

The Addicted Mind Podcast
Duane Osterlind, LMFT
"The Addicted Mind Podcast" offers hope, understanding, and guidance for those dealing with addiction, with real stories and research to inspire and show the journey to recovery is worth it.We're here to do more than just talk about addiction. We want to show you how to heal and recover.Our talks with experts and people who have beaten addiction give you important insights into how addiction affects the mind and how recovery can happen in many ways. Whether we're looking at new treatment ideas or sharing stories that inspire, "The Addicted Mind Podcast" is all about understanding the complex world of addiction recovery and showing that recovery is possible.If you or someone you care about is dealing with the challenges of addiction, let "The Addicted Mind Podcast" be your friend and guide. We aim to give you the knowledge you need, share stories that inspire you, and show you that the journey to recovery is worth it.Subscribe now to be part of a community focused on learning, healing, and changing for the better. Your journey to a healthier mind and life begins right here.
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Feb 19, 2024 • 44min
272: Redefining Addiction Recovery with Ian McLoone
Discover a more empathetic approach to addiction care with Ian McLoone, a therapist whose personal battle with substance use offers a unique and insightful perspective. Throughout this discussion, Ian brings forth the importance of understanding the complex humanity behind addiction, advocating for personalized treatment plans that go beyond the traditional one-size-fits-all mentality. Ian shares the promise of harm reduction strategies for those not ready to take on full rehabilitation, and the role that therapists like Ian play in guiding individuals towards a healthier, substance-independent existence. By focusing on the individual's journey and the need for connection, this episode promises to reshape your views on the healing process and the resilience of those fighting addiction. Ian also unpacks the sober-curious movement, addressing the alarming statistic that a mere fraction of those with substance use disorders seek help, and he sheds light on how therapists can offer realistic support. The power and potential of support groups in nurturing recovery cannot be understated, given the innate human need for community and connection. Listen in to hear a heartfelt exchange that underscores the transformative potential of empathy in the realm of addiction treatment.In this episode, you will hear:
Exploring harm reduction and addiction therapy
Benefits of addiction Psychotherapy
The authenticity of personal goal-setting
Groups in addiction recovery
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Feb 15, 2024 • 16min
TAM+ EP6 Unstuck Your Thoughts: 7 Cognitive Distortions Sabotaging Your Recovery
Today's episode of Addicted Mind Plus is a game-changer for anyone feeling stuck in their journey toward sobriety. Hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive deep into the world of cognitive distortions - those tricky thought patterns that keep us from achieving our fullest potential and lock us in cycles of addiction. They shine a light on the top seven distortions, from all-or-nothing thinking to personalization and blame, and offer practical tips for challenging and changing these thoughts. Whether you're battling addiction, supporting someone who is, or just looking to understand your mind a little better, this episode is packed with insights and tools to help you reset your thinking and embrace a more positive, empowered life. Remember, changing how you think can truly change your life.Download the “Unstuck your thoughts: 7 Cognitive Distortions Sabotaging Your Recovery Worksheet” ~ Click HereKey Topics:- The impact of cognitive distortions on addiction- Overcoming all-or-nothing thinking- The power of challenging negative thoughts- Recognizing and reframing mental filters- The importance of acknowledging positive steps in recoveryKey Moments Timestamps:- [00:01:00] Introduction to cognitive distortions- [00:03:48] Discussing "all or nothing" thinking- [00:05:58] Exploring mental filters and their impact- [00:07:40] Addressing the habit of discounting the positive- [00:09:23] How jumping to conclusions affects us- [00:11:24] The problem with labeling ourselves- [00:13:48] The importance of challenging cognitive distortionsFollow and Review:We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple ‘+’ in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.Supporting Resources:If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery CenterNovusMindfulLife.comWe want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmindDisclaimer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 12, 2024 • 39min
271: Life After Heroin - Chris Dreisbach's Tale of Redemption and Aid
Discover resilience and hope as Chris Dreisbach takes us on his harrowing yet uplifting journey from heroin addiction to recovery and entrepreneurial triumph. His narrative illuminates the power of a compassionate justice system and the profound influence it had on his life, leading him to establish sober living homes and the Second Chance PA program. It's not just Chris's story that will captivate you, but also how his dedication to paying it forward has created a beacon of possibility for those still navigating their own struggles with addiction. Feel the weight of vulnerability and the strength of emotional breakthroughs in our heartfelt discussion on personal growth. Duane also shares a poignant episode from a suicide prevention conference, a moment that reshaped public emotion for him and underscores the importance of embracing change and community support. As they unpack the relentless pursuit of self-improvement, let Chris's story serve as a reminder: no matter where we are on our path, the journey toward becoming our best selves is a continuous, shared endeavor. Lastly, witness how individual battles with addiction can ignite a movement and establish a support network that reaches far and wide. From building sober living houses to the comprehensive treatment center blueprints, Chris's mission has created a ripple effect of positivity. We also spotlight the Night of Recovery events, a testament to the community's collective power to educate, love, and support.In this episode, you will hear:
