

Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-Help Podcast to Make Life Suck Less
Misty Stinnett & Lisa Linke
Self-help feels like a bit of a dumpster fire, doesn't it? Whether you've binged every self-help book out there or are just getting started in your journey – Go Help Yourself is your source for calling bullsh*t on toxic positivity, turning your existential dread into actual growth, and getting it together without losing your soul (or sense of humor) in the process. Misty loves self-help and is earnestly trying to improve her life, while Lisa hates anyone telling her what to do. Together, we bring a much-needed critical eye (and healthy dose of humor) to the wildly-unregulated world of self-help, sharing what we learn along the way. Because we believe that, even though life is hard, personal development doesn’t have to be. Welcome to your podcast to make life suck less!
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May 31, 2019 • 1h 11min
My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey by Jill Bolte Taylor, Ph.D.
This week, Misty and Lisa review the New York Times bestseller My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey by Jill Bolte Taylor, Ph.D. Bolte Taylor is a Harvard-trained neuroanatomist (brain scientist) who had a rare form of stroke on the left side of her brain in 1996. Within the span of four hours, she could not speak, read, walk, write, or remember anything from her past. She was able to understand what was happening to her while it was happening – and decided to undergo eight years of rehabilitation to bring the world her new and deepened understanding of the human brain and how the two hemispheres work together to create our reality. She gave the first TED talk that went viral, has been named to Time Magazine’s 100 Most Influential People in 2008, and her book is a NYT bestseller. In this My Stroke of Insight book review, Misty and Lisa gloss through a few, but mainly cover these chapters: 1. Jill’s Pre-Stroke Life 2. Simple Science 3. Hemispheric Asymmetries 7. Bare to the Bone 8. Neurological Intensive Care 14. Milestones for Recovery 15. My Stroke of Insight 16. My Right and Left Minds 17. Own Your Power 18. Cells and Multidimensional Circuitry 19. Finding Your Deep Inner Peace If you'd like to read the book, you can purchase it here. You can visit Dr. Bolte Taylor’s website here. You can watch her TED talk (the first TED talk to ever go viral) here! We also recommend her interview with Terry Gross on Fresh Air. And here's the incredible story of actress Emilia Clarke's two life-threatening aneurysms, originally published in The New Yorker. And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 28, 2019 • 9min
GHY Minisode 021
Lisa walks us through the difference between the Mental Load and Emotional Labor as explained in this New York Times article.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 24, 2019 • 38min
The Mental Load: Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up by Gemma Hartley
Misty and Lisa cover the viral Harper's Bazaar article Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up: Emotional Labor Is the Unpaid Job Men Still Don't Understand by Gemma Hartley. The article was published in Harpers Bazaar on September 27, 2017. You can read the full mental load article here. If you'd like to see the graphics from the bureau of labor statistics representing the average amount of time per day men and women spend on household activities, you can do so here. For other articles on the mental load, check out this brilliant comic from The Guardian and this article from a heteronormative man's perspective. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 21, 2019 • 11min
GHY Minisode 020
On this edition of the Weekly Beef, Lisa asks Misty a thought-provoking question: What is the role of social media in self-help? Accounts we mention that we love to follow are: @Teachandtransform @MattMcGorry @TheFatSexTherapist @Fatherly And don't forget to follow @gohelpyourselfpodcast!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 17, 2019 • 43min
How To Be Parisian Wherever You Are: Love, Style, and Bad Habits by Anne Berest, Audrey Diwan, Caroline de Maigret, and Sophie Mas
This week Misty and Lisa review How To Be Parisian Wherever You Are: Love, Style, and Bad Habits by Anne Berest, Audrey Diwan, Caroline de Maigret, and Sophie Mas. ANNE BEREST is the author of two novels and a biography of Françoise Sagan published this year; she also writes for television, cinema, and theater. AUDREY DIWAN became a scriptwriter after studying journalism and political science. She wrote the screenplay for Cédric Jimenez's La French with Jean Dujardin and is now directing her first feature film; she is also editor-at-large for the magazine, Stylist. CAROLINE DE MAIGRET studied literature at the Sorbonne before moving to New York to model. She returned to Paris in 2006 to found her music label. De Maigret has been an ambassador for Chanel since 2012 and supports women worldwide through the NGO CARE. SOPHIE MAS was born and raised in Paris. After graduating from Sciences Po and HEC, she started her own film company and now works as a producer in Los Angeles, New York, and São Paulo. Lisa and Misty dabble around the five main chapters in this How To Be Parisian book review: Get the Basics Own Your Bad Habits Cultivate Your Allure Dare to Love Parisian Tips Each chapter has mini-chapters, and in this episode, some of what you’ll hear includes: Virtues of the Signature Item, How to Make Him Think You Have a Lover, Hosting a Dinner Party, How to Destabilize A Man, The Essentials (wardrobe), The Ideal Man, and more! If you like what you're hearing, you can purchase the book here. You can visit the book’s website here! And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 14, 2019 • 21min
GHY Minisode 019
On this edition of the Weekly Beef, Misty & Lisa check in on their homework from The Four Agreements and Misty asks Lisa a thought-provoking question: How do you forgive yourself when you make a big mistake?Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 10, 2019 • 50min
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz
This week Misty and Lisa review the New York Times Bestseller The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz. First published in 1997, The Four Agreements has since sold over six million copies in the United States and seven million worldwide. It has been translated into 40 languages, appeared on the New York Times bestseller for nearly ten years, and was the 36th bestselling book of the decade. Don Miguel is also the author of The Mastery of Love, The Voice of Knowledge, Prayers, and the New York Times bestseller, The Fifth Agreement, a collaboration with his son, don José Ruiz. Each of his books are international bestsellers. Lisa and Misty talk about the Introduction and seven chapters in this Four Agreements book review: Domestication and the Dream of the Planet The First Agreement: Be Impeccable with Your Word The Second Agreement: Don’t Take Anything Personally The Third Agreement: Don’t Make Assumptions The Fourth Agreement: Always Do Your Best The Toltec Path To Freedom – Breaking Old Agreements The New Dream – Heaven on Earth If you like what you're hearing, you can purchase the book here. You can visit the author’s website here! And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 7, 2019 • 22min
GHY Minisode 018
On this edition of the Weekly Beef, Misty & Lisa check in on their homework from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and Lisa shares a listener experience from someone who used the official 7 Habits training at their workplace. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 3, 2019 • 1h 1min
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey
This week we review the mega-popular bestseller The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey. The 7 Habits was first published in 1989 and has sold over 25 million copies. In 1996, Times magazine named Stephen Covey one of the 25 most influential people. So this is a huge book! Lisa and Misty cover each of the habits in this 7 Habits of Highly Effective People book review: Be Proactive Begin With the End In Mind Put First Things First Think Win-Win Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood Synergize Sharpen the Saw If you'd like to read it, you can purchase the book here. And check out the author's website here! We also love to follow @jameelajamilofficial and her @i_weigh movement on instagram. According, to Jameela, she started this "for us to feel valuable and see how amazing we are beyond the flesh on our bones." Highly recommend! And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Go Help Yourself!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Apr 30, 2019 • 28min
GHY Minisode 17
On this edition of the Weekly Beef, Misty checks in on her homework from Rich Dad, Poor Dad. Plus, we share a listener story and Misty asks a thought-provoking question: how do you turn someone down in a way that makes them feel good?Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands