filled relationships through a life of virtue. Together, they'll discuss: Can men and women be friends? Common pitfalls of M/F relationships, prevent? How are the wounds of men and women similar/different? Settling vs. being too picky – where’s the balance? Grit needed in relationships? How about marriage? Is chastity the friend or foe of love? Come with us to Italy! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Get a Copy of The Gift & Grit Book: https://emotionalvirtue.bigcartel.com/products Follow Sarah Swafford on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahswaffordofficial/?hl=en Follow Jason On: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasonevert/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/jasonevert Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JasonandCrystalinaEvert Check Out the Chastity Project's Website For Resources: https://chastity.com/

Aug 31, 2023 • 30min
93. Red-Pill Dating is Toxic
In today’s episode, Jason interviews writer and radio show host Jessica Kramer about the state of modern dating. Together, the two discuss: · A woman’s take on Andrew Tate · The Whatever Podcast · The phenomenon of the “Pick Me Girl” · Why most Americans aren’t getting married · And more… Sign up for St. Michael’s Lent at https://exodus90.com/Jason/ Come with us to Italy! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support us on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Follow Jessica on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jessicakramer8402 Follow Jessica on Instagram: @the_based_catholic Follow Jessica on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JessKramer1776 The Based Catholic Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-based-catholic/id1697172636 Red-Pill Dating Content is Toxic https://americanmind.org/salvo/red-pill-dating-content-is-toxic/

Aug 15, 2023 • 1h 13min
92. St. John Paul II, Fatima, and the Future of the Church
In today’s episode, listen to Jason Evert and Chris Stefanick’s presentation at World Youth Day, in Lisbon, Portugal! Together, the two discuss the life of Saint John Paul II and why the call of Our Lady of Fatima is more relevant now than ever! Sign up for St. Michael’s Lent at https://exodus90.com/Jason/ Come with us to Italy! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support us on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Jun 20, 2023 • 51min
91. What Your Sexual Desires Reveal About You
What if most counselors treat porn recovery and sex addiction all wrong? What if one’s very desires are the roadmap to sexual healing and wholeness? In today’s show, Jason interviews Christian author and therapist Jay Stringer, and the two discuss: Why most attempts to manage lust fall short Why we’re more likely to be ashamed of our unwanted sexual behaviors when we don’t understand them What’s often at the root of sexual addiction What our current desires tell us about our past Why porn is sometimes consumed to eroticize trauma and not simply anesthetize our memories of it Learn more about Jay’s work: https://jay-stringer.com Come with us to Italy: https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Jun 6, 2023 • 1h 11min
90. Gender Q&A LIVE
Got questions about gender? Today's episode is just for you. Listen, as Jason Evert addresses 20 questions from viewers on YouTube LIVE. He discusses: Is gender transitioning just a fad? How can I respond to someone who identifies as "genderqueer pansexual?" What about studies that show transitioning sometimes helps? What's wrong with saying someone is a "biological" male? What if my professor wants me to use preferred pronouns? And more! If you or someone you know experiences gender dysphoria, make sure not to miss today's episode!

May 6, 2023 • 41min
89. Courtship of the Saints
The lives of the saints seem to offer countless examples of those who pursued holiness in religious and married life, but what about the singles? What was the courtship of the saints like? In today’s episode, Jason interviews author Patrick O’Hearn about his new book on this topic. Together, they discuss: · How the married saints met and fell in love · The #1 quality you should look for in a spouse · The four stages of a relationship, and what to do during each · Saints who had rocky marriages · And more… Courtship of the Saints: contemplativeheartpress.com Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert

Mar 30, 2023 • 34min
88. The Pill: Lazy Gynecology?
The Birth Control Pill is routinely prescribed to treat everything from acne to irregular cycles. But is it necessary? Is it overprescribed? In this episode of Lust is Boring, Jason interviews Dr. Danielle Koestner, and the two discuss: Why is ovulation a vital sign of health? If the pill isn’t the answer, then what is? How do you change a doctor’s mind who thinks the pill is always the answer? And more… FEMM telehealth platform: https://femmhealth.org Dr. Koestner at the UN: https://media.un.org/en/asset/k1c/k1cdb2321y?utm_source=sendinblue&utm_campaign=2023-03-10%20%20CSW67%20Side%20Event%20-%20Invitation&utm_medium=email Come with us to World Youth Day! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Try Lent for Men! https://lentformen.com/jason Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Try Canopy for FREE: https://canopy.us/jason

Mar 17, 2023 • 41min
87. College Fertility Awareness Clubs!? What’s going on?
What’s the point of teaching fertility awareness to women when they’re single? In today’s episode of Lust is Boring, Jason interviews Jackie Aguilar and Erin Dewey about why fertility awareness clubs are taking off on college campuses! Why aren’t college women aware of their own fertility? What does ovulation have to do with lipstick? What happens when women learn about their bodies? How can you start a Cycle Mindfulness Club on your campus? Start a club on your campus: https://naturalwomanhood.org/cycle-mindfulness-club-leadership-team/ Come with us to World Youth Day! https://chastity.com/pilgrimage/ Try Lent for Men! LentforMen.com/jason Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jasonevert Try Canopy for FREE: https://canopy.us/jason