Impact and passion for helping others
Transformation through a halfway house
Transitioning into helping others with sobriety
The power of small actions in changing
Community recovery nights with surprise guests
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Feb 8, 2024 • 20min
TAM+ EP5 Rumination: I Can't Get This Thought Out Of My Head
In this episode of TAM+, hosts Duane and Eric delve into the concept of rumination, shedding light on its impact and providing practical strategies to navigate it. They define rumination as repetitive thought patterns, often negative, that loop incessantly in our minds. Through insightful conversation, they dissect different types of rumination, such as brooding, intrusive, reflective, and deliberate, each with its own nuances and effects. They discuss how rumination can lead to anxiety and depression and offer actionable advice on breaking free from its grip. By embracing mindfulness, welcoming intrusive thoughts, and engaging in activities that demand full attention, listeners can begin to mitigate the effects of rumination and regain mental clarity.Are you struggling with negative thoughts? Get the $7 eBook “I Can’t Get This Thought Out Of My Head: 5 Ways To Conquer Rumination” Get The eBook Here.Key Topics Bullet Points:
Defining rumination and its impact on mental health
The difference between rumination and reflection
Types of rumination: brooding, intrusive, and deliberate
Strategies to manage and overcome rumination
The importance of mindfulness and physical activity in breaking the rumination cycle
Timestamps of Key Moments:
[00:00] Introduction to rumination with Duane and Eric Osterlind
[01:10] Personal experiences with rumination
[03:09] Understanding the negative impact of rumination
[07:20] Different types of rumination explained
[11:17] Strategies to manage rumination effectively
[15:15] Combining mindfulness with cognitive and physical strategies
[18:07] Resources and final thoughts on managing rumination
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Feb 5, 2024 • 35min
270: From Trauma's Depths to Therapeutic Heights with Jason VanRuler
Embark on a transformative journey with Jason VanRuler, a therapist who's turned his own battles with trauma and addiction into a roadmap for healing. Together, Duane and Jason unravel the profound impact of rewriting our inner narratives, a process that Jason has not only lived but also lays out in his latest work, "Get Past Your Past." His story is a testament that even the deepest wounds can lead to a future bright with wholeness and well-being. Listen as they delve into the steps that can liberate us from the chains of our history and ignite the spark of change within. Shifting from a relentless pursuit of proving worth to embracing genuine happiness, they tackle the entrenched beliefs keeping many from their true potential. Their conversation illuminates the path from 'doing' to 'being,' where success blooms from authenticity, not fear. Discover the importance of guidance, community, and role models in personal growth, and revel in the hope that comes from witnessing lives rebuilt. Jason's journey and insights offer a beacon of hope, proving that transformation is within reach for all who seek it.In this episode, you will hear:
Shifting mindset and challenging core beliefs
Finding authenticity and creating safe spaces
Importance of clear instructions for achieving change
Building a community for mental wellness
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Feb 1, 2024 • 16min
TAM+ EP4 Unstuck & Unstoppable: Navigating Change with the Stages of Change Model
This episode dives into the Stages of Change Model, a powerful tool for understanding and navigating personal growth. Hosts Duane and Eric explore the six stages: pre-contemplation, contemplation, preparation, action, maintenance, and relapse. They emphasize the model's humanistic approach, acknowledging that change is a non-linear journey with room for setbacks and restarts. Learn how to identify your current stage, overcome obstacles, and move towards lasting positive change.Download: Stages of Change ModelKey Topics:
The six stages of the Stages of Change Model
Recognizing your current stage of change
Overcoming challenges in each stage
Moving from contemplation to action
The role of relapse in the change process
Applying the model to personal growth and addiction recovery
Timestamps:
Introduction (00:00-01:00)
Overview of the Stages of Change Model (01:00-03:32)
Deep Dive into the Six Stages (03:32-10:47)
Addressing Criticisms and Benefits of the Model (10:47-12:26)
Practical Applications and Resources (12:26-15:39)
Bonus:Download the free worksheet on the Stages of Change Model in the show notes!Download: Stages of Change ModelWe want to hear from you!Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 29, 2024 • 43min
269: Climbing Out of Despair with Hope as Our Guide with Robert Hilliker, PhD
Embark on a transformative journey through the landscapes of hope and despair with the esteemed Robert Hilliker, whose expertise in addiction and mental health frames our latest episode. Discover the vital role hope plays in recovery, and how it intertwines with the darkest moments to create a fertile ground for growth. With Robert's guidance, examine the genetic and environmental threads that weave the tapestry of addiction, the indispensability of early intervention, and why a strong community network can dramatically alter one's life course. Feel the weight of hopelessness lift as Robert and Duane dissect its components – goals, pathways, and agency – and their crucial presence in clinical treatment. The conversation challenges the conventions of traditional recovery models, advocating for a renewed sense of personal empowerment in the healing process. They will explore the burgeoning research collaboration with the University of Alberta, piecing together the clinical impact of hope and its potential to enhance therapeutic practices. This episode is a testament to the collective strength found in shared experiences and the community's role in rekindling the embers of hope within the throes of despair. Through personal narratives and clinical wisdom, Robert and Duane underscore the significance of embracing our valleys of struggle, where the soil is richest for personal transformation. Join in as they affirm the power of connection and the shared human experience in forging paths of recovery and hope.In this episode, you will hear:
Early intervention and community support
Misconceptions and blame in addiction treatment
Variables impacting therapeutic change
Hope and support in addiction recovery
The connection between hope and despair (75 seconds)
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Jan 25, 2024 • 16min
TAM+ EP3: Navigating the Next Steps: Thriving Beyond Sobriety
Are you feeling stuck or uncertain about your next steps after achieving sobriety? In the latest episode of "The Addicted Mind Plus," hosts Duane Osterlind and Eric Osterlind dive into this crucial yet often overlooked aspect of recovery. They explore four foundational pillars designed to guide you towards a fulfilling life beyond sobriety. This episode is a treasure trove of personal insights and practical advice on the importance of reflection, setting meaningful personal goals, building supportive communities, and seeking professional help. Whether you're newly sober or have been on this path for a while, you'll find a roadmap for thriving in your newfound life, emphasizing joy, connection, and personal growth. Join us for an engaging and thought-provoking discussion that promises to inspire and equip you to navigate the next steps in your recovery journey.Main Points:1. Reflecting on the Journey: Emphasizing the power of journaling and gratitude to assess progress.2. Setting Personal Goals: Aligning goals with personal desires, not just societal expectations.3. Building Community: Encouraging the formation of supportive relationships and communities based on shared interests.4. Seeking Professional Help: Utilizing therapy or specialized coaching to navigate feelings of stuckness and further personal development.Time Stamps:- [00:01:14]: Introduction to the episode's main topic: What to do after achieving sobriety and feeling stuck.- [00:01:56]: Discussion of the four main pillars to address the feeling of being stuck.- [00:02:34]: Pillar 1 - Reflection: Importance of journaling and acknowledging both positive and negative aspects of the past year.- [00:05:16]: Pillar 2 - Setting Goals: Creating personal goals and ensuring they align with true personal desires rather than societal expectations.- [00:08:16]: Pillar 3 - Building Community: Importance of investing in communities and relationships that bring joy and support.- [00:11:24]: Pillar 4 - Seeking Professional Help: Advantages of therapy or coaching, especially when feeling secure in recovery.Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmindSupporting Resources: Disclaimer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 22, 2024 • 41min
268: Unveiling the Success of Cold Laser Therapy in Addiction with Meridee Hlokoff
The moment Meridee Hlokoff realized she'd driven hours without the faintest whisper of a craving was nothing short of miraculous. In this episode, Meridee recounts her incredible transition from a habitual smoker to a smoke-free champion, all thanks to the somewhat mystifying world of cold laser therapy. The conversation peels back the veil on addiction, examining how deeply physical cravings and psychological triggers are intertwined, and how Meridee's skepticism turned to awe-inspiring affirmation of this unconventional treatment's effectiveness. Victory over addiction rarely comes easy or without its own set of battles, and Meridee's tale is a testament to this truth. Through her narrative, they explore the reality that even after conquering physical dependency, the mental chains of addiction can linger, presenting their own hurdles. Her personal anecdotes shed light on the strategies she employed to navigate through the common triggers of boredom and stress, offering hope to those still fighting the psychological war that persists even after the physical need has subsided. Bringing a blend of science and personal experience to the table, they uncover the surprising success rates behind cold laser therapy and acupuncture. Meridee doesn't just share her story; she provides a beacon of hope, illuminating the journey for others by acquiring the business that once freed her from her own addiction. Together, they examine how support systems and strategic interventions can pave new neural pathways, reinforcing that recovery is a comprehensive journey of both body and mind. In this episode, you will hear:
Exploring cold laser therapy for addiction
Understanding addiction and breaking habits
Cold laser therapy success rates and discovery
Effectiveness of tongue rings in treatments
Cold laser therapy for addiction
Overcoming addiction with new neural pathways
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Jan 18, 2024 • 18min
TAM+ EP2: Unpacking Primary vs. Secondary Emotions: A Path to Improved Mental Health
Do you want to improve your emotional regulation and decision-making? I will be sharing the key to achieving greater emotional control and better choices. Learn the secret to enhancing your ability to manage your feelings and make sound decisions. Discover the solution to experiencing improved emotional regulation and better decision-making in your life.Download the “Distinguishing between Primary Vs. Secondary Emotions Worksheet”In this episode, you will be able to:
Discover effective strategies for mental health and addiction recovery.
Learn to identify and manage primary and secondary emotions.
Explore the principles of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for emotional regulation.
Cultivate mindfulness and self-reflection for improved emotional well-being.
Understand the impact of trauma on decision-making processes.
Effective Mental Health StrategiesUnderstanding and managing primary and secondary emotions are crucial strategies for effective mental health. These strategies involve recognizing the differences between valid and genuine emotional responses versus responses that arise from judgments of these primary emotions. This enables individuals to maintain emotional balance by preventing secondary emotions from amplifying the intensity of primary emotions.The resources mentioned in this episode are:
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